I'm so lost and broken, I need advice...Help...Please? |
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 Apr 27 2005, 08:44 PM
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I hurt a guy that I love...I hurt him really badly and that caused our breakup. We hadn't talked ofr a month and now we talk again. I went ot his house today and we had an amazing night....I now realize how bad i screwed up. Him and I both want eachother...But he's afraid of commiment and he claims to have no feelings...for anythign....I know he does....we were so....intimate tonight and I just dont know wat to do...I want him back and it hurts really bad......I'm so lost...My heart aches and longs for him....I want him back and I just dont know what to do. We talked tonight online and we both made good points...I know he felt something...He did...I know it....He's going to sleep on it and talk to me tomorow....What should I do? Should I wait? Should I move on? What?
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Apr 27 2005, 08:50 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Hmm...I think you should tell him how you feel & ask him straight up if he has feelings for you.
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Apr 27 2005, 08:52 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
do you honestly know that he has feelings for you or do you just really hope so? it seems like you want to believe that he has feelings for you like he used to...he said he didn't have feelings for you and that he didn't want to commit... having an intimate night doesn't really mean anything...he could have used you just to get whatever happened.
you should just wait until his reply but don't keep your hopes too high... |
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Apr 27 2005, 08:53 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(xSWEETxCANDiix @ Apr 27 2005, 9:50 PM) Hmm...I think you should tell him how you feel & ask him straight up if he has feelings for you.  I do agree.  Communication is key.... You really should let him know completely how you feel, and then see if he feels the same. If he feels the same, then I guess you should go for it. If he doesn't feel the same in a negative way, then just be friends or move on. |
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Apr 27 2005, 08:53 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,681 |
Thanks....Thats what we talked about and he just doesnt know....He says he's got nothihg. He doesnt know what love is anymore....i guess.....ill figure it all out...thanks for replying...
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Apr 27 2005, 09:01 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE("") Him and I both want eachother Well what's the problem isn't it? You want each other. But do you NEED each other? There is a significant difference between the two, and it seems right now he doesn't need you. (may change in the future) If he's afraid of commitment then well...what more can I say? But also keep in mind that when you hurt someone...it will take a LONG LONG time to gain that trust back. Especially from guys... ...however this attitude on his part isn't very uncommon...after such a breakup he'll need some affection. It seems like he's slightly using you to keep his lonely phase away. But he could be doing this with other females as well...have you thought of that? You dealed first blood by hurting him...he deals second...he gets last laugh because you want him back, but he doesn't want you. move on honeh~ -Kevyn |
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Apr 28 2005, 11:13 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
QUOTE Hmm...I think you should tell him how you feel & ask him straight up if he has feelings for you. Agreed. |
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Apr 28 2005, 11:15 PM
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Express you feeling toward him.
"Hmm...I think you should tell him how you feel & ask him straight up if he has feelings for you." Like they said. |
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Apr 29 2005, 03:31 AM
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 147. Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,787 |
talk it thru.. its never too late for anotehr chance as long as u know wat ur doing this time.. : )
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