Kids TRYing to be MATURE, heh.. Options

[lovescream]

I know what you mean! My sister is 11 and she has a bf!!! Im like what the hell!!

lol, okay, and tell me how long they stay together.


omfg, I'm 11, and I had a bf. i had a crush on him, and he had a crush on me. so he claimed that he LOVED me when I only claimed to LIKE him. ... LOVE is the keyword. No love in 6th grade! dammit! so I agree, but it's making me sound so hyprocritical since it's my age. But in my point of view, it's like the new style of young kids. To others, it's life. To other people, they think the kids are too young.

[jue]

i see that; but i think it also occurs with older people too.
ones that try to act all tough and the ones that think that they could just push you around.

[thaichic192]

That's sometimes the affect of puberty. They're not trying to be "mature", just...well, if you ask me, the media is corrupting our inferior little minds. Haha, wait, that was stereotypical...All I'm saying is, sometimes older teens are so hard on middle schoolers, but it's just puberty. I do disagree w/ sexual intercourse and things like that, but hey, we're not in control of their behavior. And if you're in elementary relationships are basically just puppy love, I think that's cute.

[lovescream]

*waves* hi, pam!

Mhm. She's right, it is puberty sorta.. I never really thought about that. But hormones do effect why you want a bf and gf. (: ha, good point!

[thaichic192]

*waves* Hey! >_< Didn't think you'd recognize me. Trying to think up of a statement to say so this won't be spam... About the cussing, that's incredibly dull. I mean, almost everyone curses, but if it's an over usage and they're saying "nigga" and all that crap then...Just wondering, what's the purpose of cussing? Where does it really originate from and why is it so...widely used?

[*x____duckii*]

^they're not, they just think it's "in" to have a bf/gf.. and they think it's real friggin love, too.

That's what annoys me about most of these freakin kids... they can't even tell love and lust apart. The word "love" is just used too loosely.

[vehvih]

This is a response coming from a girl who attends a middle school:

Please do remember when you were young.. when you heard the word 'sex' some of you giggled, jerked, were disgusted whatev. Just like what kids are today.

You see, I'm not a typical 14 year old you would see on streets walking around feeling all that.. I came from a place [Philippines] where I learned so many things and know things that are different from what kids in my school know. From sex education [learned what orgasm meant when I was 3rd grade], friendships, religion, other culture, crossing a flood, different societies, internet world, eating with my hands, using a cab around 9 pm all alone etc.

My old school [which is in Philippines] made an important role in my life who mold me into what I am right now.. my current school is the fcking making me retarted which is in Cali.

The school I am attending right now has the fcking lowest standards compare to other middle schools here. My english teacher told us that every middle school at this area are different from each other.. she told us that we are different from other school because of the culture of the school.

Hell this is fcking long..

The culture in my school is gay. Like the typical gayness you would see around high school.. but our's is dumber. Some kids in my school would laugh at achievements, threat other kids even though what those kids have done are pretty shallow, assume the gossips, be perverted even though the perverted jokes aren't that funny at all [you know what I mean], bring down other kids even though they just made a simple mistake, cuss everything, if they hate someone they would call that someone as bitch, slut, whore and many more, hate people who doesn't believe in God [which is me ], prove that they're tough by telling off someone who just committed a simple mistake or fight them, smoke pot before school, go out with others who they don't really love.. some are just for fame.. some are just for sex.. some are just puppy love, answer teachers' backs, question authorities, etc. Jesus, there are more than these.

Yeah, they're still kids and fcked up.. want to be old enough to make decision for themselves; but who do you think is responsible for this? Where the fck did they learn how to smoke pot and threat other kids? Who really needs to teach them? Who the hell here was a kid before?

You and the older generation.

Kids learn things from adults, pornos, MTV, internet, media etc. They basically learn things from ahead of them. How about me? I did too learn things from adults, pornos, MTV, internet, media, etc. and of course my current school who made me distiguish the differences of the following, and my self.

You could stay here ranting.. but if you do not want something or have got a problem with it.. change it or change your attitude towards it.

Some kids do really annoy me.. but I don't really care about them regarding their pointless actions. I do deal some of them if it's necessary.

[HelloSunshine]

Oh,my friend, you don't know the half of it. I am thee only 12 year old in my class that doesn't curse. [outload, you'd never cath me alive cussing, hey doesn't hurt to think it] 11 year olds cuss. 9 year olds in realtionships. Times have changed. Alot.

[rOckThISshYt]

I curse all the time. I'm 13. For most kids it probably is a thing about maturity. For me, it's more of a habit. I'm just always surrounded by it. It rubs off on you, ya know? But I totally get the picture and I'm not offended. It annoys me to know end when people say a curse after every word. I do when I'm mad but that's only when I'm yelling at someone. I have a good reason then.

About the whole "I love you thing"... I've had an 18 year old tell me that and actually want me to believe that. Okay, I might be thirteen but I'm not a damn fool. So please don't think that it's only us using the term lightly. I don't any more. I used to maybe. But I do also think that love doesn't have an age limit. I am in love and I don't say it to anyone else. Well, I do. But it's like my friends and other people when we're joking around.

But I get your point and I totally understand.

[T_R_G]

Theyre only little kids
they dont know the true meaning of mature yet
i say just let them act how they want to
if thats what they think being mature is then so be it
in time they will grow up and laugh at themselves when they look back at what they thought was cool and mature.
blame it on propoganda the media and even their own families if you want
but in due time they will get out of that stage
all thats needed is time

[funbobby]

Theyre only little kids
they dont know the true meaning of mature yet
i say just let them act how they want to
if thats what they think being mature is then so be it
in time they will grow up and laugh at themselves when they look back at what they thought was cool and mature.
blame it on propoganda the media and even their own families if you want
but in due time they will get out of that stage
all thats needed is time

How old are you then? 15?
Pretentious wannabe twat... Seriously its your type that makes this planet the sickening cess pool that it is

[gOODpIRATE]

dating in middle school is pretty much a waste of time to me, you just break up anyway...but i guess its okay for the experience. i knew in middle school, going through a relationship, your always going to get your heart broken at the end. and most of the time i was right.

as for cursing goes, and eleven year old guy cursing isn't the best thing to listen to.

[Eryi]

I agree, but they do what ever they want, you can't make them what you want to be.

[prettylotus]

I hear loads of people at my school cuss like crazy... When my best friend and I hear my friends cuss, we hit them... They still cuss, so I guess we didn't make our point...
But most kids and teens think cussing and being in a relationship is mature because they are surrounded by that stuff everyday... Their parents and freinds cuss and they see stuff about relationships on TV... They start thinking that's the "cool" thing to do... It's not so cool when later on you have a job and problem with your boss and start using foul language at him on impulse... It's totally ridiculous... And if you have so many relationships and break up with them, how will you know later on in life when you found true love?? You would think they are like everyone else you dated... That would really stink...

[weirdness]

true to everything besides 12 year olds roaming around in online forums

[T_R_G]

How old are you then? 15?
Pretentious wannabe twat... Seriously its your type that makes this planet the sickening cess pool that it is

seems like i should of put my whole train of thought down but i didnt.
i myself dont know the true meaning of mature and what its like... i mean who does? really
people like me(whatever the hell you think about me that i dont know) are needed in this world.
all types are
your grandiose illusions of a perfect world will never happen because it isnt reality
i myself think a perfect world is one that is totally imperfect like the one we live in now

how about you? are you implying that if people on this planet are like you or of your type are in that range is what this world needs? its what wont make this "planet a cess pool?"
geeze

[HongKongDong]

How old are you then? 15?
Pretentious wannabe twat... Seriously its your type that makes this planet the sickening cess pool that it is

Hahahahah... you know... you are exactly what you say he is.
=)

[angel-roh]

it's annoying when 12 year old kids who thinks they are the gangstas like the game and 50 cent. and just cuss thinking that they are cool when they are not because it's annoying. But still, these days... who cares about it? I mean ages 17 to 20 cusses too? So 12 year old can't? I think 12 years old and 17 years old is like the same thing. Well I think it's a good thing that the kids are trying to be mature because being an immature is sometimes annoying. I guess they just want to grow up. Leave them alone I guess.

[*x____duckii*]

^ I'd rather hang out with an immature kid than someone that's trying to be cool and "mature". And while it is true that people from 17-20 cuss, you don't hear them doing it all the time and they don't do it to be "cool". Twelve year olds do cuss to be cool. Trust me, I would know, I'm forced to be surrounded by people like that in school.

[funbobby]

seems like i should of put my whole train of thought down but i didnt.
i myself dont know the true meaning of mature and what its like... i mean who does? really
people like me(whatever the hell you think about me that i dont know) are needed in this world.
all types are
your grandiose illusions of a perfect world will never happen because it isnt reality
i myself think a perfect world is one that is totally imperfect like the one we live in now

how about you? are you implying that if people on this planet are like you or of your type are in that range is what this world needs? its what wont make this "planet a cess pool?"
geeze

My god you are so arrogant! How the hell does your ego fit through your front door every day?

Also the other girlm, who are you directing that comment at? if not at me I like you.

[NgocQuyen]

ha...this topic is interesting....even though im not supposed to be considered a little kid anymore im supposed to be considered a teenager since im in my teens....i still consider myself a little kid...haha...i mean i dont pay my own bills and i dont buy my own food and i dont pay rent....im a little kid...hahaha but to the point...there are some kids out there that try to act all hard and stuffs...and they just try to act mature and stuffs.....it irritates me...but i really dont tend to think of it that much..when i see a little kid trying to act older then me...and i just laugh...because in my head...i bet that when they get home and stuffs..they dare not do all that cursing around their parents...they just sit on their living room floor and watch spongebob....muwhaha...

[HongKongDong]

My god you are so arrogant! How the hell does your ego fit through your front door every day?

Also the other girlm, who are you directing that comment at? if not at me I like you.

Ego? Wtf, how does his ego fit into all of this? Hes just putting down what he thinks, if anything the person with the ego problem here is you.

[bloodxmoon]

hmm this is an interesting point, people are growing up alot faster today. i have nothing wrong with the middle schoolers doing what they want, but its a bit sad how fast people are growing up. you only get to be younbg once you know...
heh, i have alot to say on this point and was about to go inot this big rant but my mind just went blank. ahh well. well, if they want to act older, ok, i dont mind, its only when they act all high and mighty that it bothers me. but whatever...my brain just died, i'm gonna go get some coffee or something... *wanders off sort of dazzed*

[LeSLiE]

Please don't just say "middle schoolers" say "MOST middle schoolers"... because I don't believe I'm as stupid and IMmature as them.

That's one of the reasons why I hate my school. People go around saying the "f word" thinking it's cool. And if they have weed or any other kind of drug, they have to go around showing/telling EVERYONE. Another thing, I'm getting sick and tired of people who laugh at things that aren't funny. For example, the other day this idiot in the halls threw a water bottle filled with rocks in the air. It hit someone in the back, and people got hit by some of the rocks. People laughed like crazy... Eh, hopefully in high school there will be atleast some people at my level of maturity.

Also, I have a friend that moved here from Hong Kong a year ago. He gets made fun of a LOT. A few months ago, this guy came up to him and said "hey foo go back to fcuking china. we don need you hea." (This guy was Mexican.) His buddy was listening, and he came up and pat him on the back and started cracking up.... I don't see what's so hilarious. I wanted to slap him..

[HoodieObsessed]

Please don't just say "middle schoolers" say "MOST middle schoolers"... because I don't believe I'm as stupid and IMmature as them.

That's one of the reasons why I hate my school. People go around saying the "f word" thinking it's cool. And if they have weed or any other kind of drug, they have to go around showing/telling EVERYONE. Another thing, I'm getting sick and tired of people who laugh at things that aren't funny. For example, the other day this idiot in the halls threw a water bottle filled with rocks in the air. It hit someone in the back, and people got hit by some of the rocks. People laughed like crazy... Eh, hopefully in high school there will be atleast some people at my level of maturity.

Also, I have a friend that moved here from Hong Kong a year ago. He gets made fun of a LOT. A few months ago, this guy came up to him and said "hey foo go back to fcuking china. we don need you hea." (This guy was Mexican.) His buddy was listening, and he came up and pat him on the back and started cracking up.... I don't see what's so hilarious. I wanted to slap him..

EDIT

I had a huge speech but ti's kinda long and you probalby don't want to read it so bye bye

instead I'll answer her question:

*waves* Hey! >_< Didn't think you'd recognize me. Trying to think up of a statement to say so this won't be spam... About the cussing, that's incredibly dull. I mean, almost everyone curses, but if it's an over usage and they're saying "nigga" and all that crap then...Just wondering, what's the purpose of cussing? Where does it really originate from and why is it so...widely used?

when uhhh someone took the english language from someone else they didn't like the guy so they made their original words for uhhh pooh and sex and uhh I cna't remember hwat else and made them bad?

AHHHHH, I can't remember the explanation!! darn it, well ti's soemitnhg like that, durrr, I ahve to go dang it, I'll look it up later