i dont know where else to put this, but i need help please.... |
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 Apr 10 2004, 10:37 AM
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my friend just comitted suicide last night.. i dont know what to do!! i am so confused.. it is so sureal.. he was the last person i thought would do this... please help me
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Apr 10 2004, 10:40 AM
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pray.
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Apr 10 2004, 03:18 PM
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Visit his family and start mourning.
I'm sorry dude... - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Apr 10 2004, 06:26 PM
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I don't know whether I'm the person to be giving advice on this, but I figure what the heck, it's wortha shot.
Two of my friends have commited suicide. I'm still not through the first one, my best friend Curan's. SHe shot herself after I had been on the phone with her. It was my fault. People tell me that it wasn't and I couldn't have stopped it, but it was. What I guess I'm trying to tell you is, don't blame it on yourself. You still have the chance to think otherwise. I've tried to kill myself many times since Curan killed herself. Another thing is, at first it came just as if it were all a dream, like any moment I'd simply wake up and it'd just be the same as it always had been. Sometimes I still go through days like that. Two years later. It's normal. A way to help you get through things is to try and forget everything that might make you put the blame on yourself. That's my problem. The only thing I can remember is the last thing I said to her. Maybe the last thing you said to them was a realy good goodbye. Maybe it wasn't. One huge problem people have is that they didn't get a chance to say goodbye. My way of saying goodbye happens everyday for me. Over and over again. Every mornign I wake up with either Edward or Curan on my mind. Everyday I read a poem I wrote about them right after they passed away. That helps me. You should try and find something that helps you cope. Something healthy. I guess I'm typing all of this now because I don't want this to cause you to end up anything like me. I don't know you. I'll probably never meet you in real life, but I know the hell I go through everyday. Hating myself. Cutting. Suicide attempts. EVerything. I just don't want anyone else to go through anything like that. I'm very sorry for what has happened. My prayers are with you. |
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Apr 10 2004, 08:01 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
 aw... wow... i would recall the past memories i had wit him and remember the good times we had... and if u did then u should be happy cuz it wont happen anymore.. and cherish the times u guys spent together.. and hope his family will feel better... and i dunno but i knoe being sad wont help so smile 
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Apr 10 2004, 08:31 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
im soo srry
its very ironic of me tellin 2 this b/c ive tired 2 commit suicide couple times my self but for me 2 suppres those feelins i try 2 keep myself occupid n tlk 2 my friends bout my problems n they help a lot tellin ppl how u feel will help u dont keep all the feelins inside |
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Apr 10 2004, 08:33 PM
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do the best you can to comfort his family..
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