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 Apr 24 2005, 07:04 PM
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 jiyOunnn~  Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706  |
Alright, so you see I like this guy a LOT. My friend used to like him and most likely still does, but she keeps denying it which pisses me off like crazy. Plus, she knows that I won't mind cause we're friends.. and I'm not that type. She even used to like him twice before. Sometimes she even talks about him more than I do, which makes it even more obvious. At times when I would wonder if he liked me or not, she would make me look like a complete moron by going up to him and asking him if he liked me or not right in front of my face. She even asks for his phone number in public with his friends that don't know I like him. Then when we go to the mall, she says "OHH LOOK WHO HAS THOSE SHOES!" and they're the exact ones he has. Even when I don't mention him she talks about him.. Then she even shows me this MASH shit she did and the husband was him. I got so pissed and I just know she likes him.
 err. But fortunately, I know for sure he doesn't like her.~THEN this girl starts trying to steal all my friends away and drag them away from me.. Once i start becoming closer to someone, she has to too and butt in. When I told her i liked my crush, she started talking to him more and getting more near him. She always makes my friends go with her to places and shit like that. She ALWAYS has to have it her way. Then, my crush isn't talking to me as much anymore. He used to go online evryday and talked to me but now he doesn't. My other friend asked him why and he said his sn got hacked and all his buddies got deleted. Maybe he's lying? I don't know.. These days he seems REALLY DEAD. I didn't talk to him in a while too. But, the thing is I really really really really <3 him and there's like no way to talk to him as much and ask him things I need to ask. EHH.. help me guys. What should I do? |
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Apr 24 2005, 07:07 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
It sounds like you have some trust issues. It does kinda sound like your friend likes him but I wouldn't get pissed at her for it. I'd talk to your friend about it and tell her not to talk about him anymore if it makes you uncomfortable.
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Apr 24 2005, 07:14 PM
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Ok, so I think the real issue is between you and your friend. Are you really going allow a guy to come in between that? The simple truth that some girls compete (even with their friends) especially when comes to two friends liking the same guy. Some friends wont date a guy if they know that their friend likes him and some friends have that whoever gets him first thing going on. You need to tell her how you feel first. Because if she is not aware of how you feel then why would you continue to mad at her when you havent sat down and talked about the issue. Once you guys get your friendship problems resolved then you can figure out what to do about you crush...wow this was long, I feel like Dear Abby or something....
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Apr 24 2005, 07:16 PM
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jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
lols, in fact she DOES KNOW HOW I FEEL. >< that's the thing..
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Apr 24 2005, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(xlaydee_v @ Apr 24 2005, 8:16 PM) lols, in fact she DOES KNOW HOW I FEEL. >< that's the thing..  Hmmm...what kinda friend is she?? Two can play that game girl. If you like a him alot then go for it!! Seeing that I think your friend is being kinda selfish. |
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Apr 24 2005, 07:27 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Talk to your friend about this....and if she continues to be like this...tell her off and tell her to stop denying it. Instead of her asking him why he stopped going online and all that...why don't you question him about it yourself? Go up to him and talk to him about your feelings...if you really like him that much..
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Apr 24 2005, 08:00 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
talk to ur friend..if she continues to act like that, I say get a new friend..and if u really like him tell him u do...
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Apr 24 2005, 09:52 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
tell her to stop. she doesnt seem much like a friend at all. talk to the boy... maybe she'll stop.
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Apr 25 2005, 11:52 AM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
Hmmm, that's tough. Especially with someone in the way. You could try to get closer to your crush and talk to your friend. Tell her to stop denying everything and that you want to talk things out.
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Apr 25 2005, 12:00 PM
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If she knows you like him, and she keeps acting the way she is, she's not a good friend.
Tell her to stop; say you aren't comfortable with the way she's acting...tell her it pisses you off. If she keeps acting like that... QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 24 2005, 5:19 PM) Two can play that game girl. If you like a him alot then go for it!! As for the guy...find something casual to talk about, then IM him. Hopefully things will build from there. I know it might be hard; it happened to me once. And as for the girl who keeps trying to pull your friends away from you...I guess you should just ignore her for now. I have the same problem right now, but my friends eventually ended up hating her. Haha. Hopefully the same thing will happen with you. |
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Apr 25 2005, 01:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Does this friend or the guy know you like him? If the friend did, here somes another cat fight..
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Apr 25 2005, 03:29 PM
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jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
QUOTE(JAMx33 @ Apr 25 2005, 1:33 PM) Does this friend or the guy know you like him? If the friend did, here somes another cat fight.. lols BOTH know i like him |
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Apr 25 2005, 04:29 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
wow...trust issues...n yea...she's not a friend. she doesnt care wat u think n she only cares about herself. basically she's just using u. i wouldnt talk to her n e more if i were u. n as for the guy u like...well...next time u talk to him, ask him for his number n get to know him better?? n the girl who steals ur friends...dont hang out with her n e more. only way to get her off ur back. i wouldnt even talk to her about it. just stop talking to her...but that's just me
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Apr 28 2005, 08:58 PM
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well she doesnt own him so i dont think its your fault. oh and wassup vania its jane w. ahaha your friend is being a real jerk, like i said hes not all hers so go ahead and be aggressive >=) if she tries to steal your friends go ahead and take them back
QUOTE Hmmm, that's tough. Especially with someone in the way. You could try to get closer to your crush and talk to your friend. Tell her to stop denying everything and that you want to talk things out. ^ i also agree with what juliana said |
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Apr 28 2005, 09:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
it smells like your jealous of your friend... and some trust issues w/ her... i shouldnt be talkin, i would of felt the same way -- just talk to the guy even if he dont wanna talk, tell him to listen up
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Apr 29 2005, 09:13 PM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
yes vania....
forgive your enemies. ill try doing that goosefraba thing on you in math when mr. green breen isnt looking :) yea and jenny DOES like him its so obvious but i really would like it if you guys dont fight. lols remember chris happy happy joy joy |
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Apr 30 2005, 12:05 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
wow.
if it's absolutely true that your friend's crush doesn't like her, then as a friend, tell her that. it's best if she moves on now before she really gets hurt. then again, she might think you want her crush all to yourself and that might kill your friendship. maybe your friend should ask her crush how he feels about her and she might get the message. as for that girl, she really wants to make you jealous. if your friend were real friends, wouldn't they stick by you? or at least tell you to come along? don't tell her your crushes and don't act as if you're bothered by her taking your friends away and such 'cause she seems to enjoy hurting you. act as if you don't care and hang out with different people. as for your crush, it really seems like he's avoiding you and moving on, or it could be that he really is busy. just try to find him and talk to him since you like him so much. |
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Apr 30 2005, 12:05 AM
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first off..that is not a friend..second..yu need to talk to that girl that's ruining yur social life..and for the guy..i have no clue.
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May 1 2005, 02:09 PM
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jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
RAWRR! ok im going a bit ballistic, but like he in fact did like me like a month ago but im not sure if he still does lols
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