i hate my mom, why? Options

[ApocalypseAelis]

You are a whining, snotty little BRAT.



All mothers are like that, you should be very f**king glad she even lets you have a BF. And as for paying "bills," what bills do you pay? With whose money? Do you even have a job? My dear, the only job you'll ever get at this age will be selling lemonade.



I recommend running away. I don't believe you actually dare to make a post like this. Your mother is only trying to help you; and yet you keep complaining about her and you even RAN AWAY to burden your friends' parents? Who obviously didn't appreciate your "teenage" rebelliousness.


Run away, little child, run away to the sewers. I daresay you'll be more happy there, from the look of your post.

[Eryi]

Your born so young and stuff and you already have a boyfriend? The way I know it Chinese parents don't let their young ones date until 16 and older. Your 11-12 years old and your already paying the bills? I doubt that. Your not the right age to have a job and you still have an education. Your not a teenager, your still a child. My parents still bugs me, but their only trying to keep me away from trouble, and since your still a child I'd be like your mother and be more insecure about you. My mothers cool, she lets me hang out with friends, but you don't have to post this to bitch about your mother. She made you & wouldn't that mean she owns you? You shouldn't hate your mom so much. If you 'f**king' hate her so much why don't you move out all the 'money' you got? I'd understand if you were an 11-12 year old prostitute, but however stop bitching. She's your mother.
Oh yeah: How many time can you use 'f**k' in a sentence or in a paragraph? No ones teaching you well enough to let you expose that type of language.

i'm not bitching at you god you don't even know wat i just said i was talking to mzkandi

It doesn't matter who your talking to, we're one big family.

[canny]

Too bad...many moms are like that.

[jordanriane]

1. Stop acting like such a brat. It sounds as if though you have a supportive family (mother).
2. There is no need to run away, it's stupid and you're going to do yourself more harm then needed.
3. You need to realize that you are young. You have freedom, but you do not have freedom. Until you are legal and you move out from your mother, you have to live with her.
4. One day you're going to look back on this and you will think of yourself as an idiot, believe me.
5. You need to chill, just because your mom does not allow you to do simple things, does not mean you should hate her.

You haven't even graduated from eighth grade yet and you think you're old enough to do what you please, have any freedom you want, and have total control of your own life? Come on now, think realistic. You can't even drive yet, nor are you even a teenager. You're growing, your young and your mom is protecting you.

You'll be thankful for your mother when you're older. You'll realize that she only does what she does because she loves you. Who cares if she wants you off the phone--don't fight it, just get off and deal with it. THat's life, and if you don't like it, well, oh well, you'll have to deal with it. Nothing can ever be your way 100%.

I'd also suggest not running away again. Should your mom decide to call the police, she has the option for you to go to an audi house. You do not want to go that route.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

1. Stop acting like such a brat. It sounds as if though you have a supportive family (mother).
2. There is no need to run away, it's stupid and you're going to do yourself more harm then needed.
3. You need to realize that you are young. You have freedom, but you do not have freedom. Until you are legal and you move out from your mother, you have to live with her.
4. One day you're going to look back on this and you will think of yourself as an idiot, believe me.
5. You need to chill, just because your mom does not allow you to do simple things, does not mean you should hate her.

You  haven't even graduated from eighth grade yet and you think you're old enough to do what you please, have any freedom you want, and have total control of your own life? Come on now, think realistic. You can't even drive yet, nor are you even a teenager. You're growing, your young and your mom is protecting you.

You'll be thankful for your mother when you're older. You'll realize that she only does what she does because she loves you. Who cares if she wants you off the phone--don't fight it, just get off and deal with it. THat's life, and if you don't like it, well, oh well, you'll have to deal with it. Nothing can ever be your way 100%.

I'd also suggest not running away again. Should your mom decide to call the police, she has the option for you to go to an audi house. You do not want to go that route.

1. she is not acting like a brat. her mom is pushing her to her limit.
2. running away can actually help. they may start to realize they need to start LISTENING to her instead of ONLY telling her wat to do.
3. i agree with u on this one but still it looks like her parents need to do some changing in attitude also.
4. this has happened to me n yes i might have been idiotic but at least it made my parents be more lenient n understanding n they actually LISTENED.
5. she should chill but its kinda hard to wen your parents just keep pushing your limit you know? it's the SIMPLE things that count.

her mom maybe doing this to protect her but she cant protect her forever this is something that her MOTHER needs to realize. she may be only in eighth grade but this is the way u feel at her age. n i dont think she has her way EVER. i think that was the whole point of this topic in the first place. i mean...wat kind of mother or father doesnt let u have the bday party u want? i mean maybe its not your first choice n they tell you WHY u cant have that kind of party but her mom just wont let her have it cuz her mom wants to do it HER way. not for her child's sake. that's just stupid.

[jordanriane]

1. she is not acting like a brat. her mom is pushing her to her limit.
2. running away can actually help. they may start to realize they need to start LISTENING to her instead of ONLY telling her wat to do.
3. i agree with u on this one but still it looks like her parents need to do some changing in attitude also.
4. this has happened to me n yes i might have been idiotic but at least it made my parents be more lenient n understanding n they actually LISTENED.
5. she should chill but its kinda hard to wen your parents just keep pushing your limit you know? it's the SIMPLE things that count.

her mom maybe doing this to protect her but she cant protect her forever this is something that her MOTHER needs to realize. she may be only in eighth grade but this is the way u feel at her age. n i dont think she has her way EVER. i think that was the whole point of this topic in the first place. i mean...wat kind of mother or father doesnt let u have the bday party u want? i mean maybe its not your first choice n they tell you WHY u cant have that kind of party but her mom just wont let her have it cuz her mom wants to do it HER way. not for her child's sake. that's just stupid.

She's 11, she does not need to worry about her limit being pushed. That's what makes her a brat, by complaining about little things that an 11 year old should not worry about.

If she was born in 1993, she is not in eigth grade, she is in sixth grade (or even fifth).

The point of the thread was for us to agree and sympathize with her actions. Did you see how she disregarded the advice given to her? It wasn't what she wanted to her, and was also the truth, thus showing a little more of her bratty side.

It's a birthday party she's whining about. A simple little birthday party. We do not know details, and it's not something to run away from home about. She's not getting her way, so she's being a dramatical baby about it.

I'm sorry, but what you wrote, shows me that you lack a bit of common sense.
You're a few months older then I, yet you have the mentality of someone quite younger. It's sad that you think that her ordeal and behavior is appropriate, and that her whining about a birthday party is okay for her to do.

[banthisaccountno...]

Paying the bills? You're only like 11-12. Pure bullshit. If you can afford to pay the bills than just move out.

you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious

lies. She's like the most helpful person with relationships (other than chii)... mzkandi should be a mod! (and no I'm not sucking up. )

[jordanriane]

offtopic/
ocpimple, i have that same avatar, just facing the opposite way (and better quality).

[banthisaccountno...]

offtopic/
ocpimple, i have that same avatar, just facing the opposite way (and better quality).

Well, actually, cB only lets avatars be 100x100 px, so that's how it resized..
Here's the original:

[jordanriane]

I'm fond of stormtroopers, but goddamn that's too much action right there.

[banthisaccountno...]

^hahaha.. agreed

[*not_your_average*]

Wow. You're an f'n little brat. And you're the same girl who made this post.... turd.

[loljuliana]

same here. except my mom is more strict about my friends. she listens to all my phone calls, she trys to pick my friends for me by telling me who she doesnt want me to be with, she doesnt even want me to hang out with guys, she thinks that i'm going to get raped by every guy friend that i have. -_-

[stolenantics]

Wow. You're an f'n little brat. And you're the same girl who made this post.... turd. 

and yest shes so mature. an 11 yr. old doesnt need to think about sex

[MeanBastard]

She probably whores her body out to pay bills.

[myheartxbandages]

i hope you have a kid who thinks the same about you.

*sizzle* ouch man.

but um..you hate your mom because shes you mom. thats what i think.

[Chii]

Wow. You're an f'n little brat. And you're the same girl who made this post.... turd. 

i remember this topic, ugh what a little, bratty, attention whore

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

im sry someone said something about her being in eighth grade??

[dani41790]

Gosh that sucks. Sorry you have a mom like that. Hmm did you try talking to her about it?

[gladz612]

well maybe your mom's just worried about you. i'm sure she loves u at heart.. come on u're her child ya know.. there isnt' a parent who does not love their child.. but maybe u're just taking it a bit hard and maybe sh'es just a lil' protective over u.. but trust me.. one day u'll realise that all she's done's out of loving u. u will soon come to realise that i'm sure. i use to have communication brea downs with my parents too.. but try sitting down and talking through things with them slowly and patiently.. i'm sure if there's a will to work things out, there'll always be a way.. good luck*

[onemanshow]

she's just worrying about u.. maybe too over the line.. maybe u should try talking to her ... show her that ur enuff to be alone.. how to make her feel that? that depends on how she wanted u to be mature enuff..

[multifaceted]

other people have it more severe than you... and they still survive... stop whining

[kyuubi319]

She probably whores her body out to pay bills.

haha

I'm giong to take this fine opportunity to laugh at you

ahahahahahhahaha

okay.

You hate your mom because she's your mom. That's why.
Also, you're 11. And you have a job. And you pay most of the bills. And you want to screw your boyfriend. And you hate your mom because she's concerened about you because she thinks that you really are gonna go do your boyfriend. If I was your mother, I'd abandon you for being such a whiny brat. You know what? Just run away and live the rest of your life in the sewer. I'm sure you'll be better off.

God you're an idiot.

[SuiE]

i read the whole 9 pages of the other post she did =)! yea.. i got bored.. its a rainy day.. this kid is such a retarded little f*ck... she starts useless topics begging foo sympathy and just wanting to attract attention to herself... she says shes gonna f*ck up ppls in cb just cus she dont like wat they saidd.. O.o... LMFAO! cracking me up and making me angry at the same timeeee... anyhOoosss.. wat a whoreee!

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

i hate my f**king mom she has total control over me like she owns me or something

^well she IS your mom.

I agree, don`t try to grow up so fast. You`re mom is just doing what she thinks is best for you. Maybe she wants you to focus on school and on your grades then hanging out with friends.

BUT if you really want this to stop, tell her how you feel. I mean, she`s your mom she`s not a mind reader, and she probably didn`t go through the same things you went through when she was your age maybe her parents were very strict when she was younger. Tell her how you feel.

And also as you grow up your mom will give you priveledges and then you will have more freedom, but for now just listen to your mom. If she sees you can be mature then she`ll let you do more things that you wanna do.