Ways to get his attention Options

[LOVE machine x]

ok umm.. coming from a guy.. its not that hard to get our attention. seriously, i could sum this whole list up in this sentance:

be yourself and dont try too hard.

simple ne ?

it also depends on the guy.

[xMiZziexKiMx]

wow thatz awesome!! it wrks! ^^

[Bobblehead425]

cool. i'll keep this in mind...

[castawayfromhere...]

JUST BE URSELF AND IF HE RELIZES YOU GOOD AND IF NOT MOVE ON TO SOME OTHER GUY WHO CARES ABOUT YOU.. chances are hes already your closes guy friend..

[CrazayChristian]

Guys Point of view:

One thing I like is being flattered SPARCLY and not obviously. I mean it's good but when someone is like "ZOMG YOUR SO GOOOD!!!!!111!!"That's when it gets to a turn off so yes not mucho ego.

Out going ROCKS. I don't know any guy who says "I like shy girls". Being out going is the way to get a guy to notice you, being shy is a 1.532351614% chance that he'll notice you and it will more than likely will just be once while your standing alone.

Being energetic worked with being outgoing is a good combo. This would basically mean be yourself and act confortable around him. Don't be shy, I personally don't like to try hard to make conversation with someone because they just say " o..ok." or "That's cool". That might even give us the idea that your bored around us.

Eye contact-must

In short:

Stand out, if your outgoing and stick out (in a good way) from the crowd then you have a better chance.

[crayonzUpMyNose]

ooooo! i know a good one.

tell him you had a dream about him. a guy did that to me before and its so flattering. try to make it so it doesnt sound like a line.

[lickthepavement]

yea ive done that dream thing before. it works really good

[missknowitall141...]

thats super cool. thanks for posting

[crashingg]

good advice ;)

[Mith]

Definate nono is going through important parts of your relationship online... breaking up, asking out, moving to next steps or whatever. You need to do that face to face - you have so much more understanding of what the other person is thinking, it's important. Sure, ask them if they want to go to a movie online, but if you ask them to be your boyfriend, do it IRL. And who really wants to remember asking someone to be with them by typing to them?

[xlauren73x]

another thing for the 'how do i know if he likes me' i noticed w/ my ex bf before we actually went out he was flirty w/ me in ways that like he'd tickle me or poke me in the ribs.. little things like that. esp when we were in my friends pool he'd grab me a lot and tickle me.. so idk maybe guys do that to get closer to a girl.

[Super_Shaggy]

I know im in teh wrong locker i was spying lol j/k but the whole thing is actually kinda right but the sexual thing saying like hi ther hot buns or what ever you said actually makes us think that your more in to and the clothes thing in my case it really doesnt matter what you wear what matters is your personality..........wel back to reading more of your forums lol

[xsweetxcandyx]

oh and if you ask him a date.... make it something fun he would enjoy that would always show who you are, also.

don't be all horny on him and try to make out with him every second you get. like if you really want to kiss him, find a perfect time and place, lean over and give him a peck on the cheek//lips. then look at him and smile. Then he may kiss you back. [its how i got one fo my bfs]

[Spikey]

damn> you're like Martha Stewart...uh, except for relationships, of course...let's just hope you don't rat out like the Valentine's candy companies or something like she did the stock market and wind up behind bars! lol

[Spikey]

damn> you're like Martha Stewart...uh, except for relationships, of course...let's just hope you don't rat out like the Valentine's candy companies or something like she did the stock market and wind up behind bars! lol

[Spikey]

why in the Hell did i put that twice?!

[eyeyeyo]

thnx for this thread i'll keep it in mind ^_^

[Angelic Muse]

Awesome advice. Also, I read somewhere that you're not suppose to throw yourself at him. It'll make you look desperate. You're actually suppose to sorta play hard to get. I guess it keeps the guy guessing.

[AngryBaby]

^ ya but dont play to hard, guys give up easily

[cookieskater2]

yah, we do...

[CrazayChristian]

^ Hey...

Not all of us do ^_^

(There I go being an exception again..)

[cookieskater2]

I'm sorry. Your the minority.

Hehe, jk

It's better when you do play hard to get though, but like they said, not too hard. lawl.

[Dudefreak92]

Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:

--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--

I hear this alot, its like the girls veiw of things, some of it is true but,

My perspective:

im more of a shy guy and i would only do 2 or 3 of those.

I would stare at the girl
most of the time i dont look away. ( for some reason... haha dunno the other person ussally looks away first and its easyier 4 u.
i do get shy, or nerveus i should say
i do really anything for my girlfriend even if i hate it with all my gut.
I never grab the attention negativly, some times positivly but not direct.



if their was a girl to impress me, i would look for,

dont look sluttish or something like that randomly out of the blue, maybe after she sometimes what i do is tell her bestfriend to ask her if she likes me or that i like her and then if she tries to impress me, then i know shes willin to go out... ext. and then you can change ur dresses so he knoes ur doin it for him not randomly.

dont be desperate. (we watch for people too desparte for us, its annoying we like the hard to get job, also i look if like the girl has like gone out with everyguy for like 2 days then im like wtf bc shes just more desperate for a bf or something.

Always try to hangout with the guy... guys like hangin out

Always try to be nice, dont be brattish and hard to get and shit just be nice and converse and shit i hate brats.

always talk alot, sometimes i dont know what to say but jennifer, my girlfriend talks alot and i love that bc i dont really have to say anything when i dont want to.

bring up stuff that the guy did like a band or competition, sports, ext.

dont change what topics you like to impress us. If ur like hell yeah i love ballfoot uhhhuuhh itss coolll.. bc we can tell, i really dont like football..

when you need relationship help, dont go to random people. just follow ur heart...


allright il stop, if u need me IM me kjm520
il admit most of this is from experience.

[*x____duckii*]

Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend. 
A: You could fight for him , or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.

Not a good idea.

I think a better answer for that would be, "Wait until he breaks up with her, but don't ask him out immediatly. He could still like her, so it's best to wait a few months before doing so."

[*disco infiltrator*]

I'm unpinning this cause it's linked in the resource topic.