Ways to get his attention |
| *chaneun* |
 Apr 22 2005, 04:12 PM
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So, I realized that many girls are making topics of how to get guys, so I made a short detailed list of some ideas.
BEFORE GOING ON, MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND Some no-no's: Do not wear slutty/whorish clothes-If you want his attention, he could look down on you and think you're a low-life Don't over-flatter him-Sure, it may please him after a while, but it gets annoying. What if a guy came up to you and kept repeating "YOU'RE HOT YOU'RE HOT!" Don't sexually harass him-Don't say stuff like "Hey hot-buns! Call me!" What if a guy called you his bitch, then said "Call me" Don't flirt with him if he has a girlfriend-Catfight. Don't be rude to him or his friends-Sure, be like Helga in "Hey Arnold" Then bully him a lot to show your feelings for him. Great. Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too  Don't go out with his ex-They may say they're over him, but it starts drama. (from b0st0ngrl) -grabs popcorn- Good ways to get his attention: Talking to him: -Look into his eyes when you talk. -To be more flirty, look into his eyes deeply, then look away, then look again. -Talk about interesting stuff, see if he likes video games, reading, yadda yadda yadda. -Catch him in the hallway (if he goes to your school) just to have a friendly conversation. -BE YOURSELF! But don't be obnoxious. You're too shy to let out your feelings for this guy: -Look through Myspace to see if he has one, then if you don't have a Myspace, make one. Add him to friends, wait until he accepts, then comment him about stuff he'd enjoy, then ask for his screen name, then start hanging out in school. You're now friends  -When you go out with your friends, invite him along, if you're going to the movies, purposely sit next to him  -Get to know him better, however you do, but don't be rude or obnoxious. -Ask him out, if he hasn't asked you out already. Q&A: Q: The guy I like is such a jerk to my friends, and he's a jerk to other people too. A: Pfft, he's not good enough for you. Duh? Q: I had a reallly embarassing (sp?) moment in front of him! What do I do? A: Just laugh it off, it'll show him that you're not over-emotional. Q: I like my ex again! A: Talk to him, or you could leave him. You'll get over him, unless you're like that girl in The Notebook Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend.  A: You could fight for him  , or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.Q:"He likes me but, he doesnt want a girlfriend!" A: give him a little time, but really just move on because most likely he doesnt like you like that and is just trying to be nice. Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?" A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include: --> He pays extra attention to you. <-- --> He seems to enjoy bugging you <-- --> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <-- --> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <-- --> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <-- --> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <-- --> He gets extra shy around you <-- --> He tries to show off around you <-- More to come.. Hopefully, this was helpful to you, and will make the clutter of topics in the Girls locker less crowded. Oh, and if you want to know, I've never had a boyfriend NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT |
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Apr 30 2005, 04:59 PM
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 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,559 |
my bf that i have right now........i pretty much made all the first moves......he loves it.....i kissed him first......i told him i loved him first.........but i dont know.........i guess i can't really say how to get a guy cuz well......i didn't really have to try hard for that one........he was just really into me!
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May 1 2005, 12:41 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
Thanks. I had some issues with this guy. Hehe.
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May 3 2005, 12:00 AM
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I love this article! I'm definitely keeping it! :)
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May 3 2005, 04:24 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
QUOTE(b0st0ngrl @ Apr 22 2005, 3:17 PM) Sounds like something I'd read in a magazine :D Oh and you might want to add to not go out with your best friends ex. It starts major fights even if your best friend says they're over him...  yeah.....it does....i went out with my friend's ex.......she didn't talk to me the whole time....but what pissed me off....is she told me all this crap about him...then when we break up....she turns around and goes out with him again.......*grr. |
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May 5 2005, 11:45 AM
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does it reli work???but if u reli like dat guy.....u'll feel nervous wen talking 2 him
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May 5 2005, 11:52 AM
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heee...the situations are really close to real..and many of them did happen to me
i would follow the suggestions! |
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May 6 2005, 12:26 AM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
something to add :
* If you like him, don't be annoying and constantly ask him who he likes. it doesn't work. Waste of time.. and will end up not liking you at all ^^ |
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May 8 2005, 12:24 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Nice tips.. But I wonder what guys think half the time. I mean do they get nervous around the girl they like too? Are they as psyched as girls when they find out she likes them? I wonder..
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May 12 2005, 07:56 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Great Job, Alot of young ladies need advice and this is a good FAQ section.
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May 12 2005, 08:25 PM
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^Congradulations :]
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May 13 2005, 05:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,907 |
wow thanx!
 i should show the no-nos to my buddy maritza!! that ought to get thru to her if i dont! lmao
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May 20 2005, 01:45 PM
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I'm gonna try this....It's really helpful.
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May 24 2005, 08:52 PM
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Very good tips..
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May 24 2005, 09:33 PM
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 meggie <33 Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,501 |
omg this is soo helpful.. just have a question..well i like this guy and i've liked him for a while but him and i are good friends...so like 5 monnths or something he found out i liked him and so he askd me out..but he only did it because he felt bad for me  and so then the next day he got me alone and we worked it out and everthing...but i told him that i was over him..but i still do lke him...but im not sure he likes me or not but hes been acting sorta different..should i go for it and ask him out...flirt a little first...or should i not do ne thing cause it could ruin our relationshp as friends? 
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May 25 2005, 08:50 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,918 |
haha.. thats some really good tips!
i mean.. how exactly do you know you "like" someone... i dont know how to say this.. x.x |
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May 28 2005, 01:50 AM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Who cares if the guy has a gf. I just go for it. [=
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May 29 2005, 10:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
finally.. I needed that advice THANKS
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Jun 2 2005, 08:00 PM
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 asian mafia '07, monkey power Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,258 |
awesome topic ^___^ i know some girls who really need to read this....
sluts are definitely no fun, and if the guy only likes girls who look like hookers, then you're probably not worth it. |
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Jun 2 2005, 08:02 PM
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asian mafia '07, monkey power Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,258 |
QUOTE(applewater @ May 5 2005, 11:45 AM) does it reli work???but if u reli like dat guy.....u'll feel nervous wen talking 2 him remember... CONFIDENCE!!! just not obnoxious.... aim is a good way to confess you like him.... but break ups online are cheezy. |
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Jun 3 2005, 02:46 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,912 |
hehehe thanks for the advice! i'll def use that next time.
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Jun 3 2005, 05:07 PM
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Thanks, that's helpful ^-^
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Jun 3 2005, 11:01 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
nooiiiiccce
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Jun 3 2005, 11:22 PM
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 hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
hah thanks a lot for that!! its really awesome!! =]
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Jun 4 2005, 03:08 PM
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 feed me Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,722 |
wow i already knew most of that, but it really speaks to you when it's actually written down! thanks!
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Jun 4 2005, 11:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,006 |
thanks this helped me alot :D
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