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 Apr 20 2005, 05:42 PM
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 november 25th,, <3  Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226  |
okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time, well to me its long, about 6months. and theres this new guy at school that everyone thinks is the greatest. anyway he always gives me hugs and kisses and stuff like that, the normal, but my boyfriend seems to be mad, and gets really jealous, i told this new guy i have a boyfriend and just to like toan it down a little but even if i talk to him my boyfriend gets mad but never wants to talk to me about... how should i get him to tell me whats wrong?...
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Apr 20 2005, 06:08 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well first of all it's not right to hug and even kiss someone else when you have a bf.
secondly, it's kinda clear what is up, tell your bf that nothing's going on with you and him. |
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Apr 20 2005, 06:10 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
huggin is okay. and if he kisses u on the cheeck, i duno, its pushing it, but its not cheating. if its like a hello greeting, its fine.
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Apr 20 2005, 06:17 PM
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Tell this guy that you have a boyfriend, and you don't feel comfortable when he still treats you like this even though you're with someone. Tell you boyfriend it's no big deal. Hopefully it'll work out.
 Wish you luck on all of this!
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Apr 20 2005, 07:10 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
why do you need to know what is wrong? don't you already know? i mean, you have a boyfriend but you let the other guy hug and kiss you?
 do you live in america? if you do, i would get jealous if my girlfriend was getting hugs and kisses from some other guy. but if you live in another country where kissin friends is normal, than just tell your boyfriend that yo love him and that he is just a friend. 
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Apr 20 2005, 07:16 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
The kisses aren't normal. Hugs, that's alright, but the kisses take it way too far. Would you be alright if some girl kissed your boyfriend, even on his cheek? It's not decent or polite.
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Apr 20 2005, 08:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's obvious that your boyfriend is jealous.
It's not right to kiss or be kissed by another guy when you have a boyfriend...but...I guess hugs are okay...Just explain to your boyfriend about the situation. |
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Apr 21 2005, 08:44 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Frankie @ Apr 20 2005, 7:10 PM) why do you need to know what is wrong? don't you already know? i mean, you have a boyfriend but you let the other guy hug and kiss you? do you live in america? if you do, i would get jealous if my girlfriend was getting hugs and kisses from some other guy. but if you live in another country where kissin friends is normal, than just tell your boyfriend that yo love him and that he is just a friend.  QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 20 2005, 7:16 PM) The kisses aren't normal. Hugs, that's alright, but the kisses take it way too far. Would you be alright if some girl kissed your boyfriend, even on his cheek? It's not decent or polite. why does this kiss on the cheek and hugging stuff seem so out of the ordinary? i've been witnessing this kind of stuff since middle school. being calm isn't going to make him talk, sternly ask him what's wrong and tell him that relationships are built on trust and if you keep secrets from each other then your relationship will fall apart... |
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Apr 22 2005, 05:01 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
I guess it's kinda your fault because you're not supposed to kiss another guy, even if it was on the cheek.
Just take your guy out for lunch and tell him the whole thing. |
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Apr 22 2005, 03:06 PM
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If you know that boyfriend gets mad when the other guy kisses and hugs just tell the other guy to stop!! If you tell him to stop he will stop doing i am sure unless you actually like his affection, which i kinda suspect that you do.
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Apr 22 2005, 03:19 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
respect his wishes and back off the other guy.
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Apr 22 2005, 03:46 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Your bf doesn't know the guy I presume. He may be feeling threatened by this guy and since your kissing and hugging him and whatever he may be worried that you'll end up liking the guy more than him. Like, how would you feel if your bf was kissing and hugging a girl you barely knew?
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Apr 22 2005, 05:26 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
if you really care for you man then you need to let the new dude know that he has to stop because he's f**king your shit with your man up.
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