paying for your boyfriend..., y is that such a bad thing? Options

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well ok here's the thing...my boyfriend's mom lives with his stepdad who hates him n so he lives with his sister but his mom still give him money wen she could. he doesnt have a job so his sister n her boyfriend are paying all the bills n he uses the money he gets from his mom to get food. all he's doing rite now is going to school. no job cuz its hard getting a job n going to school at the same time but he's looking for one. well i've been helping my boyfriend with his cell phone bill n getting food. i paid for his phone bill cuz i want to have a way to reach him. he doesnt have a home phone at his sister's place n he cant eat his sister's food unless she says it's ok n his mom doesnt always give him money for food every time he needs it but she does give him money but the times he doesnt have money to have food i wanna buy him some groceries for him n buy him food. is that really such a bad thing? i mean...is my boyfriend being a bad boyfriend if that's the case? i dont want him getting hungry...i dont see wats wrong with helping out a hungry person...especially if its someone u love. my friends chastise me all the time for givng into my boyfriend so much but i do it cuz i love him n i know he loves me n i wanna do all these things for him. y do my friends get so mad about it? sorry that this is so long...