movie player Options

[lyin_in_wait]

<!-- begin code provided by createblog.com --><br /><embedvalue="URL HERE"><br />   <param name="controller" value="true"><br />   <param name="autoplay" value="true"><br />   <param name="type" VALUE="video/quicktime"><br />   <embed src="URL HERE" width="240" height="195" autoplay="true" controller="true" pluginspage="http://www.apple.com/quicktime/"><br /><left><br /><br /><!-- end code provided by createblog.com -->

for this code (quicktime movie player) is there anyway i can get a control "box" to go with it? so i would be able to pause it, or play it again, etc?