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 Apr 14 2005, 04:17 PM
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i always feel weird when i go to reach out to hold my girlfriends hand. not that i feel weird holding her hand, its just it feels weird to me reaching out to hold onto her hand.
i dunno..im just weird like that sometimes lol |
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Apr 14 2005, 04:23 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
It is not wrong for a guy to hold his girlfriends hand. I love holding hands, therefore I would not be/am not upset when my boyfriend reaches for my hand.
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Apr 14 2005, 04:24 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I don't think it's "wrong". When I was going out with my ex, we had no problem holding hands, it's like, we hold hands everytime we hang out. O_O
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Apr 14 2005, 05:21 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I don't think it's weird or wrong for a guy to hold his girlfriend's hand. In fact, it's kinda expected. I love holding my boyfriend's hand.
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Apr 14 2005, 05:21 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i don't think it's wrong. i love holding hands
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Apr 14 2005, 05:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
no im not talking about actually holding hands, im talking about reaching out to hold hers. but yeah...now that i think of it, its not really all that weird lol
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Apr 14 2005, 05:26 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
err..how else will she know you wanna hold hands?
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Apr 14 2005, 05:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
lol really dont mind me..im just weird lol
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Apr 14 2005, 05:30 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Holding hands is sweet. It's something that you can do as well without getting dirty looks at ya sometimes.
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Apr 14 2005, 05:37 PM
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 if you feel like dying; you might wanna sing Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,836 |
i love it when a guy holds my hand. (: personally i like it better than hugging. i don`t know why. lol reaching out is incredibly sweet.
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Apr 14 2005, 05:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
No, of course not. Why WOULD it be?
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Apr 14 2005, 05:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
i think its just nervousness and it ffeels weird maybe umm your afraid you might do something wrong like if she pulls away for something else at that same moment lol just be comfortable with her thats all :-D
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Apr 14 2005, 07:11 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I think I know what he means...I don't know if this will help you out...but when me and my ex went out, it was usually me who reached out to hold his hand...when I asked him about why he never took the initiative to hold my hands, he said that he didn't know if I would like holding hands with him so he just let me take the initiative with holding his hand.
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Apr 14 2005, 07:13 PM
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 ART is everything. Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,166 |
aww..that's cause you are nervous/shy..
I don't think it's weird. It's sweet. 
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Apr 14 2005, 07:30 PM
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 un cool. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,269 |
its not weird for a dude to hold his chick's hand to me. its actually shows he's kind of sweet.
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Apr 14 2005, 07:31 PM
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why would it be?
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Apr 14 2005, 07:46 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
i think it's VERY sweet when guys reach out to hold their girlfriend's hands. i think its very cute when my boyfriend reaches for my hands, its just that really swt and cute feeling (:
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Apr 14 2005, 07:48 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
nope..i actually like it when a guy does that...makes me feel wanted =)
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Apr 14 2005, 07:51 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
hehe. you are sped. :D I think its nice when he reaches to get my hand. Just like leaning in for a kiss. I mean, you dont just wanna wait to have your lips brush up to eachother do ya? lol no. So same thing with hands. I mean, dont like reach all around and across people, thats justnot practicle. but yeah, just go for it silly.
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Apr 14 2005, 08:16 PM
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no, of course not. it's fine, don't worry about it.
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Apr 14 2005, 08:47 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
uhh....no.....
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Apr 14 2005, 08:48 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
maybe you feel weird because you're afraid that she doesnt want to...
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Apr 14 2005, 08:56 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just go ahead and do it, most girls love this stuff...plus she's your girlfriend this stuff is supposed to be happening, holding hands, kissing hugging, etc
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Apr 14 2005, 09:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
I would never think its wrong
I think its the sweetest thing, it shows that your not ashamed of her, there's nothing with P.D.A. (Public displays of affection) most girls wish their bf's would actually make the move. Its so sweet, it shows your happy with her and your not afraid to let the world know that. I love it when my bf does it. |
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Apr 14 2005, 09:18 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
lol don't feel weird about reaching out to hold her hand! consider yourself lucky that you're able to do that. I would give anything to hold my boyfriends hand. he lives far away :( So go right ahead and hold her hand. And don't be scared either, lol. Cuz she probably loves when you hold her hand, lol tis sweet
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