playing with yourself, in class!!!? Options

[JlIaTMK]

how can you say that? playing with your...let's say ear, is totally different than playing with your stuff. =X

Ha, well, it just entertains me. I'm not really grossed out by.... "hidden" body parts unless they are uncleanly, smelly, unnormally looking.

[Le_Jay]

I suck my thumb during class. Does that count if you have a hand fetish?

[Vozedale]

I think there is too much fundamental attribution error here. Almost everyone blames the person for being sick, not the situation for being provoking. Though there are some of you who attribute it to the teacher or another student arousing the masturbater. I think one thing that plays a large role in these guys actions is testosterone. This hormone is very powerful, seeing how a woman that was taking injections of testosterone said she felt like she knew how it felt to be a rapist. I do like the person's thoughts who included freud's ID. I mean I've really noticed how different the frame of mind is when you are both physically and mentally aroused, I've though while masturbating that I would cum in my hand and then lick it up when I'm finished, and was turned on by the idea in that frame of mind. When I finished up, I was like there isn't any way I'm gonna lick that shit up, that is gross. Things that are gross to us in a normal frame of mind can turn us on when we are in a sexual mood.

Like in the sixth grade, I masturbated in the classroom a few times. I never got caught, and I was sneaky enough I don't think anyone knew I was doing it. I don't do that anymore, if I get excited and can't concentrate on my homework or something in class, especially during seminar (an hour and a half of doing nothing in class), I'll just get a pass and go to the bathroom, go in one of the stalls and take care of business. Then I go back to class and am able to concentrate on my work. And I handle it in a mature fashion, I don't squirt my stuff all over the walls or anything, it all goes in the toilet and is washed away. I think the teacher who when he was younger that got caught in the bathroom was not doing anything wrong, unless he was at one of the urinals (I've done that, too). If you go to the bathroom then you are handling it in a logically way. Another thing that I feel is a great influence in my sexual thoughts and in this situation is sexual recognition. I've kinda of got my own theory that people want to be recognized for their sexual capacity, their body, and as a sexual human being. Like almost always I want to be seen naked, I don't care by who either. I think sexual recognition and acceptance of our own sexual tendencies, as well as other influential things that I am still exploring, all go in to create a balance between the sexual and the normal, to make sexual things normal. I think the one of the main reasons for mine and other peoples desire for sexual recognition comes from the division our society makes between the sexual and the normal. Like how nudity is indecent exposure, it is seen as awkward and inapproiate, while in fact it is completely natural. Is it any wonder we want to be seen naked to balance this conflict so that we can truly interpret nudity as normal and natural. I believe that is one of the main reasons I was playing at the urinal. Sure, I was horny, but I WANTED to be seen naked or playing with myself. (I think most of this goes for teenager, freshly being introduced to the sexual reality of the world.) Or maybe it goes the other way for some people, they want to suit society's view on nudity and sex. It is probably not hard for these people to accept sex, sex is all over the tv and everything and is portrayed as normal, but these people may not feel comfortable with their own sexuality in other instances, such as masturbating or public nudity. They may be disturbed by someone's genitals showing in public, and more embarrassed to be caught masturbating than to be caught having sex. These people can only accept their sexual tendencies as far as they believe society accepts sexual tendencies.

One other thing that I felt influenced me to do once or twice in class and at the urinal a few times was because I was and still am a virgin and I wanted to try something new and different. A little dash of interesting, with a mixture of doing something different and the fear of being caught. And I feel if it influences me that way, it would influence others in a similar manner.

Thank you for reading my post, I hope it has led you to some insight on your own feelings, or just helped in someway.

[Vozedale]

My... friend... masterbates in class when he feels like it

I personally do not care, it's just another part of the body. I try to think of it like playing with any other part of your body.

I like your idea, it is interesting and different. Can you see how that fits in with the balancing the sexual and the normal?

[O x LiseE x O]

Honestly, that would be hot... L0L! See a guy playing with himself, woah total guts...

*Everyone looks at me like I'm weird*

Not cool, oh so nasty.

[belg]

vozedale... i like the way how you voice out your opinion on this matter. it has substance... and thank you for letting me now that i wasn't the only one thinking the same way about masturbation.

[Le_Jay]

Personally I think its pathetic you can't even concentrate with an erection, neither can you wait until a break to do it or the nearest convinient time.

[Vozedale]

Personally I think its pathetic you can't even concentrate with an erection, neither can you wait until a break to do it or the nearest convinient time.

It isn't the erection that I act on, It's being horny. Duh! . I only do it in seminar (not anymore , I graduated), where we sit for over 90 minutes and read a book or do homework, it isn't a class, it is like study hall. Usually I am stuck with reading a boring text book. It is hard enough to read a text book when you're tired (and I usually was pretty tired), and it isn't any easier to read it while you have too much sexy in your head. . Try laying in bed and reading a boring text book like biology stark naked, and see if you can concentrate on learning about the reproductive system without playing with your drooling, dirty harry!

[Le_Jay]

People who can't control their sexual urges and then can't get the girl, become rapists. How sad.

[ItzOnlySydney]

yea there was this guy in my science class last yera that liked to do that and my teacher had this stuffed eagle on her desk(our mascot) and one day he took it and stuffed in dow his pants and when he took it back out there was..ahem...fluid on it

[heyyfrankie]

thanxx Vozedale for your imput on the topic at hand but please don't double post.

[jerseygal34]

there is this one guy who is sorta a perv..and he does it constantly and always in math class for some reason...but none of the other guys i have seen do it...they are cool i love you guyz!! <33 lol

[Vozedale]

People who can't control their sexual urges and then can't get the girl, become rapists. How sad.

I contol my sexual urges just fine, I masturbate instead of running out and having sex with some girl that I don't give a rat's ass about. THAT is not controlling your sexual urges, THAT is maladaptive behavior. Especially if it is the girl's first time, it can lead to her having negative interpretations and feelings about sex.

And rape is not an act of sex, it is an act of violence. And the people who are most likely to become rapists are people who are pornography lovers (pornography sends out a message that women enjoy being sexually overpowered by men), people who sociopaths, and people that displace their negative feelings on others, such as women, (just like you). Just like woman beaters start with verbal abuse and dehumanizing, unfortunately there are people who would believe that they deserve to take shit like that from people like you.

I tried to be nice, but it is pretty obvious you just want to be a dikhead.

[macb]

masturbating in class? in 6th grade?

at least go do it in the bathroom or something. creaming ur pants in class is not the best way to get popular/respectable in school (at least, not 8 yrs ago when i went through it)

they'll be talking about it thru high school... "remember that kid who ...?"

and why in class? looking at a girl u have a crush on?

wow that's so weird.

[ItzOnlySydney]

I contol my sexual urges just fine, I masturbate instead of running out and having sex with some girl that I don't give a rat's ass about. THAT is not controlling your sexual urges, THAT is maladaptive behavior. Especially if it is the girl's first time, it can lead to her having negative interpretations and feelings about sex.

And rape is not an act of sex, it is an act of violence. And the people who are most likely  to become rapists are people who are pornography lovers (pornography sends out a message that women enjoy being sexually overpowered by men), people who sociopaths, and people that displace their negative feelings on others, such as women, (just like you). Just like woman beaters start with verbal abuse and dehumanizing, unfortunately there are people who would believe that they deserve to take shit like that from people like you.

I tried to be nice, but it is pretty obvious you just want to be a dikhead.

you know what i just realized? you never hear about WOMEN RAPISTS. WOMEN WHO RAPE MEN. hmm...i wonder why...

[DrSMooTH]

I know this kid that, in 8th grade, he'd always jack off to this one popular girl and then shoot, which is really sick in class. Neway, I don't think he does it anymore, but he always is touching people with the hand he did it with, and everytime i see him touch someone with the hand, I have to tell the person what he's done with it cuz...in class?! Who wants to see that stuff in class? If anything, do it in the privacy of your own home.

[DrSMooTH]

you know what i just realized? you never hear about WOMEN RAPISTS. WOMEN WHO RAPE MEN.  hmm...i wonder why...

That's because most men can overpower women. But, if the woman is a bodybuilder or something, you're screwed.

[heyyfrankie]

you know what i just realized? you never hear about WOMEN RAPISTS. WOMEN WHO RAPE MEN.  hmm...i wonder why...

trust me it happens...and just FYI to the person above my post, you don't have to be a body builder in order to rape a man if you are a woman. there are such things such as weak guys and drugs.

[Vozedale]

Women abusers operate on about the same level, they find some guy that is not necessarily weak, but just lacks confidence or self-esteem. And if they have confidence and self-esteem before they get abused, verbal abuse and dehumanizing also makes them adopt that "I deserve this attitude", just as women do. Rape would be more likely to occur with a weapon, such as a gun or knife, or with group of women. Don't hit LADIES, but don't be afraid to slap or hit some rapist or abusive BEE-OCH. Have you ever been around those girls that rough house, that like punch on you and stuff. I remember a girl like this. She was so annoying, I was dating her sister, Amanda, but everytime when I went over their to see her, she would punch on me or my friend if he was with me. Usually I didn't fight back much, but one time I was going to lightly punch her in the shoulder, but I missed and hit her in the boob. . She was such a bee-och.

[Le_Jay]

I contol my sexual urges just fine, I masturbate instead of running out and having sex with some girl that I don't give a rat's ass about. THAT is not controlling your sexual urges, THAT is maladaptive behavior. Especially if it is the girl's first time, it can lead to her having negative interpretations and feelings about sex.

And rape is not an act of sex, it is an act of violence. And the people who are most likely  to become rapists are people who are pornography lovers (pornography sends out a message that women enjoy being sexually overpowered by men), people who sociopaths, and people that displace their negative feelings on others, such as women, (just like you). Just like woman beaters start with verbal abuse and dehumanizing, unfortunately there are people who would believe that they deserve to take shit like that from people like you.

I tried to be nice, but it is pretty obvious you just want to be a dikhead.

Rape is having sexual intercourse forcefully, without consent. Tell me how the hell that doesn't have anything to do with an act of sex.

A guy who has to masturbate during class... For some reason, if you can get hard on a biology book, I don't doubt your usage of porn.

Displace negative feelings on women is bad? Oh my God, they can't accept my complaints because their souls are OH so fragile. What are the girls you meet, glass crystals? My friends that are girls can easily take my negativity. They understand how I feel. Maybe you should find a girl who does the same for you.

Dickhead.

[dopeSOUL]

omg. dude.. thats IMMATURE.. and if u cant get laid. or even control urself.. iono.. they need help.

[Vozedale]

Displacement is verbally or physically abusing someone else to make yourself feel better. Makes you look bad Le_Jay, but I am sure you treat you friends and girlfriends just fine. Young adults displacing their bad experiences on younger students is what keeps the sick cycle of hazing repeating. A little displacement and thoughts like "I am better than you" was the beginning of what led to the extermination of 6 million Jews by German soldiers. I'm not going to argue with you Le_Jay, because you aren't ever going to see things from my perspective, I don't expect to make friends with every person I meet, in fact the chances of anyone being liked by everyone they meet is essentially zero. I have plenty of friends that share my feelings or can see things from my perspective, and that I can relie on to always be there for me, as well as I for them. I'm sorry we can't work out our differences and that you can't accept my point of view, and I'm sorry you feel that way.

[natE.A]

couldnt they use the bathroom or something? i cant imagine someone whipping it out and playing with theirselves in class LOL

[yycleo]

i dont think doin it in the public is normal =.=|||
i found it disgusting when i saw someone doin it be4

[heyyfrankie]

DANG!! this topic is still going?
i had no idea that made such, ahem, interesting topics. x]