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 Apr 17 2005, 11:29 AM
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my sisters best friend just stopped bieng her best friend. and now my sister is bawling like a baby, and i have absolutly no idea what to say because its never happened to me
 i feel like im going to cry too. i really need to say something to my sister, because shes my sister, and i`m there for her. and its even more complicated because shes only 8 years old and cant understand most of the things i try to explain.grr. what do i do? <3 (i dunno if this belongs in the right place, but if it doesnt, you can delete it !) |
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Apr 17 2005, 11:30 AM
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tell her that there's more people out there to be her best friend
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Apr 17 2005, 11:33 AM
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Just hug her real tight, tell her you love her and that your there for her. It hard when you lose a best friend. Maybe the two them can be friends again once they sort out their differences.
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Apr 17 2005, 11:35 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Let her know you care for her. Maybe you could rent a movie and watch it with her and show that you are her friend too. Tell her it will get better and not to worry about it and too just have fun
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Apr 17 2005, 12:06 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
Basically you have to let her know that you're there for her. Me and my kid have a 13 year age difference, so when I have to explain the horrible things that happens to me that she sees, it's difficult.
But just explain it in the nicest, simplest way you can. And you could try to spend a lot more time with her too. |
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Apr 17 2005, 02:58 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
let her know that even though she's lost a best friend, it doesn't mean that no one cares about her. she'll recover and soon find another great person to be friends with, i promise :) losing a best friend has probably happened to everyone, so she's not alone.
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Apr 17 2005, 03:32 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
tell her you'll be there for her no matter what. spend time with her.
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Apr 17 2005, 04:51 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
just tell her to try to work it out with her best friend. if she is only 8, i am sure that they got in a little fight or something and it is just a phase. hopefully they will get back together and be friends after a while but for now, tell her that it is alright. in the meantime, try to talk to her friend and see what is going on.
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Apr 17 2005, 05:14 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
there are many more fishes in the sea...
the best thing you can do is just be by her side, and tell her that you're always there for her... that you'd be her best friend, you know? she'll soon realize that there are better people out there... |
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Apr 18 2005, 04:31 AM
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Just be supportive, and say friends come and go, but sisters last forever, and that no matter what you'll always be her best friend. Just tell her that, or like there a lot more people that can be her friend and a true friend wouldn't leave without an explanation.
Yeah the first part sounds corny, but it's kinda hard cuz I don't have a sister but I do have friends with younger siblings that I had to help out before. |
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Apr 18 2005, 06:23 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
tell/show her that you care for her, that other people care for her. spend time with her. she'll learn that it's not the worst thing in the world.
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Apr 18 2005, 02:31 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Apr 17 2005, 12:06 PM) Basically you have to let her know that you're there for her. Me and my kid have a 13 year age difference, so when I have to explain the horrible things that happens to me that she sees, it's difficult. But just explain it in the nicest, simplest way you can. And you could try to spend a lot more time with her too.  wat she said... |
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Apr 18 2005, 04:11 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Give her a hug and tell her everything's gonna be alrite. It helps in times like these...
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Apr 18 2005, 05:12 PM
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Tell her that YOU will be her best friends. Most friends come and go...but sisters stick like glue forever.
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Apr 19 2005, 06:42 PM
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You should say like something like "If your bestfriend didn't want to be friends then she wasn't a very good friend isn't she now....remember it isn't your fault and there's alot nicer girls out there like you." something like that
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Apr 19 2005, 09:48 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
tell her that friends will come but yet grow apart. She will make new ones in her life. She will find good friends.
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Apr 20 2005, 09:32 AM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
well, comfort her and tell her u r always be with her.
and she can have a new best fd someday |
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Apr 20 2005, 10:21 AM
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Just be there for her, try to be her new bestfriend. My sister has a different bestfriend everyother week, shes young also. But just be there for her, do stuff that her and her old bestfriend use to do.
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Apr 20 2005, 05:06 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
well what kinda best freind is that?... she was never really a friend ;)
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