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 Apr 7 2005, 10:36 PM
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 kriz  Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,105  |
ok, my question is if there is a guy tha likes u n they ask u out n u don't like them is it wrong to say yes then break up with them the first time they get on ur nerves? i mean i did a couple times because i felt bad n i thought i should give them a chance...i was tryin to make it easier on them...
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Apr 7 2005, 10:40 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that doesn't really sound like it was easier for them...because you're leading them on by making them thing they have a chance when they never did...
if some guy you're not interested in asks you out, think about if you're going to like them down the road, if you do then go out with him but be upfront about how you feel about him, tell him that you just want to see how things are. always tell the truth |
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Apr 7 2005, 10:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
i guess i half did that with my ex...but....i was confused. had no idea what i was doing. but then i started to get irrotated....so i dumped him
anywhooo...o.0..yea, i guess im not the best person to answer that question XD. |
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Apr 7 2005, 10:47 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i think rejecting them when they ask you is easier for them than leading them on making them think you like them back.
don't feel bad about rejecting someone if you don't feel the same way like they do to you, it's kinda doing them a favor in a way it saves them a heartbreak |
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Apr 8 2005, 12:07 AM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
NO it is but than again it isnt...i would just tell him no...
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Apr 8 2005, 12:56 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhm, i guess its not wrong.. but its not very nice either.
i guess if you dont like him, then jst say no. unless you think you guys would get along well (: |
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Apr 8 2005, 01:58 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
Saying yes to them, when you dont like them is kind of hurtful..You should just tell them the truth the first time..Thats the best thing you can do for that person..
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Apr 8 2005, 03:18 AM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
If you say yes to them, and then break up with them. It's gonna hurt that person more as they actually thought they had some kind of chance with you, whereas just asking you out. They don't know what to expect so don't get their hopes too high.
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Apr 8 2005, 06:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
I would say "Maybe i will think about it" and never answer him back.
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Apr 8 2005, 06:44 AM
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 evelyn* <3 Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,438 |
tell you what you shud try for a few times. mayb he rly isnt that guy you thought he was. you may have surprising results.
or if you really cant stand him then say no. |
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Apr 8 2005, 12:17 PM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
it's not wrong.... why go out wiv them if u dun like them? u did da rite thing=)
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Apr 8 2005, 12:55 PM
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 I wanna LALA!!! Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,728 |
QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Apr 8 2005, 12:56 AM) uhm, i guess its not wrong.. but its not very nice either. i guess if you dont like him, then jst say no. unless you think you guys would get along well (:  i agree 
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Apr 8 2005, 12:58 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
I think it's dishonest to even say 'yes.' It's as if you are only going out with him cuz you pity him. That isn't right. It's either you like him or don't and since you don't, it's not that complicated.
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Apr 8 2005, 01:09 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
bleh I've done that too..but maybe that's not how it should work. I feel pretty guilty, because you try to preserve their feelings...but I think in the end they are hurt more. Because they actually think you like them back..only to discover you only felt sorry for them. I think you should just use...an old fashion excuse when they ask you out "lets just be friends"
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Apr 8 2005, 03:12 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I don't think so, at least you gave it a try!
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Apr 8 2005, 05:46 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
yeah i think its wrong because all youre doing is leading the guy on and the guy doesnt deserve it
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Apr 8 2005, 09:56 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
i don't think so atleast you gave them a chance right? it's their fault they blew it
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Apr 8 2005, 10:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
haha dont go out with him for pittty if you really dont like him then say no cause you dont want to bring his hopes up too high and then break them
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Apr 8 2005, 11:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,503 |
just say nowayhozay
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