girl problems.., confused.. |
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girl problems.., confused.. |
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well, a couple of days a girl i kind of like. came up to me, held my hand and told me she liked me. face to face. i was under pressure so i said "so?" now i feel stoopid. she asks me later if i think she actually meant it. i said no. buh she said she does..it seems suspicious..and her friend is telling me to get to know her and ask her out buh its weird...so should i go for it? or should i not..cus if its a joke then ill just feel really retarded...wht should i do >_>?
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i think you should get to know her first
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
^ agree, get to know her first, make sure she really means it.
ask her out |
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![]() Foreplay ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,737 ![]() |
Yeah. get to know her better. or play hard to get:)
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wait so she ask you later if you think she was serious and you said no, um did she tell you she was serious or just a joke? i didn understand that part
anyways i say go for it you only live once and make it worth it so do something crazy and go for it good luck .:tonY:. |
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![]() I'll never be who I was again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 ![]() |
get to know her..make sure she wasnt playing around...it kinda sounds like a dare to me...
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![]() Grrrrrrr ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 ![]() |
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 ![]() |
do you like her at all? if you don't, than i don't see any reason why you would try to get to know her. but if you think that something could come out of it, than try to get to know her and see what happens. and who cares if it is a joke? what's the worst that could happen?
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#9
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how well do you know this girl? She might've been serious, but why don't you just try to go something.. like go to the movies or somewhere where you two could have fun and get to know each other. You should be able to tell if she's actually serious and if she's someone you could see yourself dating.
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
get to know her first and find out if she's really serious about it or not. if she is and you do like her, ask her out, but if you don't like her, then don't ask her out.
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*mzkandi* |
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Not alot a girls have a enough guts to go up to a guy and tell him that she likes him. I know I dont. So I think she is serious in liking you. You should give it a shot.
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*islandgirl4eva* |
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You should get to know her. Like mzkandi said, it takes a lot of guts to do what she did. Hell, I haven't even done something like that yet.
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![]() you high baby? ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,267 ![]() |
yea get to kno herfirst.. some girls can b manipulative bitches
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![]() Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 ![]() |
Dont wait man. She might not be kidding. Dont be scared to go ask her out. Thug Life
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I say you should go and talk to her first and see if she enjoys your chats and you have similar things incomen....Then if you really like her and she likes you now better you can ask her if she would like to go out and you'll also like wat she would like to do
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
Talk to her...and sooner or later you'll be able to tell if she was joking or not...with the way she talks to you, looks at you, acts around you...just give it time...
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t-t-t-toyaaa ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 ![]() |
i also think you should really get to know her first then ask her out
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ya same with everyone else get to know her. But also if you really wanna know if someone is playing a joke on you, get a couple of your friends involved and have them start asking her friends if she really does like you or if its all just a joke. If its not then congrats! If it is a joke then wtf do u need her for lol find someone who isnt mean enough to pull something like that.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 ![]() |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 17 2005, 6:39 AM) Not alot a girls have a enough guts to go up to a guy and tell him that she likes him. I know I dont. So I think she is serious in liking you. You should give it a shot. I agree I wouldn't say it unless I meant it, but you should still get to know her, cuz I agree that it might be a dare, but then again she may genuinely like you, get to know her better, like everyone else said |
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