What can I do...to make him less shy?, yeah I know..it's him..the same guy |
 Mar 22 2005, 09:18 AM
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Here's the...steps I've 'made' ever since I liked him. He's...shown that he sorta likes me...but he's still so shy and looks at me about it...I take a step, then he takes one.
1) Before he ever knew I existed 2) I started talking to him a bit... 3) He started to kick me (playful way), talked to me, lots of eye contact, played with my hair, competed with me in test marks 4) Complimenting my hair every single week  5) Asked me who I like and I told him I like him. He told me he likes 'nobody' 6) A pretty long odd period of silence between us, avoided me, no eye contact at all 7) This week he started to poke me again, some eye contact, talked to me a bit on msn, asking what marks I got for tests..which apparently happen to be the same  Does it mean anything? Why is he so shy? Why can't he take the lead instead of me doing the first things first? |
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Mar 22 2005, 10:29 AM
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Maybe he likes you... I hope.
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Mar 22 2005, 10:52 AM
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 do u luv me? Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,884 |
i think that he was kinda of taken back by what u say when he asked u who u liked.
i think he's just not ready to get involved. with the hair playing, i think that's really cute. so he just might like u slow it down,girl |
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Mar 22 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Ok well I think he likes you
 . I also think that when he said he likes "nobody" he could have just thought you were kidding but wasn't sure so he decided to play it safe and say nobody.
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Mar 22 2005, 09:51 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
well, don't set urself up for a big fall, cause, what if he really doesn't like u that way? what if all these "feelings" are nothing? so just be careful. and if u do want to make him less shy, i guess u could always make the first move. nothing wrong with that.
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Mar 22 2005, 09:54 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhhm, i dont think he likes you >T
i mean like when someone expresses themselves, if you felt the same way, you`d usually say the same back. maybe he thinks you said it as a joke though ?  jst slow it down, and let time do its thang 
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Mar 23 2005, 06:14 PM
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niice... you can joke around and communiate w/ the guy, even if it doesnt work out, you guys can still become good friends, no?
yeah, i guess you jsut have to wait, and like... ask him later, cuz you gotta SHOW him that you're not kidding ... guys are just like that. *shrugs* i know the stereotypical guy that sweeps you off your feet and blah blah blah, but guys really do want us girls to make the first move. so yeah, go for it but keep it lower... dont wanna scare him away ;) |
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Mar 23 2005, 06:26 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Wow. Maybe he doesn't like you? I mean.. he says he doesn't like anybody; than he was just scared. But who knows? He could like you xP
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Mar 26 2005, 04:06 PM
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Well, some guys are just like that, and you're the one who has to do something if you wanna get somewhere.
Don't get your hopes up too high, because he might not like you in that way, but then again, he might be too shy to tell you that he likes you too. |
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Mar 26 2005, 04:11 PM
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Sounds like the guy likes you! OoOo! hehe. jk. Hes probally being shy because hes afraid to tell u he likes u And wen he sees u he gets nervous. Thats my opinion.
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Mar 26 2005, 09:26 PM
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Sounds like he likes you girly!!!...I say juss go for it...
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Mar 26 2005, 10:49 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i think he likes you
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