insecure and shy..., are you? |
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 Apr 8 2005, 04:18 AM
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i'm a usually loud and outgoing person with my friends, but when it comes to people i don't know i suddenly become really shy and scared.
 when there are groups hanging around in the corridors, i'm too scared to just jump in and act normal. i just slink away and avoid them. my school is reallyyy small. in my grade there are around 40 people only (2 seperate classes) so i know mostly everyone, but if people aren't my really close friends, i become... locked. is anyone like this? and how can i be myself?? 
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Apr 8 2005, 05:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I can be that way sometimes where I don't feel comfortable about hanging around with certain people. Just try to open up to them. Act as if they were like your best friends and you all are hanging ou. Or when you're hanging out with some people you feel insecure with, bring a friend to make you feel more comfortable
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Apr 8 2005, 03:53 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i am... i don't really know how to be more outgoing, but i guess you can just slowly become better friends with everyone, and you'll be more comfortable. and i guess self esteem is just something you build up. i'm working on that as well
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Apr 8 2005, 03:59 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
>In spanish , yes since I am living in a spanish based country right now...in english hell no.
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Apr 8 2005, 04:02 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i have a small group of friends, but i wish i could break away sometimes and hang with others but i dont know how to do that! Like i dont wanna say stupid stuff, but i want these other groups to include me.
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Apr 8 2005, 05:38 PM
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pretty much best friends with evryone in my grade nd thats only about 60 ppl...but when it comes to strangers i dont know....xpecially ppl who r older than me, i get shy, but if its somone younger than me i'm like HEYYYYYYYYYY WSUP MAH FRAND
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Apr 8 2005, 05:43 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
well.. only if your popular then you could have like ten thousand ppl around you. 'sarcastic moments' ok. but like for me, i always have my friends by my side who would always be around me. so i would never have to be afraid. you could be shy and scared at the same time but also, you may want to try to talk to them and know them better so you don't always have to be around your old friends.
--- my friends are tite. but dis 1 grl arent that best to be around with. you think its easy dealing with someone that you don't like in your group but 'they' think that dey're ur friend. not funny. |
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Apr 8 2005, 05:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,342 |
^ LOL "HEYYYY WSUP MAH FRAND" that made me laugh haha newaiz, i'm like u too, i'm outgoing and hyper all the time wit my close friends, but sometimes when i'm REALLY hyper, i just say hi to ppl i don't kno, there's like 200 something 8th graders in my school and I kno most of em, so like I'm hyper all the time I guess? haha just get close wit every1 that's all
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Apr 8 2005, 05:47 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
I'm loud and just 'out there' when I'm with my friends but when I'm with people I don't know or not really that well then I'm quiet and come across shy. I don't feel insecure or anything. I just don't want to make myself look stupid for first impressions
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Apr 8 2005, 06:00 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
Thats okay i used to be like that too. Its good that your body feels that way around people you dont know. But next time, jus relax think about what your going to say.. gain confidence to go up and say w.e u gotta say!
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Apr 8 2005, 06:00 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I've grown to be a very quiet and timid person.
I used to be very out-going and social, but not anymore. I try to keep what I say to a minimum. |
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Apr 8 2005, 06:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,231 |
Around my friends, im usually not "loud" but talkative and stuff.
If im around strangers and all the sudden we start talking, i tend to open up rather quickly and be myself. But, im still very shy im usually never the one to start conversations or say anything to anyone i dont know. I think its because i have low self esteem :/ |
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Apr 8 2005, 06:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,860 |
i am shy in public i guess.
but in front of my friends, i talk a lot. |
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Apr 8 2005, 06:50 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Wow, I am EXACTLy like that. I cannot jump into conversations or me more outgoing around people who aren't my close friends. But with mym friends I am just a non-stop talking freak.
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Apr 8 2005, 08:41 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
dont be afraid of what they will think of you.
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Apr 8 2005, 08:58 PM
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 Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
Hmm ME TOO! but nowadays...im better at that..i dunno it will get better with age i think..thats whats happening to me so its all good man
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Apr 8 2005, 09:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 145 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,204 |
im exaclty the same way ....it takes a while befor i can be myself around someone .. =)
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Apr 8 2005, 09:53 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
I'm like that sometimes. I just take a deep breath and take the dive. In other words-pop up behind the nicest person in the group, say hi, and wedge yourself in. LOL-it must have worked cuz I have more friends this year *yey*
Yes-I can be a pushy bi-otch |
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Apr 8 2005, 09:58 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
i'm not shy only around ppl i don't know i just won't talk much and another way i will be quite is if you are talking bout somethng i have no clue 'bout or another language but normally i am a very loud and crazy person lol
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Apr 9 2005, 02:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,215 |
im loud and outgoing and completly opposite of a shy person. i can be really calm though.
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