how do you know if your bisexual?! |
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 Mar 1 2005, 10:32 PM
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how do you knwo if your bisexual?! I'm 14 and I'm still virgin but I'm jsut wondering I mean...I've never liked a girl or boy in that way really...but I do find my best freind hot (she's a girl) and I'ms tarting to scar myself...am I jstu overreacting?! I cn't be sure, I really do find her hot, and if she was a guy, I'd have a big crush on her, bu tI mean I cna't cause sh'es a girl...it this jsut messed?
 it'd really bothering me and my imagination is running away...I mean, I find guys hot an all, but i find girls jsut as hot sometimes..maybe I'l get over it? maybe bisexuals are jsut that way caus ehtye wanna be? or are you born that way? ahhhh, I'm so confused 
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Mar 1 2005, 10:33 PM
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Your mom goes to college.. Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,541 |
Its just a stage...
Lots of people go thru the same thing |
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Mar 1 2005, 10:42 PM
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(shrug) maybe you find your friend hot, cuz you're jealous.
you can think other girls have good looks too (: |
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Mar 1 2005, 10:45 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Mar 1 2005, 10:42 PM) (shrug) maybe you find your friend hot, cuz you're jealous. you can think other girls have good looks too (:  ^^i read in a magazine that when you dream about having sex with other people it's not always about sex, it's because you admire something about them and you would like to posess that quality as well, this may be the case for you in a way. i believe i am bisexual because well...i think about doing things and this is so not pg-13 so i'll stop here  just because you think she's hot doesn't mean you're bi 
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Mar 1 2005, 10:47 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
sometimes i think like that too & think i cud be bisexual but i really dont think i am.. and if i am or you are.. (im 14 too) i dont think we'd know until we were older.. so if u really think you are, you should wait.
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Mar 1 2005, 10:51 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Well, like for me, if I see a pretty/cute/hott girl I'll say it straight out that she's hott. You could just admire her for her and not be bisexual at all. *shrugs* I guess you're not really sure until you like someone right? ^_^
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Mar 1 2005, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(wonders79 @ Mar 1 2005, 7:42 PM) (shrug) maybe you find your friend hot, cuz you're jealous. you can think other girls have good looks too (: that's true. I guess I could jsut be jealous, after all, I am really jealous of her hair  darn ppl with perfect hair  why was I born a defect? 
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Mar 1 2005, 10:54 PM
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If you like boys and girls. Go figure.
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Mar 1 2005, 11:08 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Yeah, like what people said before, you could just admire her or be jealous
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Mar 1 2005, 11:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
i think bisexuality in your teen years are a stage, and you won't really know for sure until you're late teens or early 20s? when you grow up and kinda settle down. ya kno?
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Mar 1 2005, 11:13 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,200 |
well when i think some girls hot...i tell them hahah no biggie, but then do you have a crush on her? because thats totally different from liking they're looks
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Mar 1 2005, 11:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,825 |
LoL, I have a boyfriend
and I still think girls are fckin hotttt. but it's not like i want to date them or is emotionally attach to them. Well when you think you actually want to be in a relationship that's when you know you're like the same person that is your sex. maybe if you ask her, how she feel about you such as a friend or etc?. So you won't scare her off. |
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Mar 1 2005, 11:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,899 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,580 |
i think girls are prettty but i wouldn't want to do stuff wiht them
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Mar 2 2005, 01:43 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Sounds like you're bisexual. If you think guys are hot and would like to date guys anytime. But in the same times, you also like girls. You like to imaginate girls in your mind and pretend like you're dating her or kissing her. That's bisexual.
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Mar 2 2005, 01:56 AM
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When kids are young they are confused. They might think someone is hot because they like something about the other person, they feel they lack themselves. You only know for sure that you are gay/lesbian/bi-sexual until you've actually "done" something with them. In cases of bi-sexual people, "done" something with both sexes.
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Mar 2 2005, 03:11 AM
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QUOTE(inlonelinessidie @ Mar 1 2005, 10:56 PM) When kids are young they are confused. They might think someone is hot because they like something about the other person, they feel they lack themselves. You only know for sure that you are gay/lesbian/bi-sexual until you've actually "done" something with them. In cases of bi-sexual people, "done" something with both sexes. well, that makes me feel better...I guess I am pretty confussed...it seems like msot ppl are when they are like 13-15 or what knot...I donno, my mind is jsut messed  I mean, it's pretty obvius I'm a really confussed kid when I have to ask complete strangers on a forum a question about my own feelings to sort things out...*sigh*, I liked being 12 better...everything was so much more simple then 
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Mar 2 2005, 03:53 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
ahh gosh something similar is happening to me. well yea i guess its a stage. my teacher said it tends to happen
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Mar 2 2005, 03:57 AM
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 Just sit and listen... Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,339 |
ok here's an easy test:
image kissing a girl. if you cringe at all then like the others said you prolly just admire/are jealous of the other girls. Now if you don't cringe, imagine other things like that until you cringe. if you don't cringe at all then you MAY have an interest, but it's not for sure. Just grow up a bit more, see where your relationships take you. You'll know if you are by the time you're 18 |
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Mar 2 2005, 04:04 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
I find any woman I admire or respect attractive. not like ooh I wanna eff you, but like beyonce, i find her incredible. I think shes sexy as hell, and if I was a dude, I eff her in a second. But I'm not physically sttracted to her. I dont wanna rub her bewbies (lol i dont know) so I mean, if you find urself wanting to do stuff with her physically then maybe, but just cuz u find her sttractive? Thats normal. St least it is for me and my friends. We used to have girl crushes on some of our teachers. its whatever. Just be honest with yourself.
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Mar 2 2005, 06:20 AM
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 go go power rangers<3 Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 |
This is my take on things.
I don't think that you are bisexual, but only you would know. I don't believe that you are bisexual/lesbian/gay/straight unless you can honestly see yourself actually being with a person of that gender, and loving them too. But if you just find them hot, I think that's just admiration. I think girls are hot, but I can honestly see myself being with a girl if the right one comes along. I think that's the difference between the different sexualities. |
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Mar 2 2005, 09:22 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Bisexual Girls are HOT!
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Mar 2 2005, 10:06 AM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Well, I don't know about others, but I think its because you havent had any experiences. I mean, once I start experiencing things, I would be able to determin. But, just looking and saying someone is hot, doesn't make you bi, or anything... if thats what ur wondering
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Mar 2 2005, 10:12 AM
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 Be mine ~* Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,169 |
Actually, I have the similar problem.
However, I admit myself as a bisexual... It's not really embarrasing... I am attracted to guys but at the same time, some girls steal my heart... So, as I have no idea if I am a homosexual or heterosexual at this moment, I will introduce myself as a bisexual. Girls are really hot sometimes and I sometimes would even thought what you had thought ( If she is a guy, I would surely had a big crush on her )... |
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Mar 2 2005, 04:11 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
i find girls hot, too.
look at angelina jolie. da~~yumm! - -; ((but it doesn't mean you're bi just because you think both male and females are hot. it's just a... puberty stage.)) |
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Mar 2 2005, 04:28 PM
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QUOTE(someflipguy @ Mar 2 2005, 6:22 AM) Bisexual Girls are HOT! umm...okay...that makes me feel....alot better... 
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