how to tell him..., that I like him |
 Mar 20 2005, 01:23 PM
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ok, I think this guy likes me, and I think I may like him back, I just don't know how to tell him, I would ask my best friend but, like many other people she's teasing that we should date and stuff, since hes a goof guy they think hes not good dating material, and hes not really "hot" so they say "ew" though I think hes a great guy, but I just don't want to ruin our friendship by asking him, and if our friendship got messed up then lots of people would feel weird since we basically share the same friends, and if we were to end up dating I know my friends would always tease and that can be a pain (I know I shouldn't worry what others think, but still)...
hm, I'm just not sure if I should tell him and risk him not liking me and then our friendship being a little weird, and if I do ask, I just don't know how, argh, help? 
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Mar 20 2005, 01:27 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
by saying hi i like you want to mate, i mean date.
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Mar 20 2005, 02:03 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
^lol, thats one way....
You could leave him hints and if he's slow..then just tell him straight up and if he says no...Life goes on |
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Mar 20 2005, 02:25 PM
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Talk to him about it. Just open up, I know there's something on the tip of your tongue that you wish you could say, everytime you see him; just say those phrases you have wanted to tell him. You can't ruin a relationship by opening up, but by engaging and ending a deeper one.
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Mar 20 2005, 02:29 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
it's true, you shouldn't let what your friends say change your mind about someone....i did that once and lost someone that could have been the one....it sucks, but once you make the mistake...you can't turn back...so just open up to him...get to know him and just be yourself. =)
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Mar 20 2005, 02:57 PM
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i suggest to tell him through another person...juz for ''bak upp''
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Mar 20 2005, 09:34 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
just go up to him and say "i like u..will u go out with me?"or something like that....
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Mar 20 2005, 10:09 PM
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Unofficial Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,420 |
Or find a nice, quiet place to simply admit it. Make sure he's in a good mood though.
I suggest, though, finding out if he's the type who ignores someone entirely just because they have a crush on him. |
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Mar 20 2005, 10:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You tell him your feelings if you don't want to leave hints..or like flirt and drag the process. Just tell him...honestly..how you feel about him. But..if you don't want to risk your friendship then just wait till he asks you.....
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Mar 21 2005, 02:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
HAH... i was is the same situation. except i didn't have ANY idea in WHAT he thought of me in the first place.
but i took my chance and told him.. well actually.. i got my friend.. who was also a pretty close friend of his.. to tell him after school once day =) and..now.. we're going out XD. |
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