How hars is it to get over a crush?, Pretty much what I asked above? Options

[glam_tiara16]

I know that every girl has had a crush on a boy, and many of you have probably have dated/are dating their crushes. But what about the ones that go wrong. Say you were friends with a guy and you started to like him, you told him and he dissed you. Would you get over him or just start to like him even more if you continued hanging out with him? So what do you think?



Crush By Gavin DeGraw
Well my past came in
You dropped the ball
It didn't change the way I feel
And I was wishin I'd break down your walls
A kiss will know if flips things still

There is a line I cross
There when you missed, a loss
I'm not a loser
Girl, you know that I'll be back again

My deal, I went for the steal
Maybe it was rushed
Oh, my crush
I gotta crush

[Teesa]

I think I would definitely like him less because it would make me embarassed and uncomfortable if I was around him more.

[iced__cappucino]

i had a HUGE crush on this guy and i attempted to tell him but yeah for the rest of the year we were still extrememly good friends. but i got over him during the summer. =)

[sparklebabygirl]

I think u should just move on bc you probally could get better

[frenchaddict88]

i would get over him...but if it was just like a joke-y thingy lol..then i might still hang out with him sometimes. it depends.

[Chii]

I know that every girl has had a crush on a boy, and many of you have probably have dated/are dating their crushes. But what about the ones that go wrong. Say you were friends with a guy and you started to like him, you told him and he dissed you. Would you get over him or just start to like him even more if you continued hanging out with him? So what do you think?

oh hell f*cking no, what kind of friend disses you when you're so vulnerable? what a jerk, i wouldn't even TRY to fix the friendship

[_confuzed_]

if a guy dissed me when i told him i liked him, then i would definitely start thinking of him differently. it would be pretty hard to like somebody still if they insulted you.

[silver-rain]

Well, if a guy dissed me when I told him that I liked him, my feelings for him would definitely change. I wouldn't like him anymore, and maybe dislike him...
But, it can be hard getting over a crush...

[xTINAA]

I think it really depends on how much I liked the guy in the first place. If it was little then I would have to say, "His loss." And get over it. But if it is a monumentous HUGE crush I would probably continue to like him or maybe convince myself & others that I didn't like him when deep down, the feelings are still there. It's hard usually for me to get over a big crush. I've been basically struggling with one for three years. It sucks. But he didn't diss me so I guess it's not the same..? Haha

[Xprezsion]

Yea it depends how much you like them. For me it has taken 1 and a 1/2 years, just recently I got over this guy, but it's ok cause we will still remain friends, that's the best part :].

[liSerS x3]

hmmm, nothing went wrong in the relationship. but, like we met at a summer camp, which was 3 weeks. i only got him to know him for 2 weeks. i live in new jersey..he lives in massachusetts, so yeah..

we both really liked each other though =]. we kinda just had to our seperate ways at the end of the camp. it took me half a year to get over him. ehh,i realized i most likely wouldn't see him again, so i kinda just gave up "/

[bravodancer04]

umm...i got over a lot of crushes, but if he dissed you, i would stop crushing on him cuz obviously hes a dumbass bastard..nuf said

[clarissa]

i'd get over him if he dissed me.

i don't have a lot of crushes lately 'cause i know that all the guys i know don't make the kind of boyfriend i'm looking for.

[nicky04033]

it depends......... if this guy keeps avoiding talking to me afterwards, i'd juz move on...
if he disses me in a positive way, i'd keep liking him..... in hopes of dat he may like me some time later....haha

[NyteRyder]

if a guy mistreats you in anyway, then you shouldnt be with him. Truth is, if a guy likes you, he just wants to get in your pants....

[ohh_so_elektrikk...]

i got over my crush pretty fast. i wasnt really affected by it, he liked some other girl and i just let it go and moved on with my life. dwelling over it isnt going to get you anywhere

[jbjennessee13]

I had a crush...well ok I STILL Have a crush on this guy.....and he is a compleate ass to me....I have known him for a long time, we used to be really good friends. That was a long time ago, and I am still holding on to the past, I'm holding on to what he used to be. And yeah, its hard to let that go, but you have to. We arnt that good of friens anymore. Buut...I know there is a guy out there who WILL treat me right...just gotta find him. Lol.