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 Mar 19 2005, 11:10 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit.  Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884  |
ok my first love and first bf dumped me and i just cant get over him! he consumes every thought of mine but he hates me now and is going out with my friend. i dont know why i like him hes mean but probably because he was the first to want to be close and hold my hand and stuff. plz help :(
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Mar 19 2005, 11:13 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Why is you "friend" going out with your ex unless you approved which i doubt. I think you should get over him thats is sad that he was like your first but what his doing to you know is really messed and you shouldnt waste youre time in thinking of him.
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Mar 19 2005, 11:33 PM
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Oh Goddamnit. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 |
well i try to get over him but i cant stop thinking about it...
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Mar 19 2005, 11:42 PM
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 ohBrian Group: Member Posts: 556 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,625 |
just go out with your girlfriends.. or get a new guy, i know its not easy.. but youll just end up hurting yourself..
just move forward and never look back, burn his pictures!! burn everything you had with him!! better yet if you see him walking in the street burn him!! rarw!! |
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Mar 19 2005, 11:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
give it time and I'm sure you'll get over him. Just because he was the first person to want to hold your hand..doesn't mean he's the one. If he's being mean to you...and dating your friend then forget about him and get over it. Find someone else. Move on.
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Mar 19 2005, 11:49 PM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
Wow. You have a nice friend. That totally sucks. Go see a movie or have a night just with you and your best friends. You'll forget about him in time.
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Mar 19 2005, 11:49 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(ohBrian @ Mar 19 2005, 6:42 PM) just go out with your girlfriends.. or get a new guy, i know its not easy.. but youll just end up hurting yourself.. just move forward and never look back, burn his pictures!! burn everything you had with him!! better yet if you see him walking in the street burn him!! rarw!!  i agree...but dont burn his stuff..keep it as memories....but it somewhere u wont c it.. |
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Mar 19 2005, 11:55 PM
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Oh Goddamnit. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884 |
shes not a bad friend, i told her she should because she really likes him. a lot of people like him... i just think that he just wants to get down ur pants lol! and its hard to get a new guy when nobody likes u like that..
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Mar 20 2005, 12:18 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
time heals all, give yourself some time away from your old bf, and your friend, and give yourself something to do. You're still young, and you have lots of boyfriends ahead of you
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Mar 20 2005, 01:07 AM
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^^
agreed. as cliche as it sounds, time is what'll heal you. i didn't believe it before but then it happened. |
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Mar 20 2005, 02:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Do something that will keep your mind off it... eventually you can put it down
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Mar 20 2005, 02:48 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
first of all, she's not your friend to be going out w/ him right after he broke up with you.
and second, find something to take your mind off him, whether it's a hobby, a sport, or whatever. |
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