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ok well this week i have found out that 3 of my friendz habve been dating someone for a long time and haven't told me. but told other ppl. and these are my good friends. don't get me wrong i respect their privacy, but don't you hink i am just a tad bit entitled to know who they're dating? am i in the wrong for this?
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well heres how i see it. if they tried to hide it from you - yeah that'd be upsetting but if they just left it out then yeah i'd just ask them but i wouldn't get mad about it.
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![]() rwar (; ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 ![]() |
i guess your semi-entitled to know about it-- but does it really matter?
does it really matter who they`re dating? and perhaps theres a reason they`re not telling you. or perhaps they jst forgot to mention it to you (: |
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
Yeah, I agree. I mean, I haven't really told my friends that I have a boyfriend, unless they see us together or they ask me. I just don't like talking about my personal life that much I guess, so I don't really openly discuss it with them. But, if they were purposfully hiding, ask them about it.
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![]() Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 ![]() |
i would get mad if they told other ppl but not me... u have every right to be mad
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![]() i <3 giraffes & hamsters ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 ![]() |
i think it`s okay to be mad, i mean, it`s your close friends
but you shouldn`t be too angry that you wouldn`t be friends anymore. maybe they didn`t want to tell because they didn`t rub into your face that you`re single (are you single?) hey, at least you know they`re together now. :P |
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Mar 8 2005, 1:35 PM) I mean, I haven't really told my friends that I have a boyfriend, unless they see us together or they ask me. I just don't like talking about my personal life that much I guess, so I don't really openly discuss it with them. She has a point. What if other people asked your friends before you did? Maybe they (your friends) told them (other people) only because they asked.I wouldn't blame your friends. This happens to me a lot, since i always wait for my friends to tell me about "their news". QUOTE(my_sunshine @ Mar 8 2005, 3:28 PM) but you shouldn`t be too angry that you wouldn`t be friends anymore. maybe they didn`t want to tell because they didn`t rub into your face that you`re single So true. How do you know they weren't being ultra sensitive for your sake?^ Ignore that if you're not single. ![]() |
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![]() go go power rangers<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 321 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,457 ![]() |
No, you're definately not wrong in this. But perhaps they were doing this FOR you. Maybe they didn't want you to feel bad because they had boyfriends and you didn't. Try talking to them. Tell them that you'd rather them tell you what's going on in their lives than try to protect you from it.
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
maybe they thought they were dating someone you liked?? or probaly will feel left out?
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
I guess them not telling you might be a sign that they don't see you as a good friend as you see them..but if they told other people...before they told you....and umm....they are in your opinion good friends...then umm...you have a right to be mad...but then again...it's their life..and it's their choice to tell who they want to...
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