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 Feb 19 2005, 06:35 PM
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you know how a lot of ppl say that "to find the one, you have to go through a lot of other ppl and your heart have to be broken at least a few times.. but it's all worth it because at the end, you'll find your one." or all that stuff..
if your first partner seems to be the one.. he/she seems to be the right one and the perfect one.. would you ever think that she'll/he'll be just a person in your life that help you find the one. is what i'm saying too confusing? let me try to make it more easy to understand. will you ever think that your first love will be just a person in helping you find the true love? although, your first love seems to be your perfect and true love right now, do you ever doubt it or think it the other way? |
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Feb 19 2005, 07:10 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
You know...it could be that your first person or love, whatever...helped you on your way to finding the one for you cause my first love...he broke my heart so bad to where I learned a permanent lesson about relationships and such...
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Feb 19 2005, 07:26 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I doubt it. I have about 10 more years before I'm allowed to get married. And 10 years is a hella long time.
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Feb 19 2005, 07:35 PM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
Your first love could definately be the one you're going to be with for the rest of your life. That saying is just a general statement. If you have a lot of relationships before you find "the one," you find out what you don't want in a guy. But if you find what you want on your first try, lucky you!
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Feb 19 2005, 07:40 PM
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 Afflicted: Hurt. Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 |
I'm confused. What now?
I just think that it is different for different situations. You have to live your life by keeping options open and then again, you can't really learn unless you are in a relationship? I don't know what I just said. |
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Feb 19 2005, 07:52 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Love is just too confusing.
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Feb 19 2005, 07:59 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
... Not really. My first love (the one that I'm with right now) seems like the one, IMO... I don't truly believe in that quote. But I guess I won't know what the future might bring.
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Feb 19 2005, 08:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Hm, not really. i doubt that.
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Feb 19 2005, 08:50 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
It's always possible. If you meet "the one" then you've met them! Even if you're 10-years-old and you meet the person you are "destined" to be with... you will spend the rest of your life with... of course there could be some breaking up and getting back together...
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Feb 19 2005, 10:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
you should never doubt love cause nebody can spend the rest of their life wiith you so never never doubt and dont believe in that stuff where you have meet wrong people before the right one cause thats just an excuse for a relationship to break up so who knows your first love might be your only llove so keep it up!
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Mar 2 2005, 10:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
yeah true.. i don't feel this way..but i was just pondering on the topic, because a lot of ppl i know claim that they're in "love" and later on, says taht they weren't in love and htought that they were in love.. and i believe them. so j/w
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Mar 2 2005, 11:58 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, I guess it really depends. I think that my first love, my current love too, is the one that I'm meant to be with. So, I don't really believe that quote.
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Mar 3 2005, 12:21 AM
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^^
well it depends for each person you know? but yeah i'm in the same situation as linda but yeah...everyone is different. |
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Mar 3 2005, 01:05 AM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
^ i agree too. it depends on the person. i've never been in love so i cant say for sure but i think you'll just know, regardless if its the first love or not.
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Mar 3 2005, 02:57 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
yeah well I agree Ive been through many people , and each one I thought they were the "1" and they ended up not being so yeah maybe it is true,
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Mar 5 2005, 02:08 AM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Maybe we think that our first love is our true love because it was simply the first love we ever had in the first place. No comparison, no experience.
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Mar 5 2005, 04:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
nah i don't think your first one is just one person you have to go through to find the perfect & right one. there are cases out there where someone fell in love and ended up marrying their first. who knows, the one you think might be the right one might just be the right one.
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Mar 5 2005, 04:22 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i don't really know!
 but i kinda don't know if your first love can be your true love because it is the only love you have ever had. that would be like saying, this is the best hamburger i have ever had whenever it was your very first hamburger you had ever eaten. think about that. 
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