I HATE MY EX!!!, ...............I HATE HIM!! |
 Feb 3 2005, 12:45 AM
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about a month ago, my bf dumped me. But he didnt exactly tell me he has no feelings for me anymore. He told me bunch of lies like "I really want to be with you but i can't. 'cause my dad wants me go out with this girl" blah blah blah. And then he told me to call him, which I did. But he disconnected his phone. I was super worried and cried everyday
 . When I finally see him, he were trying to hook me up with this dude I don't even like. And after I gets so pissed off at him  , he said that he didn't mean to do that blah blah blah. And Im finally got better. he came up to me and said stuff like "Geez. just go find a guy already, would you?" "it's a really big problem for me. It bothers me." he just want me to get out of his life. But I AM out. After he has hurt me so much (cheat on me 4 times, lied to me a billion times. Liked 4 ppl at once, etc) and he has to hurt me again even after we broke up! Is All guys like that?! or is it just him?? Any idea what I should do??? |
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Feb 3 2005, 12:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
iono... my ex is being an a-hole too.........
iono which guy is worse, ur ex or mine. but all i have to say is i totaly understand u.. n about ur question... i dont think all guys are like that, ..its jus that we have bad luck =)... but dont worry. in my experience is that.. no matter WHAT>.. there will ALWAYS be other guys.. as an example, or smthn to prove it.. _----back in china, i liked this guy for 2 years but he never liked me back, we were best friends but he never liked me that way, i thought i wud NEVER find another guy i like soo much, but then when i moved to canada there was this guy named RAY n i liked him soo much, but he didn't like me, again, i thought i would never like another guy the way i like him, but then when i got into highschool the next year BAM there was this guy named BILLY, n i liked him sooo much.. n that whole thing again, n now theres this NEW guy at our school this year =)... so yea. leave that meanie =) ... n sry for the LONG post. |
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Feb 3 2005, 12:55 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I have to admit, there are quite a few horrible guys out there in the world and those kind of boys are a DISGRACE to men. Although, I know that there are PLENTY of wonderful guys out there who aren't like your ex-boyfriend. Just start ignoring him. It seems like he thinks you actually give him attention, even though you're just trying to move on. Just forget about him. If you're out of his life, then you shouldn't be hurt. Next time he says that to you, just look him sternly in the eye and say "Stop thinking that the world revolves around you, because it doesn't. I've been over you. Maybe it's you who's not yet over me. How about YOU get the heck out of my life first." I know that might sound a little cheesy/lame, but tell him what's what.
I know you've probably heard this cliché a million times, but I'm still going to say it: "There's plenty of fish in the sea." |
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Feb 3 2005, 01:01 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
It's just him....
 QUOTE And Im finally got better. he came up to me and said stuff like "Geez. just go find a guy already, would you?" QUOTE he just want me to get out of his life. But I AM out. Why would he say that to you if you are out of his life? I don't know whats up with him but yeah. Still buggin you just let it alone. What he says to you should not mean anything. I have a lot more to say.... I just... can't 
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 3 2005, 02:36 AM
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yeah some guys are such arseholes...but yeah just get over him and tell him to eff off...that's what i'd do.
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Feb 3 2005, 09:16 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
do what stephinika says...then ignore him.
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Feb 3 2005, 09:37 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 3 2005, 1:01 AM) It's just him.... Why would he say that to you if you are out of his life? I don't know whats up with him but yeah. Still buggin you just let it alone. What he says to you should not mean anything. I have a lot more to say.... I just... can't  yeah, its just him. find somebody else who will truly love you. There are plenty of guys out there who are willing to love you if you give them a chance 
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Feb 3 2005, 05:13 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
grl i feel 4 u-- i hate my ex 2 ;-/
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Feb 3 2005, 05:25 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
he's just a jerk...just ignore what he says. It might be hard, but just act like your totaly over him and he'll probably leave you alone.
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Feb 3 2005, 05:41 PM
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 Music Freak Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,550 |
QUOTE(DixieDaCutie @ Feb 3 2005, 5:13 PM) grl i feel 4 u-- i hate my ex 2 ;-/ o thats lovely....... announce it 2 the world y dont ya >_< i think its JUST HIM...thats reely sad tho sry 
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Feb 3 2005, 06:21 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
just smack him across the face and say look im already out of your life so stop trying to hook me up with your friends that i dont like ... why dont you stop trying to bring me BACK to your stupid life
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Feb 3 2005, 07:30 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
if you hate him that much, than why do you hang around with him. i know your not retarted. if he has lied to you, cheated on you, and not repsected you while y'all are together, you need to forget him.
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 3 2005, 07:42 PM
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amazing how some people let you wlak all over them....stick up for yourself. and get this loser outta ya life. your young you don't need him trust me.
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Feb 3 2005, 07:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
Just ignore him and act like he doesn't exist and act like he doesn't bother you, it's a strategy. Maybe he'll change his way of treating people or maybe he'll be so mad and his head will explode while trying to think of some other ways to torture you
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Feb 3 2005, 09:02 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i hate my fukkin ex too. if i see him...ohh...just ohhh
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Feb 3 2005, 09:18 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
get over him. seriously. he sounds like a jerk.
i dont hate my exs. im actulay quite good friends with most of them. |
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Feb 3 2005, 10:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Move on and get over him. I had the same similar (sorta) argument with my ex today. He's being such a jerk, but he still wants me in his life. (Well, his ass can contact me. I'm through.) Anyway, just move on. He sounds like someone who doesn't even care about you (Like my ex)...and yeah...Be strong. Stay Independent. Kick him in the balls.
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Feb 3 2005, 10:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
what a d*ck......tell him he can go F*ck himself
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Feb 3 2005, 10:20 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Feb 3 2005, 10:16 PM) what a d*ck......tell him he can go F*ck himself Never heard you speak like that GO YOU! Ermm.. he sounds like a pimp. O.O Smack him straight up, talk to that boy with attitude, tell him whatcha wanna say, smakc again, and say I NEVER LIKED YOU, NEVER WILL. YOU'RE AN a-hole WHO IS A JERK. LEARN HOWTA LIVE YOU BIG PIECE OF CRAP! and step on his feet, smack him again, then leave. Smacking is fun.
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Feb 8 2005, 06:04 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think it's just him...
Why dont you tell him off? Tell him that it's your life and you'll do what you want...stand up for yourself and he should back off. 
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Feb 8 2005, 06:42 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
tell him to f--- off. simple as that.
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Feb 8 2005, 08:15 PM
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 ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 |
remind me of my friend, he desperate to go out with alot of ppl and now he have somany ex that he hate alot! and regret.
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Feb 8 2005, 09:27 PM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
how annoying and gross! hmph. anyway, all guys arent like that, most definitely.
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Feb 9 2005, 05:39 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
If he's over with you, then tell him to stop minding your business. He's not supposed to be choosing a boyfriend for you. He's a jerk. I agree with Spiritedfreak, go up to his face with an attitude and say how you feel about him acting like he's a pimp. He thinks it's easy for him to get girls. Psh.
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Feb 9 2005, 07:18 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
wow you seem like a really nice person since he cheated on you FOUR tiems and you were still with him seems like your his biatch anyways how long were you two together? and thats sooo lame how he just dumps you like that, if that happened to me i'd get his penis cut off.
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