Am I out of line? Options

[HoodieObsessed]

I have absolutly no experience with this but I jsut wanted to give my opinion:

I think that you shouldn't get too worried or anything, it's true all guys are different, but they do all carry traits that are the same...he can't help getting turned on y other girls...it's not like he's goign out with them or sometihng, if he's getting engaged to you he must really love you...I don'tt hink him getting turned on by other girls means he loves you any less, he jsut can't help it...when I was lil, like not that little, around 10 or something I thought my bros were bove having girlfreinds (kinda a weid thought now I think about it..I mean having a girlfreind isn't low, lol, but ya, I was young,give me a break) so anyway, I was really surprised when he told me he liked this girl...I practically went I cried...I'm like "what is the world coming to?" but ya, I got over it...it's sjut one of those things, humans can't help some things, thye jsut come...but I bet your fiance is probably turned on by you more than any other girl

[x shootingstar x]

as everyone said, he's a guy.. and guys can't help it..
you should really have a deep talk about that to him... maybe he can help it? i don't know..

to answer your question, i don't think you're out of line..
i know what you mean.. if he's YOUR man, he shouldn't be looking at other girls.. that's just annoying.. and it seem at least somewhat unloyal. BUT, if you think about it another way, you can also be touch by another guy's smile. maybe YOU don't.. but i was just trying to give an example.. but you are DEFINITLY NOT out of line.

There was once a quote i've heard. "it's the hormones that make the gentlemen JERKS!"

hmm well.. i'm just rambling because i'm thinking myself..

how about this.. think it THIS way..

if YOUR GUY watches porn.. no matter how much.. [everyday, twice a week, once a month, or whatever] doesn't he get turn on? yes he does. and when he watches porn, he's looking at rated R girls.. (i wonder if this is pg13) but yes, that is annoying..

i was and sometimes still am annoyed by this truth.

but you are NOT out of line and you should have a DEEP TALK ABOUT ALL THIS WITH HIM!! trust me, it's for the better. he'll feel better knowing how you feel and you'll feel better knowing that he knows..


i hope i helped!