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 Mar 27 2005, 10:44 PM
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i thought she had a stroke.
and i think the parents need to get over it. the husbands got to be in so far over his head in debt, because of the parents. and they need to just let her die. she said she doesnt want to be like that. ths just pisses me of. |
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Mar 27 2005, 10:48 PM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(lost [child] @ Mar 27 2005, 10:44 PM) i thought she had a stroke. and i think the parents need to get over it. the husbands got to be in so far over his head in debt, because of the parents. and they need to just let her die. she said she doesnt want to be like that. ths just pisses me of.  get over it???? nobody gets over a death, they live with it. your so blinded . if your daughter had this same problem you would definately not get over it. Jeze think about what you say before you say it. have some sympathy for her parents. shes dying right now and all you have to say is get over it. |
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Mar 27 2005, 11:02 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
she's been dead for 15 years.
right now all she is is a life-size furby doll (remeber those?) that has reflexes to things. sure, her eyes will follow a balloon. her eyes will follow a sign that says "don't look at this if your consious. sure she can smile. sure she's still smiling, even though if she was consious she would be screaming for water. |
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Mar 27 2005, 11:42 PM
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QUOTE(pandamonium @ Mar 27 2005, 7:48 PM) get over it???? nobody gets over a death, they live with it. your so blinded . if your daughter had this same problem you would definately not get over it. Jeze think about what you say before you say it. have some sympathy for her parents. shes dying right now and all you have to say is get over it. like sadolakcedacid said, she has been dead for 15 years. her parents are still stuck in the denial stage of getting over death and dying, and have been for a LONG time. they DO need to get over it. |
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Mar 28 2005, 12:12 AM
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cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
you guys are really heartless bitches you know that, sry for generalizing you but you are. YOU DO NOT GET OVER DEATH YOU LIVE WITH IT. you do not forget about it, you deal with it but never get over it. not unless its someone you dont care about. you just dont. im shure they got over the fact that she is brain dead but you never ever get over someone dying.
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Mar 28 2005, 12:57 AM
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yes you do
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Mar 28 2005, 01:05 AM
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they just need to stop now and accept the fact she's going to die.
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Mar 28 2005, 01:33 AM
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cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
why 15 years ? thats way too long. why now?
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Mar 28 2005, 01:40 AM
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 NO WAI! R u Srs? Group: Member Posts: 1,264 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,094 |
QUOTE(pandamonium @ Mar 28 2005, 12:12 AM) you guys are really heartless bitches you know that, sry for generalizing you but you are. YOU DO NOT GET OVER DEATH YOU LIVE WITH IT. you do not forget about it, you deal with it but never get over it. not unless its someone you dont care about. you just dont. im shure they got over the fact that she is brain dead but you never ever get over someone dying. Ummm. You get over death by accepting it. Dealing with death and dying there are stages: Denial, Anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. If the parents accept that their daughter is truly dead, then they will not pursue to keep her alive. I believe they are in the denial stage as william stated. They may also be in the bargaining stage. I mean come on. Theres no hope. ACCEPT IT. 
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Mar 28 2005, 08:50 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(william @ Mar 28 2005, 11:24 AM) psst, sammi: actually...the whole process was - bulimia > potassium imbalance > heart attack > cuts of blood to brain > brain damage |
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Mar 28 2005, 09:18 AM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
QUOTE(pandamonium @ Mar 27 2005, 9:48 PM) get over it???? nobody gets over a death, they live with it. your so blinded . if your daughter had this same problem you would definately not get over it. Jeze think about what you say before you say it. have some sympathy for her parents. shes dying right now and all you have to say is get over it. but shes been like this for over 15 years. she doesnt do anything except move occasionally. and i think the parents need to let her go. because making it into a whole ordeal like it is now...nobody does that, theres no point. i think theyre making it too big. |
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Mar 28 2005, 10:02 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Mar 28 2005, 7:50 AM) actually...the whole process was - bulimia > potassium imbalance > heart attack > cuts of blood to brain > brain damage i knew there was a heart attack. pwned, willy. |
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Mar 28 2005, 12:53 PM
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QUOTE(Sumiaki @ Mar 27 2005, 10:40 PM) Ummm. You get over death by accepting it. Dealing with death and dying there are stages: Denial, Anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. If the parents accept that their daughter is truly dead, then they will not pursue to keep her alive. I believe they are in the denial stage as william stated. They may also be in the bargaining stage. I mean come on. Theres no hope. ACCEPT IT. thank you. QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Mar 28 2005, 7:02 AM) i knew there was a heart attack. pwned, willy.  but isn't that the same thing as-QUOTE(william @ Mar 27 2005, 2:53 PM) or cut off the blood flow to it argh. whatever. i'll accept that i was pwned by teh sammi  .
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Mar 28 2005, 02:11 PM
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cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(Sumiaki @ Mar 28 2005, 1:40 AM) Ummm. You get over death by accepting it. Dealing with death and dying there are stages: Denial, Anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. If the parents accept that their daughter is truly dead, then they will not pursue to keep her alive. I believe they are in the denial stage as william stated. They may also be in the bargaining stage. I mean come on. Theres no hope. ACCEPT IT. i never said there was hope i mean shes dying right now. how could there be hope she doesnt move. her soul isnt gone yet. what i tried to say is that getting over something is totally different than accepting something. thats the only point that im trying to get out but you dont see it. if you get over a boy friend or a girl friend you try to forget about them so they dont remind you of what happened. If you accept a break up you are still friends with that person. thats what i have been saying sumiaki just put it into words. they are in denial stage casue they didnt wanna give up. but what i said getting over and accepting are 2 different things. |
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Mar 28 2005, 02:34 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(pandamonium @ Mar 27 2005, 11:33 PM) why 15 years ? thats way too long. why now? because every time the husband has tried to in the past 15 years, the parents have stopped him. he finally got fed up and realized it was time to let go. |
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Mar 28 2005, 09:40 PM
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Didn't they already take out the feeding tube already? It's been like, 10 days or something...
I don't think they'll put it back in... |
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Mar 29 2005, 01:49 AM
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QUOTE(pandamonium @ Mar 22 2005, 8:34 AM) its funny how most of the nation doesnt want this one woman to die. but still we still sell ciggarettes to millions of people...... well they obviously don't want her to die. they don't want to kill her. this is more of a religious problem. people think that if they remove the feeding tube, life is not appreciated. i don't know what they should do, if i were terri schiavo, i don't think i would want to live. i would want people to remember me as how i used to be, not as a brain dead person. i always thought it was worse to lose someone than to die. if you die, well you die. but if you lose someone, the pain is worse. i think the parents will be better off if terri died, even if they don't think so. they're too stressed right now. they're so stressed that they think that their daughter's moans are actually words. they're tricking themselves into believing things that aren't real. i don't think the husband wants her to die because of the money. i think he wants to move on, just like schiavo's parents should. |
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Mar 30 2005, 09:19 PM
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 billie joe flossing, how hot is THAT?! Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,317 |
QUOTE i think they need to take (keep?) the feeding food out. the only reason why the family wants to keep her alive is just to keep her alive. she isn't going to get better, and i think the husband is doing the right thing by trying to put her out of her misery. i agree, but i understand why her family didnt want to pull the plug. if i were terry (that how u spell it?), i would want someone to end my misery...
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Mar 31 2005, 01:50 PM
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Terri Schiavo died today at 9:05 am today after going 13 days without a feeding tube...may she rest in peace.....
http://story.news.yahoo.com/fc?cid=34&tmpl...ssisted_Suicide |
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Mar 31 2005, 02:48 PM
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now there's a whole new dispute on where to bury her and if she should have an autopsy...ahhh it never ends...
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Mar 31 2005, 02:54 PM
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its really sad but she died...i wish that they would quit talking about it....this kind of thing happens....it juts reminds me of my loved ones that died and i dont want to be reminded of that!
 
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Mar 31 2005, 02:59 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
RIP
you deserve it i need to be less happy about someone dying... but... still... long term, i think its probably the best that could have happened... |
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Mar 31 2005, 03:01 PM
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QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Mar 31 2005, 2:59 PM) RIP you deserve it i need to be less happy about someone dying... but... still... long term, i think its probably the best that could have happened... yes I quite agree. It's a shame, but I must admit I am not sad that she's gone. I think it's for the best and her parents will finally be able to let go and move on slowly after 15 years. |
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Mar 31 2005, 03:01 PM
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cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(glit_gal @ Mar 31 2005, 2:48 PM) now there's a whole new dispute on where to bury her and if she should have an autopsy...ahhh it never ends... are you serious. i didnt hear that yet. thats freaking insane her parents went through a lot, why dont they just give it a rest and let the parents do what they want for once. |
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Mar 31 2005, 04:19 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^how do you know it is her husband that wants it, the autopsy?
idk if you are referring to him but hell and someone should close this, she is dead. nothing really to debate |
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