i feel bad.... Options

[sunissed14127]

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[Mireh]

If you don't like him, then you dont' like him. Don't kill yourself for it.

[xjjajeengx]

well, you said you dont care about ugliness, but he's a "little 2 ugly 4 me?" that sounds hypocritical... i mean, have you even given him a chance? He may be ugly, but he seems really sweet, and since you feel guilty, i think the least you can do for him is tell him that you're sorry if you hurt his feelings and just say to him "let's stay friends". I mean, that is just... really sad and it seems he meant it unless he was joking. If he wsa joking, then beat the Sh!z outt a him

[Mireh]

well, you said you dont care about ugliness, but he's a "little 2 ugly 4 me?" that sounds hypocritical... i mean, have you even given him a chance? He may be ugly, but he seems really sweet, and since you feel guilty, i think the least you can do for him is tell him that you're sorry if you hurt his feelings and just say to him "let's stay friends". I mean, that is just... really sad and it seems he meant it unless he was joking. If he wsa joking, then beat the Sh!z outt a him

...Nice?

He asked if he could feel her boobs and butt.

I find that freaky.

*shiver*

[xjjajeengx]

"Anjel, i want you to know that ive liked you since the first day i met u"
"will u go out with me?"

and i said no......ok...the whole point of this story is the reason i said no is cuz hes REALLY ugly....
i feel bad though because i dont usualy care if they r ugly or not....its their personality...but hes just a little 2 ugly 4 me.....should i feel guilty???

htass what i was talking about~ but anyways

yea, the butt and boobs part was... wrong.

[Just_Dream]

ok...well there is this new dude in my neigborhood & hes my friend...hes been here about 2 weeks i think.well yesterday we were riding the bus,and i had to sit with him.we were talking and stuff & he was like "can i ask u a personal question?" and i was like "depends on how personal.." so he asked me how far i had ever gone to sex & i told him havent even been close. so he was like "so youve never let a guy feel u up or anything like that?" and i said "no not really....i mean guys touch my boobs & butt all the time but i dont want them to & i dont just let them do it." and he said "speaking hypethieticly (i think i spelled that wrong),would u let me?" and i said "no....i dont like u like that" so i started talking to my friend in front of me & when she got off of the bus he was like "Anjel, i want you to know that ive liked you since the first day i met u" and i said "ok...thats kool" and then he asked "will u go out with me?" and i said no......ok...the whole point of this story is the reason i said no is cuz hes REALLY ugly....i feel bad though because i dont usualy care if they r ugly or not....its their personality...but hes just a little 2 ugly 4 me.....should i feel guilty???

First of all, you're being WAY too judgemental because you think he's way too ugly. Second of all, you're a little shallow if you judge people by looks if he's a really nice guy. Third of all, stop me if I seem like I'm contradicting myself (although I don't think I am), the way he said "would you let me feel you up?" shows that he just likes you for your body, so you BOTH are being judgemental.

All I'm saying is Don't use looks as an excuse/escape to not date him. BUT since he asked you those questions, you can tell he's a PERV because he shouldn't be thinking about those things. If he likes you, he should like you for what your personality is like and such. Not so he can get some booty.

[Mireh]

htass what i was talking about~ but anyways

yea, the butt and boobs part was... wrong.

Oh...heh. Sorry, didn't really understand.

But just let it be. I think he's kinda pervy.

[enticing.]

if you feel no connection then don't feel guilty. there's nothing you could really do about it now.

[sunissed14127]

ok....everyone i think is said this wrong...i like ppl who are a tiny bit cute and have a good personality better..like my ex bf....he was a nerd and he was ugly.he had buck teeth glasses,and tons of freckles. now this dude is plain BUTT UGLY.hes got big thick glasses that magnify his eyes like 500 times,a ton of acne,and a huge nose. i guess u can say i dont like BUTT UGLY ppl but i do like ugly ppl oh yeah and sry if u think im a hypocrit

[racegirl24A]

erm..if he would have asked those questions to me I would have said no too. but the fact that you said no to him partly because hes really ugly isnt right at all. but...since he asked if he could touch your boobs and butt Id say you made the right choice. sounds like a perv to me.

[xoxspanky569]

if you are feeling bad because you were to harsh on him, don't. it's not like you said "eh...you are WAY to ugly for me sorry." you just told the truth that you didn't like him like that, and if you don't, it's better to tell the truth than say " uhmm...maybe i would like to go out with you later." because then that is giving him hope...which if you don't have plans of dating him now OR in the future..it's false hope. we all have to admit we have at least a little shallowness in us...and for all you know the guy could grow up and be REALLY hot...that would suck arse...but be kinda funny . Heh. Anyways...to sum it all up: I wouldn't feel bad, you told the truth, you were honest, BUT you didn't hurt his feelings by calling him ugly, which you could have done. Have a good one.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

well if u dun like him, then u dun like him, so what if ur a little shallow, u cant change it

[silver-rain]

eh, if you don't like him, then you don't like him and you don't have to go out with him. yeah, he does sound like a perv though

[sweetdreamsx3]

i feel bad though because i dont usualy care if they r ugly or not....its their personality...but hes just a little 2 ugly 4 me.....should i feel guilty???

I think he only wants to go out with you to touch your boobs and your ass. I say you shouldn't even feel one bit guilty because that stuff he said is just wrong. If he liked you, he shouldn't be saying things like that especially if he claims that he likes you... It's just disturbing. You just don't do that.

[love-issosweet]

do not feel guilty...i mean that guy's a PERVERT if he wants to feel you i say, beat the hell out off him

[x shootingstar x]

perverts!! damn.. wtf? asking you if he can feel you? wtffff

[kyuubi319]

what kind of guy asks if he can touch your boobs or your ass and then asks you out? Gees..

[WrathOfOnigo]

Ok its really ok if you said no because he's butt ugly, its wrong but every girl does it! Also its kinda nasty that he asked to touch you. Thats seriously GROSS . But if he's ugly he's ugly. Why go out with someone if you don't even want to look at them!?