I am really, confused. Options

[mistaken_identit...]

EDIT: IM SORRY. I THINK THIS SHOULD BE IN RELATIONSHIPS AND I POSTED IT WRONG.

This is really, really confusing me. It's been going on for so long, and even though I've tried giving up and forgetting about him, I can't.

He always leaves these clues/does something that makes me think I have a chance with him. He has told me that he doesn't like anybody when I asked him who he likes. He knows that I like him. He makes a lot of eye contact with me at school and stuff, but he never talks to me. He used to rush off the stairs after school trying to talk to me, but now he doesn't.

A couple days ago...there was this really odd convo:
Him: I really like it when you get angry. You look so funny.
Me: Ohhh really. Then I'll always be angry at you then. =P
Him: Do you really want me to like you?
Me: Well..umm..
Him: Come on, don't be shy.
Me: Hmmm...I can't make you like me if you really don't.

That's kinda the end of the convo. He talks to me on msn and stuff though...but he always makes it clear that he doesn't like anybody/me.

It's REALLY confusing me cus I told people about this and they think he's flirting with me and he likes me

What do you think?

[gladz612]

i think he doesnt' wanna commit but he wants u lead u on somehow... [shakes head].

[IamRad]

just forget about him. dont talk to him. he seems like an idiot. u cant stop him from liking u and u cant tell him wether or not to like u or not

[*mzkandi*]

I think you should read this

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=76845

he might like you and he might not.

[shortiiex]

he is probably trying to be nice

[AngelTears]

Sadly, I have the same problem.. except he doesn’t know that I like him.

But I have a friend who used to date him (which she was being a real bytch about me liking him when she figured it out) and she said that they broke up because he didn’t want a relationship.. blah blah blah. But sometimes I wonder, my friends tell me that he walks up and talks to me first when I’m talking with a group of people.. he sits by me at lunch..

So, yeah I know how you feel.

But, from what you said, it sounds like he doesn’t want a relationship.. or is afraid of one.

He might just be lying that he doesn’t like you or anyone, to be kind and spare your feelings of the simple fact that he doesn’t want a relationship.

Are you two good friends? I've also know that some guys don’t like dating good friends of there’s because they're afraid if they break up with them that they'll lose that friendship that they had with that person, even if they do like them.

There are so many ways that this could go..

And sense he obviously isn't going to say anything that would be worth you talking to him about it.

Just like him till the crush passes..

eventually it will go away (hopefully, anyways) and you'll be fine. Just deal with him as a friend, just act like he doesn’t know and go on with your life that same way you did before that all happened.

[kyuubi319]

I think he might like you. my current bf was like that too now that i think of it.. sorta.. hmm... i think he lies you =)

[Chii]

ask him straight up if he likes you or not because it seems like he does. if he says no, then forget him, break the cycle before you get trapped in it. being trapped will suck way more than it does now...

[mickybeans]

the only way to know for sure if he likes you or not is asking him yourself. this will only happena gain and again and you will still be confused. ask him one of these days adn see what he says. he seems to like you but is afraid to committ.

[aera]

ask him seriously. if you ask jokingly, then he might respond as if it is a joke.

[mistaken_identit...]

Thanks tonnes for the replies. I still can't get up the courage to ask him like that though. Oh well, at least I know it's over.

[swe3ttemptasian]

He's just another guy that adds to the list that just wants to mess around

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

there`s a chance that he might like you but then again he can`t force himsel fto like you. i think you should forget about him. he`s not worth your time.

[*suddenly she*]

shoulda said yes and watched what he said.

then posted it while we were all on so we could analyze every single crazy detail and plan out your next conversation. 8)

[loljuliana]

i think he likes the attention. and the fact that you like him. =\

[mistaken_identit...]

Ughhhh. But then why is he tagging me along if he doesn't like me. WHY does he have to do this to me?!?!

[AngelTears]

Simple answer.

Guys are jerks.

There morons who should be thrown off the planet because there only here to make us miserable.

((No offence to any of you fella's out there! ^^))

[multifaceted]

well he has to be honest first and right now he doesnt seem like it. just give him time and be around him more. and prolly when he runs away frum you, he's thinks that he's gonna spill out that he likes you... i do that when i like sumone...i run away... yea im such a loser =P

~Cat