I need help, please, read this...i really need advice |
 Feb 19 2005, 11:13 PM
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 blah  Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663  |
Ok...i have a friend, like a bestfriend, and she likes this boy, and this boy and i are friends. i got them together. and, now i am relizeing that i have feelings for this boy. and this is the only guy i like, because he doesnt judge me by my looks, or my body, which i really like, because all the other boys like me because of my body....i dont want to hurt my friend, and i cant let this boy know how i feel, because i know we cant exist. but, all my feelings are messed up. i really like him, and i also have respect for my best friend..what in the world do i do in this situtuation?
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Feb 19 2005, 11:18 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
well...since they like each other and they're your friends, you should let them be. he accepts you for you because he's your friend, people usually get things like this mixed up. don't worry, it's probably just a phase, you can get past it.
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Feb 19 2005, 11:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
he sounds like one-of-a kind.....
you need to tell him, but if you do....your BFF and her Bf relationship will be ruined so will you and your BFF you don't want to live with that secret forever...it sucks |
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Feb 19 2005, 11:22 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
so what do i do? do i tell him? he is online right now....
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Feb 19 2005, 11:52 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
friends don't judge each other......but you have a point....if someone doesnt judge you for your looks but for your personality then you're right for liking him. you could tell him but then your friendship with your best friend would change. She would see you as a backstabber who ruined it for her when you were the one who got them together in the first place. But if you don't then you'll always wonder what would've happened if you did tell him. it's a lose lose situation. I guess the right thing would be to just let it be. some things are better off left unsaid.
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Feb 20 2005, 08:43 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
its probably just a phase. like all those other ppl in cb who declare that they suddenly have feelings once some friends get together. don't tell him. ur gonna crush the relationship b/w ur friend and him. and then its gonna be weird...
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Feb 20 2005, 10:54 AM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
Don't tell him. He sounds like an awesome friend, and he's already going out with your other friend. Don't worry, you'll find someone else that's great for you.
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Feb 20 2005, 12:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
Don't tell him. Caz you will ruin the relationship between the both of them and with your bestfriend. like waht invisiblepopcorn said, you'll find someone else
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Feb 20 2005, 12:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
^^^ agreed
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Feb 20 2005, 01:06 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
well...ok...i am just confused. because, my friend and him arent going out, they just like each other, and they are just b/f, g/f. but, like, it is a secret relationship between them. because, no one wants her to go out with him. and it is hard on me, because i like him. i have always liked him, i was just hiding it because i was afraid of getting hurt, but now i really, really like him....and this whole situation sucks.
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Feb 20 2005, 01:44 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
try talking to another close friend...it might help get some of the stuff off your chest. it must be hard knowing that y'all can't exist but i am sure that you will hopefully move on and find someone better...if possible.
good luck! 
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Feb 20 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
to be honest, i think your screwed until they split up.
it is totally wrong to want to split them up, just because you've suddenly go tfeelings for the guy. sorry, but you missed your chance, even f you didnt know you wanted it when it came around. lifes like that sometimes |
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Feb 20 2005, 02:21 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
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Feb 20 2005, 07:43 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
you cant help what the heart desires, but keep your mind in check. thats your friends man. dont try to interfere, but just still be friends with him, maybe one day when they break up you can slowly make a move. but dont focus all your attention onto this one thing in your life. get things to keep your mind busy cos it`ll help you deal with it.
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Feb 20 2005, 08:29 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
not much u can do while ur friend & him are together, cuz u dont wanna hurt ur friend. does the guy like u or ur friend more?? anywyss, just try & stay put until its ovr between the 2 of em
 then decide ur nxt move~
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Feb 20 2005, 08:52 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
well that would be hard for me....you kinda have to see...me and him are close, like he tells me his secrets....and he has me like in a trance...it sucks..but yet, i like it....but, why do guys play with a girls emotions? i hate that
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Feb 21 2005, 07:05 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
here. don't tell him or your bff, and get a hobby or something to get your mind over him, and unless they split, as james said, you're pretty much screwed. so try and get over him
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