They Cry On My Shoulder, Find your shoulder getting cried |
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 Feb 22 2005, 04:26 PM
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I know I'm not the only guy that gets this. I really don't mind when people cry on my shoulder because listening is just one of those good skills I have. But breaking out of that loop is so damn hard.
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Feb 23 2005, 09:35 AM
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aye man you aint alone, its kinda feels good if ppl cry on your shoulder which is showing that your a good friend and stuff. shoot i would let the girls cry on my shoulder cuz yeah i dont like hearing girls cry or women cry, it juss makes me sad
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Feb 23 2005, 11:12 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
^^my boyfriend doesn't like it when i cry either...
maybe you should just try to quicken the whole process...like when the girl is crying tell her everything's going to be okay, relate the problem and tell her it's not a big deal or it'll work out...but don't lie if it is a big deal. you probably don't know it, but you being a shoulder to cry on is special for us...it takes a real man to stay there and comfort us...most just walk away |
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Feb 23 2005, 05:32 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
okay. it is always good to be a good listener. i am not really a good listener!
 but i am a good talker! 
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Feb 23 2005, 07:45 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
never got that happen before. don't you shirt get all wet afterward, especially after a break up? lol
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Feb 24 2005, 10:02 PM
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 "i want a girl who will laugh for no one else..." Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,152 |
its weird hearing ppl cry...i like have to leave the room because its just so weird for me cuz i'm not that emotional...on the outside i pretty much have one emotion...fine with it...yupp...but girls seem to cry on my shoulder a lot...then all the guys think i'm gay cuz theyre all immature and i cant get a gf cuz theyre friends with those guys and think im gay too...which im not...
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Feb 25 2005, 12:11 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
eh , iono girls like to come to me with open arms haha.....iono they feel comfortable and trust me with their feelings so they can just open up to with with their problems or w/e, and yea sometimes cry on my shoulders. Its weird sometimes, they consider me best friends just cuz they can tell me anything,but best friends are more than that ><;
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Feb 25 2005, 01:42 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Aww girls must like you.
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Feb 25 2005, 02:36 AM
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QUOTE(chii @ Feb 23 2005, 11:12 AM) you probably don't know it, but you being a shoulder to cry on is special for us...it takes a real man to stay there and comfort us...most just walk away  i agree 
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Feb 25 2005, 07:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I don't mind either. It's okay because i like to be there for my friends & care for them.
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Feb 25 2005, 08:03 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,510 |
QUOTE(h0y_Kalbo @ Feb 23 2005, 9:35 AM) aye man you aint alone, its kinda feels good if ppl cry on your shoulder which is showing that your a good friend and stuff. shoot i would let the girls cry on my shoulder cuz yeah i dont like hearing girls cry or women cry, it juss makes me sad same, and a lot of girls like me for that (not that kind of like  )listening is good, it makes you that sweet and sensitive type that some girls like |
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