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To: the Nice Guys, That Finish Last...
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post Jul 12 2005, 10:50 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 12 2005, 8:40 PM)
If you can change, then you wern't really mr. nice guy to begin with
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You can change....not gonna be easy, but doesn't mean you cant change.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 10:53 PM
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Nice Guys are Such Whiny Bitches

(By the way, I'm not saying I agree with this entire essay on the subject, but it is food for thought.)
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 10:53 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jul 12 2005, 11:50 PM)
You can change....not gonna be easy, but doesn't mean you cant change.
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That's true but if you really are mr. nice guy, why would you change? It's a tribute to you -.-
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 10:55 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 12 2005, 8:53 PM)
That's true but if you really are mr. nice guy, why would you change? It's a tribute to you -.-
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Why change? Well, if u think it "sucks", why would you still be it?
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jul 12 2005, 11:55 PM)
Why change? Well, if u think it "sucks", why would you still be it?
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Bah this isn't the debate forum...
Because being the nice guy is what some people are. If they are the nice guy, they are really close with that girl and they aren't going to let them know and what such...
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:04 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 12 2005, 9:00 PM)
Bah this isn't the debate forum...
Because being the nice guy is what some people are. If they are the nice guy, they are really close with that girl and they aren't going to let them know and what such...
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Yea, but if that's the case, why do they think it "sucks". Im not saying like to be a real jerk, but from what i've read, the "nice" guy sounds more like a girl's lap dog.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:06 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jul 13 2005, 12:04 AM)
but from what i've read, the "nice" guy sounds more like a girl's lap dog.[/b]
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Bam! Exactly right!
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:06 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jul 13 2005, 12:04 AM)
Yea, but if that's the case, why do they think it "sucks". Im not saying like to be a real jerk, but from what i've read, the "nice" guy sounds more like a girl's lap dog.
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Well when you like this girl but can't tell her but you always want to be there to protect her and make sure no pompas ass takes advantages of her is what nice guys do. It sucks because they might love her and want her so badly, but think they arent gonna work or be happy with him or whatever reason tehy might have so they just want to make sure she can be happy. =)
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:09 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 13 2005, 12:06 AM)
Well when you like this girl but can't tell her but you always want to be there to protect her and make sure no pompas ass takes advantages of her is what nice guys do. It sucks because they might love her and want her so badly, but think they arent gonna work or be happy with him or whatever reason tehy might have so they just want to make sure she can be happy. =)
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And that is exactly why "nice guys" stay just friends and nothing more--because they don't take charge and try to get what they want. Girls don't want someone to protect them from assholes--they can do that themselves. They want someone to pay attention to them, to listen to them, to talk to them, to spend time with them.

Taking charge is not synonymous with being an a-hole. Nice guys can take charge, too.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:11 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 12 2005, 9:06 PM)
Well when you like this girl but can't tell her but you always want to be there to protect her and make sure no pompas ass takes advantages of her is what nice guys do. It sucks because they might love her and want her so badly, but think they arent gonna work or be happy with him or whatever reason tehy might have so they just want to make sure she can be happy. =)
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Well, you can still protect her even if u aren't the nice guy. When I said change, I just meant to not be so whipped and if the guy thinks it won't work out, they weren't meant to be in the beginning.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jul 13 2005, 12:09 AM)
And that is exactly why "nice guys" stay just friends and nothing more--because they don't take charge and try to get what they want. Girls don't want someone to protect them from assholes--they can do that themselves. They want someone to pay attention to them, to listen to them, to talk to them, to spend time with them.

Taking charge is not synonymous with being an a-hole. Nice guys can take charge, too.
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Honestly, I forget what we were arguing about. Its midnight and I have a headache. You win.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:21 PM
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i wouldnt no about the whole nice guy thing but i dont date girls alot i like bein "friends with benefits" biggrin.gif innocent.gif but it sounds like it sucks
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE(lbjshaq2345 @ Jul 13 2005, 12:21 AM)
i wouldnt no about the whole nice guy thing but i dont date girls alot i like bein "friends with benefits"  biggrin.gif  innocent.gif but it sounds like it sucks
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Friends with benefits rocks my socks
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 12 2005, 9:14 PM)
Honestly, I forget what we were arguing about. Its midnight and I have a headache. You win.
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Very well, good night, don't the debate bugs bite. _smile.gif
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jul 13 2005, 12:33 AM)
Very well, good night, don't the debate bugs bite. _smile.gif
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Holy crap yes...tommorrow when I'm recharged we shall fight again! Enguarde!
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 09:26 AM
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I hate being a "nice guy"
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 10:21 AM
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People like that are known as "tools"...
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 10:46 AM
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It sucks for us...
& it sucks to actually read all that. Lmao.
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 12:02 PM
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Whoa, hahaha. Do you actually think guys will do that? You know, looks/actions can be decieving.
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 01:06 PM
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i go through most of that... :(
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 08:38 PM
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maybe you should find a smarter girl to chase after then tongue.gif

I go for nice guys all the way cool.gif

Maybe you should find a girl that doesn't have a boyfreind and be a nice guy (cause they rock) and one day just go up and kis her or something. I'm sure that'll get her attention happy.gif Maybe the girls just don't feel comfertable insuing a relationship that's more than a freind because you've been such a brotherly figure to her...it could be that she doesn't know you WANT to have more than a freind relationship with her.
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Jul 13 2005, 9:38 PM)
maybe you should find a smarter girl to chase after then  tongue.gif

I go for nice guys all the way  cool.gif

Maybe you should find a girl that doesn't have a boyfreind and be a nice guy (cause they rock) and one day just go up and kis her or something. I'm sure that'll get her attention  happy.gif Maybe the girls just don't feel comfertable insuing a relationship that's more than a freind because you've been such a brotherly figure to her...it could be that she doesn't know you WANT to have more than a freind relationship with her.
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Wise words from a wise female.

There's only one difference between "nice guys" and "jackasses"--jackasses have self-confidence. They know they can get whatever they want, and that any girl should be thrilled to be with them--so that's what they do, they take what they want.

Nice guys are appealing to girls, except they think that the way to get girls is to talk to them, spend a lot of time with them, do nice things for them--but never make any sort of move. But that's not how it works. A nice guy can certainly get girls, but he has to make an attempt--he has to make a move. Instead of hanging out with a girl he likes every now and then, and listening to her bitch about guys, and carrying her books and such or whatever nice things he does, he just needs to put his foot down and say, "Hey, you're cool. I like you. How about a movie on Friday?"
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 09:59 PM
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i really wanna say those three little words.. <3
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aww that reminded me of mouth from one tree hill..

and i would soo love a nice guy, they are the best <33
 
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post Jul 13 2005, 10:24 PM
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loll I saw everyone post this on myspace, but its true. Bein a nice guy isn't all that bad...
 
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post Jul 14 2005, 03:14 PM
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I read the whole thing!!! It makes me feel so ashamed for some reason....

Girls are complicated.......just so all the guys know that.........
 
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