Do Guys Not Care At All?!, do they think about stuff like us girls? Options

[parallel]

I know this is more of a guy question..but I just wanted to know feminine opinions too..anywho..I just wanted to know..after a guy breaks up with you or something..do they think about whether or not they made a bad decision in breaking up with you? Like...do they even think about all the good memories that you two have made? Does he even care how you feel afterwards? I know for sure that girls think about these kind of things but I was just curious...it sometimes hurt cause some guys just don't care...or do all guys not care at all? Some of them are just so unpredictable you know? They don't even care how you feel or they don't take your feelings into consideration...they're jerks but you gotta love em But I need opinions!!

[urbanychic]

I'm thinking the same thing with my ex, and I know he's not oblivious to the fact that he spent two years with me, neither is any other guy. He may deny it to you and his friends that it never happened, but he really can't deny it to himself when he is alone in his room. Guys at a younger age really don't care about anything but themselves and when they can get laid again or how often (not all, but a good amount do). As these boys get older and eventually turn into men, those alterior motives sorta decrease. They become mature and realize what they say and do has a consequence. But, here's an interesting concept. Girls are the same way. Seriously. Girls can break up with a guy and three hours later, totally forget it every happened. Girls and guys may NOW act like it never happened, but eventually it will catch up with them, whether it's after tumultous relationship after another they realized they had something good back when OR when they start thinking over their entire lives. Here's how I think it out .. don't think to much about them in that retrospect, because guys don't do it for us.

[dani41790]

ahh gosh ive been wondering that question for two months after i broke up with my ex. goshers it seems like they dont care at all. o wellz. im over him.

[shortvi3tlaydee]

i think it really depends on your relationship and once you find that one perfect guy you wont have to worry about any of this

[Chii]

my first ex cared a lot...it took him about a year to get over me

my current boyfriend is really thoughtful...he remembers all our dates...all our fights, everything...he cares a lot about how i feel...

my current boyfriend never really liked valentine's day or celebrating monthly anniversaries...but he does for me...because it's important to me, i've told him that it's fine and it doesn't matter...but he celebrates these things with me anyway...i love him so much

i think all guys reminisce about the times they spend together with an ex or current girlfriend...some probably never mention it because it's not "manly"

[sweetdreamsx3]

It depends on the relationship you have, but I know for sure that girls think a lot more about these things than guys do.

[Skyline Drive]

Only the good guys care.

The guys who are in a relationship just too seek booty don't care. Idiots.

[silver-rain]

It does depend on the relationship. I would reminisce about my ex and our relationship, but by his response, it was obvious that he didn't really care.

[aznhunnie6o1]

It really depends on the guy. If he REALLY loved you, then he probably would care. Most of the time, when the guys break it off, I don't think they really care anymore. But if the girl does it, then the probably do.

[*stephinika*]

yeah it really depends on the guy and the relationship...like most people said.

[HongKongDong]

When you become a guy and experience what its like to be one.. come back and tell us. Me be waitin'

[bad_girl]

some guys try to make u feel better about it.. im sure.

[misoshiru]

depends on the guy and relationship.

[xsweetness07x]

Most guys do care.. It's just that they aren't as verbal about it as we are.. We like to talk about things with others and whatnot.. BUT guys tend to stick to themselves when it comes to thinkin about realtionships and stuff..

[angel-roh]

Yeah Mostly guys care.


But my ex, heck no.

He thinks he remembers our past memories. Psh yeah right. I bet he's doing that cause he thinks that I'll come back to him. PUHAHAHA. Trying to make me come back to you? Well dumbass, I ain't going back to you. I don't think anyone would wana date that a-hole. Sorry I cuss. I'm just freaking mad at him. After he dumped me, he tells me why. He tells me that he dumped me because I'm such an immature. Me, an immature? Excuse me? I mean everyone can have an immature side. Psh he's always immature. He even acts like 5 year old kid. How come I can't act like one. What A EFFING @SSHOLE. Then he changes the other reasons which was that he had too much work at his college. YEAH RIGHT. He goes to community college. psh you think he has a lot of work. I don't think so. Shoreline Community College gives you less work than University of Washington... what are you talking about... GARSHHHh i just want beat him up so bad. excuses, excuses, excuses. He's sucha poor guy who needs to get a life.



Sorry, I got carried off. Every time I mention his name... I GET FREAKING MAD.

I know he doesn't care, but it bugs me when he says "I miss you" blah blah... he doesn't mean it. I know because I KNOW WHAT KIND OF GUY HE IS. HE'S THE BIGGEST DONKEY a-hole IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD WHO NEEDS TO PASS THE TOILET TISSUE SO WE CAN WIPE HIS FREAKING UGLY ASS. >:[

[alone in the wor...]

yeah, i wonder about that sometimes.

[DixieDaCutie]

hmm yah ive wondered tht... . i think they care for like a day or so, then screw it ..but depends on the guy too

[Shattered_Hope]

I think they care...they just don't like to show it.

[parallel]

I guess it does depend on the guy but still..I know they try to act "manly" and keep to themselves about this kinda stuff but I just always think about whether or not they care about how we feel you know? And yes...guys are idiots..no offense to the good guys who actually care out there lol..but do people actually go up to their ex's and tell them how they feel and ask them if they care or not?