Major relationship problems, my friends are starting to hate me =( Options

[mistaken_identit...]

I am so damn depressed...and it's cause of all the shyt I've got from my so called friends. I mean, not ALL of them are entirely pissed at me but a couple of them are constantly treating me so shitty e.g. smart remarks and snapping back at me whenever I even try to TALK to them. I tried so hard being nice and considerate about every one of them but they just don't get it. First it was only a couple of them who started 'hating' me and treating me like I don't exist or I'm some kind of punching bag...now it's getting worse and worse....oh god I wish I'm not a girl..I wish I'm a guy and they'll hit me and afterwards they'll be like a'ight you're my mate again.

They are making my life HELL. I tried to think of whatever thing I did wrong but I seriously don't think I have. They are making me feel so pathetic. I can't stand all those whispering and pretending of them.

I don't wanna live anymore =( how can things go so wrong in such a short time....

edit: I really need to sort all of this out. We were such good friends before they started hating me I really want to do something before it gets outta control.

[InvisiblePopcorn]

If I was in your situation, I would just make new friends. If they are going to be mean like that, why be their friend? If you really want to stay friends, you should just talk to them.

[_sarcastic_]

talk to them, and ask yourself why are they doing this to you. but yeah i agree with InvisiblePopcorn, they aren't even friends if they treat you like that

[BrokenHeartsKILL...]

If I was in your situation, I would just make new friends. If they are going to be mean like that, why be their friend? If you really want to stay friends, you should just talk to them.

i agree with her.
true friends would NEVER do that to you.
trust me.
ive been in that situation.
they are just backstabbing bitches who are probally jealous over you.
forget about them

[topsyturvy]

they are just backstabbing bitches who are probally jealous over you.

I agree.

Who needs friends like them anyway?

[onemanshow]

fk that.. friends won't do that kinda sh*t.. serious.. make new friends.. but still keep talking to ur old frends, no point ignoring.. just dun see them as much.. sometimes, maybe they are useful.. STAND UP for urself.. stop being used, use them back! ok just my opinion.. ur always free to know better frends that u should deserve. be urself : )

[EmmalieV]

fcuk them hang out with other people , sounds like some kiddy sh*t but I understand how you feel.

[FireArrow]

Get new friends

[xTINAA]

There are several things you could do. One, find new friends. Two, speak with these friends about how you feel, if they don't listen then refer back to number One. Three, you can go around bitching and complaining about this. This will lead to no where so you'll need to get over it. Because it sounds like to me, you are still quite young, and not in highschool. Once you get into highschool you'll see all of your friends/friendships change and you will have to get over that too. It's something that comes with life: Change. Also, maybe your friends don't feel like you are being nice to them or maybe they can sense that you are fed up with them so they act that way. Seriously, just talk to them or get new friends. It's not anything to be depressed over because honey, I have been depressed and you don't get depressed over people who act stupid. Oh and you say they have hated you and that you've tried to figure out why so why not ask them? Or why not just try harder? Maybe it's something really obscure so it will take longer to find out.

[whatiismae]

you HAVE to talk to them. sometimes you just get paranoid and think that your friends dont like you anymore, thats how i felt for a while. but maybe you're just reading too into what's going on. but talk to them and see whats up. if anything, you could probably repair the relationship if you know whats going on. but these "friends" are being stupid for talking about you behind your back instead of your face. if something was wrong, they should have come to you first and not be talking about it when you're not around. if i were you, i would talk to them and see if you even want to put in the effort of repairing the relationship. if you realize that they aren't worth it, find new friends and join new activites to get with different groups of people.

[Shattered_Hope]

a simple solution: Find new friends.

[xj_liana_tx]

what exactly did you do?
well i don't really angree with the replies, it's not easy to make new friends, even though you should try.
you really should talk to them.

[angelrevelation]

this reminds me of mean girls... lol make them tell you what's wrong. or just... make new friends, even though that's kind hard (for me at least) because i think you'd be a lot happier without those other ppl

[nlgrl]

my friends treated me bad... thats when i relized that i dont need friends and i became a loner but i have to admit... im happier without them (not a full loner but a loner with friends :))