Is it bad to be in love with your best friend? |
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 Feb 25 2005, 03:34 PM
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I liked my bestfriend... we dated and now we've broken up. but we're better friends then ever. So in your case maybe its the same. I would wait to tell him though.
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Feb 25 2005, 03:39 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
i think its great..i mean you guys ARE bestfriends? right? yeah..
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Feb 25 2005, 03:43 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 1,478 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,897 |
it's bad if you hookup and it doesn't work out, then it's just awkward and weird.
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Feb 25 2005, 03:46 PM
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 aNNa BaNaNa >.< Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,244 |
hmm... thats tough. I think that if you know that it would absolutely work out... take the risk... there are consequenses since you could lose a friend... but in the end it comes down to the question: "is it worth the risk?"
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Feb 25 2005, 03:50 PM
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Well from my perspective (and i am guy)... its bad.... cus when I go out with best friends and it doesn't end well our friendship is basically over....or struggling....
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Feb 25 2005, 03:51 PM
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It's okay as long as you know it won't wreck what you guys had before. But if you don't ask, nothing will happen, good or bad. It's good to take risks.
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Feb 25 2005, 03:53 PM
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 j'adore dior Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,477 |
i dont have any best guy friends
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Feb 25 2005, 06:16 PM
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it hurts sometimes.......i fell in love with my best friend once and i think somehow i'm still in love with him, but he likes my friend and no matter what it won't ever happen because he only sees me as his best friend and nothing more...and i think i only see him as a best friend and i could only dream of being anything more
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Feb 25 2005, 10:00 PM
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i have the same problem
 we were so close..then we made out nd went out twice..now we hardly ever talk..his friends say its cuz hes shy 2 talk 2 me now nd stuff like that..but i think we arent even friends anymore
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Feb 25 2005, 10:01 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
well start by hinting it out.
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Feb 25 2005, 10:07 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Uh...yeah it would probably ruin your relationship with him friend wise but hey...he might like you too!...But I don't think it's bad..
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Feb 26 2005, 05:07 AM
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well last year i went out with my bestestest friend in the whole entire world... we told each other everythinhg....we went out off and on and he ended up breaking my heart terribly....i begged him to come back so he did...and thenhe cheated on me.... now i dont think that he is such a friend at all anymore....he doesnt even talk to me...but now i am going out with this other guy and he is my best friend now...
i believe that you should be friends with someone and then go out with them and become best friends that way....so even if you break up, you will still be friends. |
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Feb 26 2005, 08:40 AM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Feb 12 2005, 9:24 PM) Yes & no. Bad: falling in love with your best friend might ruin you guys` friendship. Good: if your willing to take that risk then yeah go for it.  exactly. I like my best guy friend.. He knows but we're still good friends
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Mar 12 2005, 04:41 PM
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 kriz Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,105 |
well it depends how long u have been friends?...i mean if it's been years n u guys are very comfrotable wit eachother..it be shouldn't be a problem..if ur still scared u can get either drunk or high n kiss him n tell him u care about him n see if he responds...if he doesn't kiss u back n asks da next day say u were realli drunk n u can't remember anything at all..it should work if u do it right
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Mar 12 2005, 06:28 PM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
no its not bad....just try and be kool with it...i mean...i like my bestfriend to...(guy not girl) and i think he knows but than again im not sure...i havnt really told him cuz well idk...just write him a little note asking him how you feel...(or have a friend do it....but than again it might be werid.....ive had to do that for a friend) but just keep it on the DL...if you to are really close he will so understand
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Mar 12 2005, 06:46 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
I'm in love w/ my best friend. But now we're more than just best friends =]
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Mar 12 2005, 06:59 PM
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 Ooh, Miranda. Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,609 |
i don't think its bad at all! except like everybody else said..it might end up destroying the friendship or making it awkward..so yeah..but then you can always take a chance. he might like you back and things might like you and everything..
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Mar 13 2005, 01:49 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Bad: You might ruin your friendship with him. Or he might get very uncomfortable around, but feeling special at the same time.
Good: You know him well, so you know what he does and like. It would be a perfect match. |
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