I need major help!, how do u get over someone??! Options

[HawaiiGirlie1212]

[B][FONT=Impact][COLOR=blue]K, my ex-bf were being a total jerk to me, but I can't help still love him. But this is really killing me, i mean, i know i had to move on. i tell myself over and over that i have to move on and i hate him. but its still not working. my feelings are still there. please tell me how to get over someone? cause im just not the type of person who drop my feelings in a matter of second..

[silver-rain]

I know what you're going through- I went through something simliar when my ex broke up with me. I guess, just concentrate on something else, like schoolwork, and extracurricular, friends, etc. but anything that'll get your mind off him. Or, just think of all the terrible things he's done. Try to find another guy I guess too. But don't worry, with time, you'll get over him.

[LittleLulu]

i inderstand...my ex is being a bastard towards me..n worst of all i have to see him be all nice n all to my BFF...makes me sick

but even that way... i managed to not think about it soo much... by occupying my mind with the BEST guy i know=) i like this guy ALOT >.< ...jus read my dork thread hahaha. hes soo smart=) ...n nice=) n kewl=)..n totaly awesome=) ..n funny=) n cute=) n sexy=) ..oh god i could go on forever=)

[yukichan]

i understand what u mean..well i would say hang out with friends or do something to keep u busy and not think about him...i would say just give it time..just do whatever to think about something other than him..good luck.

[*Azarel*]

You live your life, day by day, thinking about other things. Eventually he becomes just a faint memory.

[Skyline Drive]

It takes time..

Avoid :
- Thinking about him
- Being friends with him
- Taking to him


He is a jerkface and there for you must move on! You can always find a new guy who will treat you right = ]

[Shattered_Hope]

You can't just get over him becuz you want to...it takes time. Give it a month or two and the feeling may fade away....or it could take longer...

[sweetdreamsx3]

I can REALLY relate to this because it's the same exact thing I'm going through...sorta...Just get a new guy and be font over him. :P Lol, it takes time though..

[*stephinika*]

yeah i've gone through that...its tough but just keep yourself busy with other things and over time you won't feel that way anymore...

but don't use the word love...i doubt its that.

[xj_liana_tx]

i want to get over someone so bad, but i just can't, i kept distract myself to other guys, but it really doesn't help much, it happens spontaneously.

[MzShortieAlli]

i went thru the same thing with my first bf i told myself to get over him but i couldnt i wanted to do everything to get him outta my mind and it led me into depression and stuff and like when he was with his gf fer about 8 months and they broke up i got soo happy that hes going to get depressed and like i totally didnt even have feelings for him anymore (weird? yes) anywayss they got bak together and i diodnt care anymore and now they have been together for a year now

[tooeffingcrazy]

Why do you like him if you hate him. o.O. That doesn't make sense. Anyways, just like avoid him. Think about something/someone else. Go out with friends, hang out, and talk about something else.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I got over my ex today. :] I feel...different. Like a brand new me. How did I do it? I realize how much of a jerk he can be. And he's always go to be one to me because I won't do the things he want me to do. Just point out all the bad things you can of him and you'll realize someday that you were a fool to still like him. I was once that same fool too..

[sadolakced acid]

it kinda helps if you don't see him.

if you see him every day it'll be hard.

so aviod him
ignore him
he does not exist to you.

oh who am i to give advice anyways... i'm still friends with my exgirlfriend. but it is rather fun being evil to her... she deserves it anyways. ugg. it took like...6 months to get over her.

[alienchik]

i would try and find something else to do. my friend "n" has the same problem except she keeps going back to him and then breaks it off. i dont know whats going on with her. I would suggest on hanging out with friends or trying to do something else instead of thinking about him

[aznhunnie6o1]

That happend to me. I realized what a total jerk my ex was and got over him. Pshh.. then I got another boyfriend a couple months after.

Try listing all the pro's and con's about him and then try to figure out why you still like him. It took me a month to get over my ex...

[staircase wit]

find a hobby.

[xj_liana_tx]

haha, exactly what i am trying to do right now.
i tried to distract my attention and try hard to check out other guys, but eventually my feelings return to him.
it takes time.

[HawaiiGirlie1212]

I guess is all the memories and the good things he has done for me that keeps me from moving on. Sometimes I thought I was over him, but whenever i started think about what happened in the past, all the feelings came back like they had never gone away. No matter what I do, I just can't help it but think about him. Even when I am hanging out with my friends, 'cause one of my friend likes him, and she kept bring him up and just talk about him forever. Man..