The longest time, it ever took you to get over someone |
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 Mar 17 2005, 10:48 PM
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 I watch you while you sleep.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685  |
How long was the longest time it ever took you to get over someone (they could be a lover, a dead relative, etc)?
What type of relationship did you have with them? What I mean by "getting over someone" is: to stop missing them, or to fall out of love with them. xo, Pauline |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:49 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
let me see...maybe a month at tops...i always go cold turkey when i need to get over someone, i don't see him, talk to him, i try not to think about him, nothing
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Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Ugh, about 3 months.
>_> <--Lamer. |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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hmm, my grandmother died last year, and I'm still not over that.
I still feel kinda guilty cuz I never really got close to her...she's been in a hospital for as long as I could remember. |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 293 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,653 |
im still trying to get over someone...but i know i'll eventually get over it...
but when my grandfather died...it took awhile...i still kind of miss him from time to time... |
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Mar 17 2005, 10:58 PM
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about 10 months...or a year....time seems to blend together...bleh
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Mar 17 2005, 10:59 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
I dont get over them until they leave or I never seem them again.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:02 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, well about a year now...
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Mar 17 2005, 11:04 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Um, well not that long really. I'd say around a couple months. Yeah, nothing serious really happened to me.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:09 PM
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 raaawr. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,242 |
a year; not terribly long.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:09 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
a year and a half or so.
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Mar 18 2005, 12:00 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
crushes: longest - 4 years
deaths- 6 of them. i havent gotten over any. one of the deaths was a current boyfriend. i still love him. all of the deaths were friends. nobody i knew in my family has died |
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Mar 18 2005, 01:39 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
one year six months. i hope.
i sure hope i get over her now. i think i am... i'm going to go listen to yellowcard's one year, six months. 
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Mar 18 2005, 01:44 PM
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well i still havent gotten over him. and we broke up almost two years ago. but we talk on the phone almost everyday and he still isnt over me either. and we havent fallen out of love with eachother. so i dont really know. yea im lame, leave me alone.
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Mar 18 2005, 01:46 PM
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 <3 Deanna Leigh Irene <3 Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,326 |
 It took me a while to get over my ex-boyfriend, about six months. It sucked.
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Mar 18 2005, 01:52 PM
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well i feel completely head over heels for this one guy in november of last year and everytime i think i am over him i see his face and it's back to square one.
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Mar 18 2005, 02:09 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
I'm still not over them so I can't say. At times months have gone by and I've tried desperately to convince myself that I'm over them, but I know it's not true. But yeah, I guess it would be like 3 years now. Pathetic, I know.
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Mar 18 2005, 04:45 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
I never completely get over people who have made an impact in my life in some ways. There was always that reason why i liked them in the first place, and that doesn't go away just because maybe we didn't work out or something.
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Mar 18 2005, 04:47 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
ugh, even if you think you're over it, sometimes its just not the same anymore and you still get jittery around them even if you dont like them anymore. at least thats how it is with me and my old crush. and i dont think i like him anymore..
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Mar 18 2005, 11:01 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Like 2 months.
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Mar 19 2005, 02:21 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
about 2 years to get over/stop liking a crush.... that was the longest
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Mar 19 2005, 02:23 AM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
honestly..its been about 17 years..i met him in preschool, we were best friends, had all the same classes throughout elementary, middle and high school..we went out 7th-9th grade..we broke up and i havent gotten over him yet..but i also think its because of the fact that he was my first love..and you never forget your first love..
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Mar 19 2005, 03:23 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
it took me about 2 days to forget him. he was a jerk.
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Mar 19 2005, 03:34 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
this one guy took me around ... seven months. he really did turn into a jerk. man i still remember those times in elementary school when we were best friends. but everyone changes so, whatever.
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Mar 19 2005, 03:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Um... a guy... never really been with him, but I've been trying to get over him for more than 4 months... still going..
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