i'm scared .. jealous .. etc.., please read. Options

[ichiban]

The biggest slut in school, Jessica, has a crush on my best friend Darian, and everyone in school thinks he likes her too. And I don't really know how to describe this. I just feel jealous, and I don't know why. I don't have any feelings toward Darian, yet I'm jealous. I know Darian isn't mine, and he's just a friend, but I can't help but feel jealous.

And i'm scared too. What if Darian gets with Jessica? Then he's gonna be hanging around me less and more with Jessica and all her stupid little popular friends I'm afraid I'd lose my friendship with him. And also, most of Jessica's friends are people I really don't like. I wish I could talk to Darian about it, only he's not exactly understanding and the kind of friends I tell everything to. And it would seem like I'm the one that has a crush on him and is just trying to make him stop liking Jessica.

I don't know what to do. I can't talk to Darian, because that's not going to work. If I tell any of my other friends, they'll just be like "OOOOOH YOU LIKE DARIAN!!!" or whatever. And I can't stop Darian and Jessica if they get together. So what now?

[EyeOfTheTiger5]

you're his friend, so talk to him about it and ask him if he likes her. also, if he does, assure him you don't like him that way but make sure that he knows not to drift away from you if he gets together with jessica.

[dani41790]

you should talk to him about. if hes really your friend he'd understand how you're feeling

[misoshiru]

well obviously you'd be jealous, cuz you dislike her. talk to him about it, work things out.

[dahding]

does he actually like her tho? u should ask him and talk to him about it. he's ur best friend, so naturally u'd be jealous losing him to snotty tightwad slut. and maybe u do like him. w/e, u should talk to him about it.

[Wishful_Dream]

yeah.. just ask him, if he was truly your best friend he would tell you the truth if he liked that jessica girl or not. if he does, don't try to break them apart.. it might ruin your friendship..

[mistaken_identit...]

OMG my situation is so exactly the same except for the fact that "he" isn't my best friend or anything...I get so jealous whenever the biggest slut EVER goes over to him and flirt and all that. It's just wrong.

But you're in a better situation than I am 'cause he's your friend..try and talk to him about it. It'll work out. Not every guy likes sluts I suppose- actually they might get scared of them 'cause they're too keen.

[mouse_3k]

go up to him, grab his head, and look him in the eye and say this

"Do you want to be a baby daddy right now?? if not then dont go out with this slut!"


he should back off

[177emories]

i think you just don't wnat to lose a freind... because he'll be spending mor etime with her if they were together and you wouldn't beable to talk to him as much even as just a friend... and also you may be jealous because someone else would HAVE him..

[Tung]

you HAVE to talk to him. and you're only jealous and afraid of losing yoru best friend. maybe you should test your "real" feelings abotu darian. see how you feel.

[gnawxela]

it kinda sounds like you "like" him...i dunno but are you guys really close? if you are then he should listen to you and ask for your opinions...if he does something that is totally not "him" then you should ask yourself if you REALLY know him

[*mishyerr*]

What everybody else said.

[Skyline Drive]

Kick her in the face

Would you be jealous if it was some other girl that you got along with ?

I think you might just be jealous because it's the evil slutface chick who wants to get with him. I think you should just talk to him and tell him how you feel the best way you can as a concerned friend.

If that doesn't work tell him she has herpes.

[shortiiex]

tell him..that sluts cheat and lie to you and you don't want him to get hurt

[Flaunted]

if he deserves much better, tell him so.

[Haruka]

Being jealous doesn't mean that you LIKE him, trust me.

I'm jealous that this girl wants to go out with my cousin, but obviously i don't like my cousin. It's like a natural reaction because you know that he's gonna take some attention off of you and give it to her, if not all of it. And you should really talk to him but talk seriously because that's really the only way he'll listen. Tell him you care about him, and how you feel about him going out with her but don't sound too possesive.

[LittleLulu]

i understand how you feel... im sorta jelous of my BFF cuz soo many guys like her..n also.. my ex does too...n dont like my ex..*I* dumped HIM...but i just still get jelous....>.< its messed up n it freakin pisses me off.. but i learn to egnore that... and i just still be friends with my BFF...but n i talked to her...n she told me she wudn't really go out with her if it made me mad...cuz she doesn't really like him that much anyways.

[blah1234567]

talk to him...