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16 and no boyfriend ever, is this normal?
nightshadefire
post Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM
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Hey girls. Well my problem is that I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend.
Yeah, it's not a big deal, but I really want one and I want to experience what everyone in the world except for me has gone through. No, I don't wanna lose my virginity or anything, and I'm for sure not gay or a lesbian, but I'm really picky. I'm asian (filipina, chinese) but I don't like asian guys. I basically just like white guys, to put it bluntly.

I'm pretty decent looking, 4'10" (short), 105 lbs. I'm smart, and funny.

But I'm alone.

Any advice?
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 12:29 AM
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I didn't get my first boyfriend and first kiss til two weeks ago and i'm 19. Lol And... i'm not into Asians either (i'm chinese american). I'm dating an italian... biggrin.gif There's nothing wrong with you. Just be patient and enjoy life. _smile.gif
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 12:35 AM
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Don't fret.
The longer you don't have a boyfriend, the better.
Because when the time comes, you`ll know, and you wont regret anything :).
And high five, i`m short too !
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 01:01 AM
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You're fine.
Don't rush.
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 01:11 AM
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haha...dont worry!! i'm 15...n' i haven't had a bf yet either!! no first kiss...no nothing yet!! but hey...like somebody else said..."when that time comes...u kno it'll b special" hehe!!

dont worry ur not alone! i bet there's a ton of other girls out there that have gone through this too!! =]

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post Nov 30 2004, 01:11 AM
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don't worry about it. some of my friends are 16 too and haven't had a boyfriend. there's no rush so relax. happy.gif
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 04:14 AM
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yeah theres nothing wrong with that happy.gif there is no rush
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 05:36 AM
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it doesnt matter. what's your rush anyways? i'm 15, almost 16 and i've never had a bf either. living the single life is fun.
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 07:52 AM
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QUOTE(nightshadefire @ Nov 30 2004, 12:26 AM)
Yeah, it's not a big deal

don`t worry. yur guy will come soon (:

don`t throw yurself at some random guy. jst wait (:
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 02:19 PM
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just dont go for abusive boyfriends, cause it can ruin your life for eternity unless you want to get yourself hurt... -_-;;
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 10:12 PM
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don't even worry! your normal!!! (who's "normal" these days anyway??) Boys are a hassle anyway.
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 10:45 PM
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nothing is normal. normal is how u assess urself. just bc other ppl do those things early doesnt mean theyre "normal"
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 10:48 PM
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Your normal. I haven't had a bf, but of course I'm only 14... and I don't really expect a boyfriend anytime soon.
 
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post Nov 30 2004, 10:55 PM
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its fine, just be patient. yah having a bf feels good and stuff *im 15 in a half and only had 2 bfs*. Just dont go to NE guy and be like *dude..I want you* and that stuff...some guys are just..ugh. I think you should rather wait for a good bf then for a quick bf that ur gunna have for like a week.
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 03:30 AM
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you still have your whole life ahead of you. boyfriends are hard work sometimes. they are also wonderful. your time will come; just be patient.

good luck!! :)
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 09:04 AM
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You are normal. School is more important now. You will meet great guys later so don't worry about it
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 04:24 PM
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it take patience and time.......but what do i know i'm only 13
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 05:13 PM
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education is first, after you get enough of that, i guess dating wouldn't ruin your grades. and yeah, i am sure you are perfectly normal =)
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 06:57 PM
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i didn't have my first boyfriend until i was 16
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 07:07 PM
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awww no worries. i know peoples who didnt start dating till their 20's O_o
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 07:35 PM
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trust me ur not the onlii one, dont feel left out, nd once ur dating, u cant flirt!
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 08:10 PM
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cry.gif awwwwwwww don't worry! I don't have a bf yet and never had 1st kiss and I'm 16 but hey, look on the bright side! You get to flirt! make fun of your friends' bf (jokingly) and they can't mock you back since you have no bf! LOL! Being single is great! Once you're tied down... all those other wonderful fishies will be caught by someone else... sad.gif
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 10:34 PM
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That helped, especially knowing other girls 16 and up haven't gone out with anyone before. I just want my first guy to count, and I guess I have more incentive to endure waiting.
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THANKS EVERYONE!!
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 10:36 PM
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of course =] just because you haven't had a boyfriend before and you don't have one now doesn't mean that you won't have one later. just show some signs if you're really desperate ;]
 
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post Dec 1 2004, 10:40 PM
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..=X i can't say anything about my experiences..(i'm 14 and have had 3) but it's fine if you haven't. it's actually much less of a hassle and gives you a lot less stress. besides, you can flirt with whoever you want and no one can say anything =P
 
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