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 Jan 27 2005, 07:10 AM
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 No Nose =[  Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,291  |
Well, I like this guy in my school. His a good friend of mine. We went out and lasted for about a week because he liked his ex girlfriend again. Now he told me he likes me again, but then the liking keeps going on and off. Meaning, he likes me, next second, he doesn't, then he does again. I really want to be with him, but I'm kinda getting tired waiting. What do I do?
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Jan 27 2005, 07:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
One thing- Don't let him think you'll always be there waiting for him when he's ready, because he might take advantage of that. I suggest you talk to him about it and tell him that you are tired of waiting, and he needs to make up his mind, because you are moving on. It may not be true, but it might get him thinking about what he really wants!
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 27 2005, 08:20 AM
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guy can't f*cking make up his mind. Make his a$$ pick so you can get on with your life. No ONE guy is worth waiting for. There million's of us.
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Jan 27 2005, 09:02 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if you're tired of waiting, then move on.
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Jan 27 2005, 10:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,446 |
my gf did that and expects me to stay there in case she likes me again. doesn't work taht way
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Jan 27 2005, 10:44 AM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
dont wait for him ... there are much more better guys than him and yu deserve better than a guy who doesnt know his own stupid feelings
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Jan 27 2005, 10:54 AM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
everyone is saying that dont wait for him and just give upp on him.. but its not that easyy.. you will always just have that feeling.. mah adviceee.. do wat you have to doo.. if you feel that deep in your heart that you like him and want to wait for him.. then wait for himmm... hey maybe one day he would decide on how he feels about you and the waiting is worth it.. but in the meanwhile.. try to move on.. but dont forceee.. =D goood luck
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Jan 27 2005, 11:03 AM
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 dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
I think you should totally move on. A guy like that who just keeps going back and forth on a relationship should not be in the "game". You need someone who likes you for a good time or who loves you forever. Don't worry, there will always be someone else. Just try and see agian.
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Jan 27 2005, 04:07 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should think about moving on, don't wait for him if he can't make up his mind. like what lilsweetdevil08 said, a relationship shouldn't be a game, it should be like on and off then on again. it should last a long time
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Jan 27 2005, 04:09 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
......if he's confused, you dont' need to be confused. Let him be confused and let him NOT hurt an innocent heart. Believe me you're worth more than that.
MOVE ON. Plain and simple. Guys are morons I agree...and I'm a guy myself I'm surrounded by it every day. Let him willow in his own puddle of confusion. I looked at what you said, and you said "Want to be with him." wanting and needing are two different worlds. Do you NEED him in your life so bad that you're willing to put your heart on the brink of being hurt? Think about it.....I wouldnt trust this guy as far as you could throw him. Let him go thus saying...there are so many other guys out there you can explore and get to know, that ARE settled. They are out there. You need to look =) -Kevyn |
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Jan 27 2005, 04:24 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You're no waiting person...no backup..just move on. Accept the fact that he's indecisive and probably doesnt even have much feelings toward you to not be able to pick you over his Ex. There's alot of other guys out there..why tired yourself waiting?
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Jan 27 2005, 06:10 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
in other words, ur his rebound girl? damn, thats not good. that isn't love...he's..well, in my eyes, just using u as a temporary person to "love" until he gets back with his ex. break it. and tell him.
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Jan 27 2005, 07:07 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 27 2005, 8:45 AM) One thing- Don't let him think you'll always be there waiting for him when he's ready, because he might take advantage of that. I suggest you talk to him about it and tell him that you are tired of waiting, and he needs to make up his mind, because you are moving on. It may not be true, but it might get him thinking about what he really wants!  Agreed and well said.
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Jan 27 2005, 09:41 PM
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No Nose =[ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,291 |
Thankyou guys. I am gonna move on. Though, why do you guys keep saying the world LOVE. I just like him a lot, sillay.
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Jan 27 2005, 10:26 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
tired of waiting?
try ur best to get over him. he's going to keep doing this. |
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Jan 27 2005, 11:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
move on..but if its that serious, that u like him nd all...talk to him kuz u dnt wanna wait rite?
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 28 2005, 02:41 AM
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yeah your best bet is to move on, even though it is much easier said than done. i kinda know how you feel...i had a situation somewhat like that happen to me before...well sorta. but yeah...
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