my boyfriend fergets im there |
 Jan 23 2005, 11:58 PM
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 Yea Yea.  Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366  |
okay my boyfriend & i have been going out for almost 4 months now. i love him he loves me, everythings okay. but... we are walking together and then he stops and says hi to this girl he is friends with, i dont like her much but dats not the point. for the 4 secs he goes and says hi to her it feels like i dont even exist. he acts like im not even there. shud i tell him? iono what to do.
edyt// ur all making me sound so bad and jealous while im really not. i didnt say anything to him... i let him have his space. he talks to pleny of ppl i dont care, its jus the way he talks to this girl and seriously starts like looking at her in a way... iono ferget it. |
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Jan 25 2005, 09:40 AM
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ummm haha okay some ppl are being alittle too harsh in their opinions lol so keep it cool ppl!
 haha =) but u get wat they mean right? when they say "OMG UR SUCH A DEMANDING BITCH" hahaha.. they jus dunno how to say it nicely i dunno haha.. but yeah.. it does SOUND like ur *controlling* or watever lol but obviously you're not.. you're jus a normal girlfriend jealous about ur boyfriend talking to another girl (you don't even like) in a different way.. i guess my opinion would be that.. ok it's tricky.. either that. 1. the girl you don't like is the ONE you don't trust so it's making U super paranoid about ur bf thinking HE's the one flirting or however u think of it.. 2. ur bf really is being obvious when he's talking to girl.. obvious enough that ppl would think of it as he's really jus flirting with the chick.. 3... WELL u get wat im getting at! =) ur either just real paranoid (which is freakin normal!) or.. He's jus really flirting with the chick.. or or! the GIRL could be the one jus MAKING it look bad to you.. WOW CEWINEE'S GOT ALOTA THEORIES hAHahh jus wanna help in detail  either way.. you gotta talk to him about it =) IF he's all like "no no we're jus friends. of course i love you. bla bla bla" then check the nxt time u guys see the girl n how he's talking to her.. i mean dont expect him to IGNORE her or anything! k! =) jus see if he's talking to her differently letting u know that nth's going on between them. k? =) gluck =) |
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Jan 25 2005, 06:37 PM
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um....if he does it again...just leave and see if he really noticed and if he does...then say you went to the deli
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Jan 26 2005, 03:39 PM
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Wow, this sounds like I could've written it. My bf and I have been going out for 7 months, but he always brought up his ex while he was talking to me, and blew me off for her twice. I felt so hurt/betrayed, and I didn't talk to him about it until a month ago. He said he honestly had no idea he did that. I won't lie, it still bugs me, but nobody's perfect and if he does want to get back together w/his ex...he's not the guy for me.
I hope it gets better! 
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