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 Jan 26 2005, 07:36 AM
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 Whats wrong with my life?  Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,755  |
last night i was talking to my gf... we dont really talk too much in person because when i approach her she seems to act all diff and shy... Well, she was talking about how seeing me as her bf made it real awkward and she couldnt get the feeling down that she has to be perfect around me.., she says she cant help but be like that.... you see, normally shes this really enthusiastic,hyper girl...... well.. she said that maybe we should break it for a while and just get to be better friends...and maybe go out again later on when we know eachotehr as good friends..... well, ive been soo depressed all nite thinking about this.. and the way she would say "This is so hard... but i think we should..." then just stop and talk about being better friends makes me think that she wants to break up but shes trying to be nice... My head hurts....
 Plz input what u think...... If this is really the end... i'll still love her and probabluy never get over it.....
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Jan 26 2005, 07:53 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
dont worry. you'll get over it eventually. why dont you tell her how you feel...what you wrote here.
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Jan 26 2005, 07:58 AM
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Whats wrong with my life? Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,755 |
thx for the advice... but its just that..... i cant ask her this....... i have no idea if she was serious... and im afraid if i ask.. well, i really dont know how to finish that sentence...... Im just not confident enough to ask.. i guess? ACK i have such a headache right now.
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Jan 26 2005, 08:00 AM
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I used to feel that way around my first boyfriend. My friends said I had like split personalities because I would act so different around him. It's not your fault...she just doesn't want you to think bad about her. It's something she'll have to fix and get over on her own. Just let her know that you'll always care for her.
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Jan 26 2005, 08:04 AM
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Whats wrong with my life? Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,755 |
thx... but im quite a pessimist.... i cant get over if shes trying to break up with me... im just really confused..... my friends were talking to her telling me im this emo person im not ("good thing u didnt break up with him... hed kill himself) and that was before we had this "talk" so maybe she had thoughts about breaking yp before but then wanted to try to bring it in "easily" on me...
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Jan 26 2005, 10:27 AM
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Be better friend, first...
You can still love her... |
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Jan 26 2005, 10:45 AM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
if she feels like she needs some time then give her some timeee.. it doesnt realliii mean that she wants to break up... it could just bee time too sort things out you noe? soo dont worrie... give her time and she would return back to the way she was and maybe you two can try again =D
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Jan 26 2005, 12:57 PM
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if you can be better friends, its okay to let it go for a little while.
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Jan 26 2005, 02:42 PM
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 Skateboarding is NOT a crime!!! Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,515 |
i think that maybe yall should chill out for a while liek b frndz and all and then you know tell her that she doesnt need to be perfect around you cuz shez always perfect or something that will make her think tht yeah i can b myself around him
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Jan 26 2005, 03:06 PM
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yeah she may be trying to actually break up with or just trying to take a break. its hard to tell. but yeah just be a good friend for now and really after that, its your call.
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Jan 26 2005, 03:46 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
You can still love her; just take a break for a while.. get to be better friends with her and then ask her out again :]
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Jan 26 2005, 04:28 PM
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I think you should respect her decision. Maybe when you two are more comfortable around each other..the relationship will run more smoothly? I mean if it ever happens that you two are in a relationship again....
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Jan 26 2005, 04:33 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
maybe you should just try to be friends like she sed..and if that's all you'll ever be then...just get over it...i mean..you cant just dwell over what will never be can you? if you dont go out and explore instead of just keepin her in yur mind all tha time then you never know what or better yet who's gonna past you...get my drift?
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Jan 26 2005, 05:38 PM
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Whats wrong with my life? Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,755 |
thx for the reply everyone..... continue with input if anyone feels like it.. i'd appreciate it... Before we went out we promised taht if we did break up.. that we'd still try to be friends....... Its just that i think shes been avoiding me today.... her friends (who are my friends kind of) approached me today and we started talking.. .tehn i noticed that she was just kind of drifting around ehind them staying some distance away.... Idk.....it might just be because of all the events thatve happened recently... she just found pout 2 of her best friends are moving.... anyway, thx again guys. keep the input coming.. i really love knowing that ppl care.
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