Am I actually..., .. in love? |
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 Dec 19 2004, 01:27 PM
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i never really believed in love, really.
well i had a dream yesterday about my crush, i dreamt that he was sent to the hospital because he had leukemia. And somehow i started to feel really sad, and then everyone rode their bus to the hospital to visit him, and i could't find a bus for myself, then i ran in the rain and i ran across the streets because of my desire to see him. and i didn't know what he will react because we barely even talk, and i know that everyone is going to be there and his crush (who i think is this really pretty mixed girl) will be there too and they will probably hold hands together. and i didn't know what to do, i just kept running.... that was a very weird dream, but... even so, i think i actually care for him... am i in love? |
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| *autumn.* |
Dec 19 2004, 01:50 PM
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Honestly? I doubt it.
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Dec 19 2004, 01:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
^see my point is, doesn't it mean your in love when you really care for someone and you would do a lot of things for them?
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| *autumn.* |
Dec 19 2004, 01:52 PM
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No, because love is more than that. I feel like that for my friends, but I'm not in love with them.
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Dec 19 2004, 01:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
yeah, but i do have a crush on that guy though...
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| *autumn.* |
Dec 19 2004, 01:54 PM
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I think it's just a crush, then. Not love.
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Dec 19 2004, 02:04 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Probably just a crush, like autumn. said.
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Dec 19 2004, 02:10 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
I doubt you're in love. Love is between two people. You don't know if he feels the same way about you.
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Dec 19 2004, 02:14 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
that was just a dream...i highly doubt u r in love. its just a crush.
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Dec 19 2004, 02:22 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
yea its jus a dream. .. dreams dont tell u if ur in love if ur in love u would NOE u r in love
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Dec 20 2004, 02:16 AM
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if u say it's a crush, then it is. haha, why do i keep confusing myself today?
it's a dream.. dreams lie, dont they? *ex. i dreamt i was chased by barney.. ----------------------------------- a heart is not a play thing, a heart is not a toy; but if u want it broken, give it to a boi... if it wasnt supposed to heart ..it wouldnt b called a crush come to my site.. 
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Dec 20 2004, 02:17 AM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
it was just a dream..more than likely you just care a lot about him
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Dec 20 2004, 07:42 AM
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i doubt it, if u r in love u will DEFINATELY know it! no matter what ppl say u WILL know cos there's this feeling,i dont know how to explain it but i dont think u r in love honey
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Dec 20 2004, 08:58 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I think love is so strong, once you find it you'll know it. It might take longer to relizae if your in love...you could have known them forever. Then I guess just one day you know? bleh I've never been in it so what am I saying?
lol, you cant ask US if your in love! It's something you would know.. |
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Dec 20 2004, 09:48 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
*points upward* *nods*
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Dec 20 2004, 10:10 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
... how will I know that i am in love?? i mean, i probably care for him... and and I do like him... i mean, i never really cared for my other crushes before..
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Dec 20 2004, 10:50 AM
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i dont think so. it's just a dream.
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Dec 20 2004, 10:50 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
um i dont call that a love. you're just scared that you will lose him from your life. and btw it's your dream, not the reality...so i cant really say if you are really in love lol. well in your dream.... it doesnt say that you love him. you just dont want to lose him to the other girl. if you know what i mean heh. love means sacrificial heh =]
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Dec 20 2004, 01:47 PM
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 my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 20 2004, 9:10 AM) ... how will I know that i am in love?? i mean, i probably care for him... and and I do like him... i mean, i never really cared for my other crushes before.. one of my friends told me this once "if you can explain love, you're not in it" so yeah...you'll know when you are. |
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Dec 20 2004, 03:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
well....dreams always change you feelings about someone and it is JUST a dream
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Dec 20 2004, 04:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
it could just be a dream. if you care for someone, it doesn't mean that you like them. it means that you are a caring person. so i don't think your in love.
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Dec 20 2004, 04:42 PM
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hmm a crush maybe?
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Dec 20 2004, 05:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i mean, ok, see in dreams, they give you a situation, but like what you do in the dream is what you actually probably would do. So like i am thinking i care for him and i really like him so if you add them together i probably love him??
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Dec 20 2004, 05:36 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Sure, you love him.
As a friend. |
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Dec 20 2004, 05:38 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Personally, I just think that you care about him alot.. not enough to love. In my opinion, love can make people do crazy things, but idk.. that dream.. Think about it.. would you really do that? Would you really run in the rain to find him, and nothing would hold you back? If your parents said no, you couldn't go to see him, would you sneak out? It's all about doing anything for love.
And a dream.. Hey I've had a dream before about a guy I liked... but I never though it was love, even though in that dream, He was hanging off the edge of a cliff and in that dream I faced my fears and went to the edge to save him. Of course, that's in a dream. I'm terribly afraid of heights. Anyway, there's a fine line between like and love. Personally, I think in a dream the situation would be more extreme if you were in love... I still think, just like alot. I believe in the phrase "Love is one heart finding it's other half." I mean, do you honestly think that he's "the one?" Maybe your dreams is telling you that you WANT to be with him, that you want to love him... And true, iheartsimba is correct: you can't ask us if you're in love.. You just know... Only if you're ready to admit that it's love. |
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