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post Jan 18 2005, 10:27 AM
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whistling.gif Uh, this is my first time so i really don't know what to say. Except for the fact that, people go day by day, pretending to be happy, when they are torn up inside. I would know, that's how i live my life 24/7. I feel so vexed pinch.gif like i was born to wallow in misery, be there for every sad event. The sad part is, no one understands. All they can say is, " Oh, I wouldn't know, never happened to me before." But they don't say it nicely, they say it kinda stuck up. I hate that. Don't you? mellow.gif
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 10:58 AM
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so are you asking if i'm hapy? or if i hate it when ppl say things like their happy and your not, ha!
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 12:09 PM
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it's quite annoying.
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 01:44 PM
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maybe you should stop playing the part of a "gothik schoolgirl" ?
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 01:57 PM
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Well you can't expect everyone to understand what you're going through. And unfortunately not everyone will care or even be nice to you about it. If you keep worrying about if anyone will ever understand then you'll never be happy. You should just worry about yourself and what you need to do to make life better for you. I've been through it, everyone has been through it... times in their life where they think no one understands or give a crap. Well I'm pretty happy with my life now.. it took A LOT of hard times to get here but just remember that things will eventually get better if you make it better. There's so much to life...
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 02:29 PM
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well, i think that people exaggerate their feelings too much... ermm.gif

but as for me, there's a lot of crap out there that i had to get through and i know some of it won't be gone until i get out of this idiot place when i'm 18 (if me and my boyfriend can get the money together in time _unsure.gif ) but i'm happy...not all the time but i still consider myself happy
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 03:22 PM
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At the moment I feel both happy and alone
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 03:47 PM
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No one's ever happy on the inside. And I know that I'm not happy, but I wouldn't expect anyone to understand.
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 04:43 PM
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I dont pretend to be happy. When im happy, im happy, but if im not, oh believe me, you'll know it.
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 04:49 PM
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hi, welcome to cB! _smile.gif

and it is annoying stubborn.gif
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 05:50 PM
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umm interesting topic. honestly, Im not happy. im rarely happy. I only pretend so people wont worry about me..

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post Jan 18 2005, 05:54 PM
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Sometimes, i feel that people exaggerate on a lot of there feelings just to get people's attentions. I mean, ive done that myself, purposely and unpurposely. I know that happiness is sometimes easier to reach for some then others because of different factors.
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 06:14 PM
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I definitely know how you feel on this one. But really, the only reason why I put a fake smile on is because 1. i don't want people know what i'm feeling and 2. i keep thinking that if i put a smile on and make it seem like i'm truly happy, then maybe i just will turn happy. but you know, tha'ts never going to happen. you can only be happy if you want to be happy. so, just at least try instead of feeling sorry for yourself. ( that wasn't meant in a rude way...btw.)
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 06:16 PM
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Hm..
I usually appear to be a happy person, but overall.. I'm really not always that happy.
I'm not an annoying optimist, though..
At this point, I hate life.. but I guess people don't think that when they see me walking in the halls at school..

I don't want people to ask questions. That is why I pretend to be happy, or at least neutral..
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 06:42 PM
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yeah. my friend was telling me the other day, that she was hardly ever sad (after this boy was giving her a lecture about her being superficial and hiding whenever shes sad) So she said "why would i pretend to be happy if i am always happy."
yeah quite doubtable. anyway yeah i know a lot of people who are pretty superficial with there feelings.
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 06:45 PM
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i'm never happy
i'm usually in a laughing mood, tired, bored, lazy, sleep, hungry, high.
not really happy.

very interesting topic

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post Jan 18 2005, 06:45 PM
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I think I'm happy with myself and my life at this point in time. Nothing will ever be perfect, and things could be worse.
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 06:49 PM
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I think I'm happy on the inside, but i was just wondering if I am fooling myself blink.gif
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 07:35 PM
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I'm down right depressing...! biggrin.gif Guess it depends on how you want to live your life.... "Ya only live once.."
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 07:38 PM
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QUOTE(omg_melface @ Jan 18 2005, 1:44 PM)
maybe you should stop playing the part of a "gothik schoolgirl" ?
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LOL. Anyway. I try to be happy. I try to make others feel good and not down, but sometimes, it doesn't work. It's ok, just laugh it off...
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 07:46 PM
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yah. i sorta feel how you feel. i sometimes on the outside pretend to act all happy and shit, but really no one understands you ya know. deep inside your sad, cuz theres always somethign missing. =\
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 07:56 PM
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call your local counselors or something, at least they know what to say
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 09:16 PM
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QUOTE(tungtwista @ Jan 18 2005, 7:46 PM)
yah. i sorta feel how you feel. i sometimes on the outside pretend to act all happy and shit, but really no one understands you ya know. deep inside your sad, cuz theres always somethign missing. =\
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post Jan 18 2005, 09:17 PM
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everyone thinks i am happy but deep inside i am living a lie
 
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post Jan 18 2005, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(souldreamers @ Jan 18 2005, 10:57 AM)
Well you can't expect everyone to understand what you're going through.  And unfortunately not everyone will care or even be nice to you about it.  If you keep worrying about if anyone will ever understand then you'll never be happy.  You should just worry about yourself and what you need to do to make life better for you.  I've been through it, everyone has been through it... times in their life where they think no one understands or give a crap.  Well I'm pretty happy with my life now.. it took A LOT of hard times to get here but just remember that things will eventually get better if you make it better.  There's so much to life...
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