Hitting your girlfriend., Has any guy ever done it? Options

[x____Broken_doll]

Well, heres what happened. Me and my boyfriend were arguing over something really reallys stupid, i don't even know why he started shouting at me - but it seriously p!ssed me off. He was saying all these things about our relationship and how i was "locking" him down, if he didn't wanna be in the relationship, he could just leave right? I slapped him in the face and he slapped me right back. I was too shocked to do anything else, so i walked out. It hurts me inside to know that he could even raise his hand to me, but to hurt me.. i think that was too far. I know i hit him first, but i never expected him to hit me back Right now, i don't know what to do... I know we need to speak, but i just can't.

[rockmyx]

Hey, how could he do that to you. he dont have the right to hurt you because he was piss off about your arguement. Why is he making a big fuss about that stupid things (like what you have said). Do you really lockng him up?
whatever the answer is, he stil dont have the right to hurt you.

right, you sould talk to him but not now coz he stil be mad at you, lets say talk to him after 2 days and ask him about your relationship, if you both want to go on or broke up. You two alone can solve this problem.

But if he want to continue your relationship with him, give him a chance and if he hurt you again. leave him! His not worth your love. there are lots of guys who can love you more that he can.

[MeanBastard]

You slapped him first. What doesn't give him the right to slap you back?

[Shattered_Hope]

if you're fighting with your b/f and you hit him..know that he will hit you back..no one can control their anger..especially when you hit him first........meh, I may be a girl but I'm not gonna just be sexist and say you're right without thinking about his situation...meh, you both need to apologize...his fault he started the argument and your fault you hit him first..

[inthemudhole]

Dude, it's basically your fault for hitting him.
Chances are that he probably wouldn't even hit you at all.
I don't exactly blame him for hitting you back.

[sadolakced acid]

well, i'll tell you my code of ethics about hitting girls.

1. hitting for no reason, if it isn't hard, is ok.
2. don't hit, poke (if possible)
3. if she hits you, you can hit her back equally hard.


so basically. you slapped him.

[Levy2k6]

a reason guy usually hits back because guys dont like to get hit.

its like a girl hit you and u did nothing about it, now u have a weakness or something people can make fun of u about it. there's other ways to work it without hitting them tho.

i dont like to get slapped but i wont do nothing about it, i'll just **** at them about it until they get annoyed and apologize.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

when someone is angry, u dont go slappin the person...odds are ur gonna recieve something in return...lol...

im sure he didnt intend to hurt u, but maybe u should just dump him

[rockmyx]

when someone is angry, u dont go slappin the person...odds are ur gonna recieve something in return...lol...

im sure he didnt intend to hurt u, but maybe u should just dump him

yeah dump him and find a new one who can love you better

[xj_liana_tx]

yeah it's wrong that you slapped him, but.. he should've been tolerant! he may turn violent, you need to watch out for that

[me1issaaaa]

well... hitting him wasn't exactly the way you should've gone, so i can kind of see why he did it, but that still doesn't give him the right to hit you back. he should have been the one to back off and just leave it at that, but he crossed the line.

DUMP HIM. if he's not afraid to hit you, there's no telling what else he might have the nerve to do. don't take that chance.

[silver-rain]

well, it was kinda your fault for hitting him first. but you should talk to him about it, and i agree- dump him if you think that he might do it again. ehh, i don't think its right to hit your girlfriend at all, luckily my boyfriend hasn't done it.

[lilJdawg]

OH GOODNESS, he hit you? Dump him if you think he'll ever do it again, even though you hit him first, he shouldn't have hitten you back. Talk to him in person, "Look we need to talk." yeah, that should work.

[teeners4]

if you slapped him, he is entitled the right to slap you back. if he punched you or anything, that would be wrong.

[sexymixelix]

You slapped him first. What doesn't give him the right to slap you back?

i'm sorry but i'd have to agree. in this day and age women seem to be getting a lot more agressive in relationships and they are taking measures to their own hands. i don't think he has a right to hit you if you didn't do anything before to provoke him (ie : slap, hit, punch, whatever). now if you were both arguing and he hit you first then that's really F'ed up, buit since you slapped him first i'm sure the first thing that came to mind was to do the same thing right back. i'm sure he wasn't thinking. just be careful, and if this problem keeps going then i'd suggest you leave the relationship before it becomes an abusive one. also you might want to talk to him first and see if he's sorry for what happened and why he did it. like i said maybe it was just a reaction from heated argument.

[a smile is power]

if you're fighting with your b/f and you hit him..know that he will hit you back..no one can control their anger..especially when you hit him first........meh, I may be a girl but I'm not gonna just be sexist and say you're right without thinking about his situation...meh, you both need to apologize...his fault he started the argument and your fault you hit him first

I can control my anger.



but anyway, on topic. you shouldn't have hit him, that never solves anything. but a guy should never hit a girl, even if she hit him first. that makes him seem really low. its an unspoken rule of edicate: guys dont hit girls. ever heard that before? but as i said, you shouldnt have hit him either.

[sadolakced acid]

and why shouldn't guys hit girls, if they hit him first?

that's quite old fashioned...

yes, it's etiquette. it's old etiquette too.

[MeanBastard]

yeah it's wrong that you slapped him, but.. he should've been tolerant! he may turn violent, you need to watch out for that

I don't know about you. But most guys are not tolerant if they are slapped out of no where. I ain't going to stand around getting my ass beat.

[TrustU2HurtMe]

If I was a guy I would have hit you too. I kneed my boyfriend in the balls and he punched my tits. He was holding back, but he still feels horrible about it. He shouldn't though. He has the right to defend himself, or whatever.

[HongKongDong]

WHat does it matter if your a girl? You females want equal rights then being hit should be no problem.

Why should you be shocked? You slapped him, he retaliated. Thigns getting physical isn't the way to go though. Shouldn't of slapped him in the first place.

[shortiiex]

he probably wasn't thinking straight, it is just a reflex he has to do

[_sarcastic_]

you can't exactly blame him for hitting you, i mean you slapped him first.

[Cinnamoneyes]

wow I disagree with so many people on this. Yes you hit him.. but I dont think he should've hit you back. So many guys I know tell me they could never ever hit a girl. And they'd hate another guy if they knew they'd hit a girl. So I think it wasnt right for him to slap you back.

[sadolakced acid]

well; are guys just suppose to let girls beat on them?

[Mini]

as the third law of physics explains:
with every action, there is an opposite and equal reaction.


so expect to get hit back.. especially when both individuals are angered and pissed off.