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 Jan 15 2005, 04:07 PM
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So.. I asked this boy to the school dance after school yesterday and he said he doesn't know because he's not sure he'll be in town. I was planning to have a group of friends come over and I called him that night and asked if he wanted to go... conversation kind of went like this :
Me : Hey are you busy tonight? Him : Nothing really. Me : Well, I was wondering if you wanted to come over and hang out with everyone... Him : What are we going to do? Me : Movie Him : I dunno I'll have to think about it Me : okay, so have you thought about going with me to the dance Him : Yeah I dont think I'm going to go, I dont like those sort of things, the only dance I'll probably go to is Prom. Me : Oh okay then, so when will you know if you want to hang out. Him : Hmm.. lemme think about it,*laughs* ... *pause* well I think I'm just going to stay home tonight because I'm pretty tired, thanks for inviting me though. Call me next weekend and I'm sure I can hang out then. Me : .. next weekend is the dance *laughs* Him : oh yeah! *laughs* well ... Me : *laughs* well then I guess I'll talk to you later.. or.. tomorrow.. uhm.. whenever I see you? Him : *laughs* okay, later *hung up* Do you think he's avoiding me? and... should i ditch the dance to hang out with him next weekend? advice on what to do? |
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Jan 15 2005, 04:12 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
Well...
I, personally, dont think he's trying to avoid you. If you want to go with him then I'd go, maybe ask one of his friends if he likes you. umm.advice.. dont take things too fast? good luck 
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Jan 15 2005, 04:15 PM
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 Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
Honestly, he is trying to avoid you. What an ass. Why not just tell you he's not interested? Oh well, he doesn't seem like he's worth it anyways.
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Jan 15 2005, 04:25 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
avoiding u. u might wanna let up on asking him so much. he might like, snap at u.
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Jan 15 2005, 04:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Go to the dance with another guy. It's his loss if anything happens. Just have fun with someone else. :]
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Jan 15 2005, 06:43 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think he's *coughs* avoiding *coughs* you...
 I'm sry...But when guys are like this..they're not interested but they dont have the guts to tell you face to face...meh, they'll be other guys that wont be like this. Hmm...but there's always the other possibility...he being in shock that you asked him to this dance..and he's doesnt want to do anything wrong to turn you off...try giving him a little space...be more patient and see what happens...
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Jan 15 2005, 07:47 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, it sounds like he's avoiding you. if you really like him, try to hang out with him next weekend, but if you want to go to the dance, find another guy.
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Jan 15 2005, 09:03 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
He sin't interested in you.
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Jan 15 2005, 10:44 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
he sounds like he's avoiding you
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Jan 16 2005, 12:43 AM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
dont get your hopes up. think about it, if a guy u like asked u to go out, u would drop any plans u had in a heartbeat, wouldnt you? i hate to be pessemistic but i dont want to give u false hope.
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Jan 16 2005, 02:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
Who cares?
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Jan 16 2005, 02:54 AM
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i think he is avoiding you or not interested in you. Thats pretty sad but that the way lof life.
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Jan 16 2005, 04:59 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
maybe he just doesnt like you that way?
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Jan 16 2005, 06:05 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i think that he's avoiding you and just doesnt like you..
he seems like a jerk to me |
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Jan 16 2005, 06:34 PM
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yeah i don't think he likes you like that...otherwise he'd probably have said yes to either of the things you invited him to.
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Jan 16 2005, 07:45 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE Do you think he's avoiding me? yes or he just doesnt like you and just dont want to do NE thin to u to make u get ideas. *shrug* |
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Jan 17 2005, 01:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
hez making a excuse not to go with u...
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