Ex-bestfriend/friends/trust, i really need your thoughts on this mess |
 Jan 17 2005, 12:25 AM
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I been friends with this girl for like years now, we been very close and all, then a few years ago, she started to change and acted real mean to me and all. She started keeping secrets away from me, and i felt really bad about this but i tried moving on. Then as stupid as i was, i told her that i liked one of her friends for a while. It didnt bother me, because she was dating at the time. A month after she broke up with her guy, for reason i didnt kno, we had this HUGE fight, and i didnt even kno what it was based on, funny thing is that i still dont kno. Then i found out that the reason of the fight and the breakup with her man was because she liked the guy i like. I was completly crush that she messed up a good friendship over a guy. She also told every one that i would not be trusted at all, in which no one does now. Well time went on and we went to high school, we are in like every class and all, so we were able to be friends again a bit. My other bestfriend, started to date her ex, because they had feeling for each other for a while, while the other dated her brother. I kinda felt her pain and all but went on with life. Then her brother cheated on my friend and well it was so all drama movie crap. The thing is, she and her brother best friend team up so he could cheat on the girl. When i found this out from her i had to tell her the reason why he broke up with her. My best friend broke down in tears, and in the process said that my exfriend is bi, im really confuse on wut to do because i feel guilty, on this all, she told everyone but me, and i feel left out, but i dont kno if i should tell her that i kno she bi and that i told my friend the truth. Chances are that she gonna hate me even more and never trust me. i kno there a lot more thing that r kept away from me i need other people thoughts on this, and sry if u get confuse on this all.
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Jan 17 2005, 12:35 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
please learn how to type...
 My thoughts on this: Teens have so much drama....*gasp* I feel so left out..meh, not really.. 
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Jan 17 2005, 12:44 AM
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 »»»»»»»»»»» Group: Member Posts: 557 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,261 |
Oh no! Another one of those best friends, hot guys, ex-relationships, teen problems....
Life is obviously over, just kill yourself. (sarcasm) |
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Jan 17 2005, 01:37 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well umm....
 i thought you weren't friends anymore... am i missing something?  do you have to tell anyone anything...? i mean you already told that friend that her ex was cheating on her... isn't that enough? you dont have to get your other friend into it either... so yea dont tell... i guess... 
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Jan 17 2005, 01:41 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
true friends wouldn`t do "stuff" like that. get over her and get a new best friend! there are like over a billion people in the world and there`s bound to be someone TEN TIMES BETTER than that so-called friend of yours.
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Jan 17 2005, 03:37 AM
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 nOW wHY tHE hELL aRE tHEY bLINKIN'!?! Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,739 |
QUOTE Life is obviously over, just kill yourself. i love it!! haha A+++ lol it'll blow over eventually and youll either laugh about it or cry over it when your 30+ |
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Jan 17 2005, 01:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE please learn how to type... ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ calm down man...juz worry bout ya self, nd not how people type...f*kin annoyin...well nywayz, the same happened wit me..juz moveon nd dnt worry bout her...i moved on kuz my ex best friend is too selfish...kept worrying bout haself.....knt handle it wen people too selfish nd not carin wif others.. |
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Jan 17 2005, 02:04 PM
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i think you should just move on & enjoy life as is. put all the drama behind you.
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Jan 17 2005, 10:15 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
uhh enjoy life while u can....o and get new friends...lol....well good luck...
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Jan 17 2005, 10:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,084 |
i personally do not believe in BEST friends. .ive stopped believeing a while back
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Jan 18 2005, 07:21 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
dont get it.
me n my (ex)friend just fought over something stupid. a song. she accused me of copying it from her. i think. then she got all mad at me and stuff, and we didnt talk anymore. well now we do a bit.. but not as much as we used to, plus we dont hang out anymore. sad... but true. u've just gotta get over things like that. yes i kno, life sux. |
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Jan 18 2005, 02:56 PM
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 love sucks...big time jessir.. Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,644 |
it was to scrambled for me to finish reading >_<
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Jan 18 2005, 03:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
*cough*relationshipforum*cough*
Seems you have so much drama....seems like everyone is a backstabber |
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Jan 18 2005, 03:36 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
too much drama, reduce it some, get new friends! i advise it!
but if this is totally normal to you then you can handle it for a couple more years... |
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Jan 18 2005, 04:47 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
that was hard to read...anywho well from what i understood you let something slip that shouldnt have slipped, your bad and she may get angry. but you shouldnt have said anything so i guess just go with the flow. if it doesnt concern you then dont try to be apart of it that would just cause more drama and next time keep yo mouth shout
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Jan 18 2005, 05:27 PM
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hey your not alone same w/ me and my ex-bestfriend she stared to talk about me use me to get to another friend cuz i live in washington and she lives in orgon adn she says our friendship is bad becuz i go to kpcc (korean prebytrian church) and its not its her and her NEW best friend and her new berst frined it like killing our friendship me and her are still friends but its just a stage every 12-14 year old gose though dont feel sad tell her the truth
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