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 Jan 7 2005, 07:05 PM
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Do boys have this little "unwritten code" that a guy's friend can't date his ex-girlfriend.
Um, example: My ex-bf's best friend is my crush and I wanna ask him out. o.O Is that wrong? For girls, it's wrong to date a friend's ex-bf. Soooo.. is it? |
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| *krnxswat* |
Jan 7 2005, 07:12 PM
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Sure; see how it complicated it can get.
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Jan 8 2005, 04:02 AM
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 omw to be an offical member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,817 |
yeah guys have a code where u cant date someones x it's just not right or cool u know, so same rule should apply to women to. thats what i think. but to me if it was like only a month or less and he asked if it was ok and i thought he was a cool dude or a a great friend then sure why not but if i knew he was bad for her then no. so yeah :)
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Jan 8 2005, 04:20 AM
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 Yes. this is me. Group: Member Posts: 154 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,940 |
No friend's exes, no exes friends, no friend's family, and DEFINATELY no family.
I'M OUT BIACH! |
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Jan 8 2005, 10:41 AM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
I say why not; you dont like your ex anymore. He should get/be over you. Go ahead and make yourself happy.
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Jan 8 2005, 11:04 AM
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if it wasn't a serious thing then it should be ok if your friend asks your ex out or whatever.
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Jan 8 2005, 01:00 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
be true to your heart.
UNLESS she dumped him. Then stick w/ who will be there with you to the end. Best Friends over Girlfriends |
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Jan 8 2005, 02:50 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
It can be vise versa too. The girls do not date the ex-boyfriends, or whatever.
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| *salcha* |
Jan 8 2005, 08:52 PM
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huh. go ahead and try it ouut...
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Jan 9 2005, 03:17 AM
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listen to your soul
it'd show you the direction w/e your mind tells you works |
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Jan 9 2005, 08:16 AM
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go for it, your ex can't stop you from liking someone else
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Jan 9 2005, 12:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,783 |
well, its a guy and if you like him and he likes you then who gives a flip if its your ex's best friend
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Jan 9 2005, 02:28 PM
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 I have eccentric ideas... Group: Member Posts: 169 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,035 |
Yeah... It just depends on the situation more than anything... Depends on your ex, and the ex's friend... Because the friend may not date you just because of his friend, but he might too... So yeah...
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Jan 12 2005, 01:02 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(tooeffingcrazy @ Jan 8 2005, 3:50 PM) It can be vise versa too. The girls do not date the ex-boyfriends, or whatever.  ^ Agreed. It's just common courtesy to not date your friend's ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. |
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Jan 12 2005, 03:40 AM
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the rules are stupid. just what it says in the bible. does the bible say u cant date ur ex's best friend?? no... i dont think so.
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Jan 12 2005, 09:56 AM
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 .original//wanksta. Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,318 |
I'll always think of that as a no-no. Luckily, none of my friends have the same taste as I do.
 Whoot!
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Jan 12 2005, 12:48 PM
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 i ish bored Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,210 |
you just confuzzled me
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Jan 12 2005, 04:29 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
There is no un-written rule, it just depends on how cool the ex-bf is on you dating his best-friend.
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Jan 12 2005, 05:07 PM
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QUOTE(someflipguy @ Jan 12 2005, 3:29 PM) There is no un-written rule, it just depends on how cool the ex-bf is on you dating his best-friend. ^ what flip said. most guys usually do have a problem if you both just broke up and you want to date his friend. usually if the guy is mature enough he won't care. oh yeah and in my opinion, you should go for it. who cares what he thinks, you two are over and you both should be mature enough to move on with your lives |
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Jan 12 2005, 05:12 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 9 2005, 8:16 AM) go for it, your ex can't stop you from liking someone else Exactly. You are not with that person or your friend is not anymore so go for it |
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| *Podomaht* |
Jan 12 2005, 05:43 PM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Jan 12 2005, 3:40 AM) the rules are stupid. just what it says in the bible. does the bible say u cant date ur ex's best friend?? no... i dont think so. Uh...where'd you get the Bible from this? |
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Jan 12 2005, 05:54 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 7 2005, 7:12 PM) Sure; see how it complicated it can get. yeah, it gets pretty complicated! 
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Jan 12 2005, 11:26 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
it really depends on your friends and why they broke up and stuff. most friends dont care tho.
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Jan 13 2005, 01:49 AM
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Sure, why not?
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Jan 14 2005, 06:06 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
nononono...how would u feel if ur ex went after ur friend? ud prolly feel jealous even if u dont like ur ex anymore.
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