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 Jan 18 2005, 01:00 PM
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darn.. that MUST stink.. well im not allowd to have boys over my hose... (dont ask) well anyways i feel bad for ya
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Jan 18 2005, 02:32 PM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(travnewmatic @ Jan 18 2005, 10:48 AM) i know i didnt quote your entire thing, but, how is not getting drunk, pregnant, and killed bad advice? and yeah, i think 19 is getting up there. not old persay, but thats getting to be about the age to start stepping out of your parents comfort zone. they know whats best for you, yes, but the whole point of parenting is to pass on to you the skills necesary so that you will be able to make those decisions by yourself when your parents arent there to tell you what to do.  wow!!! ok let say her parent will not be there for her forever but aslong as she live with them. She should not break their heart and their trust. if she reach the right age to be independent then her parent will give it to her but until then, she should listen to her parents coz they know what is right for her |
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Jan 19 2005, 02:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
will somebody please tell me how old this girl is?
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Jan 19 2005, 03:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,863 |
Heh-heh wow.. arguments in this room..! I do say there is a big difference on how things should be handled if your parents are Asian or what not.. but on the subject..
Thinking a group is sooo cool and popular and that you must follow is just stupid and lame... if you intend on doing that, you will just be a follower for the rest of your life.. trying to live in other peoples shoes...trying to be who u are not.. and you will just be a walking bag of lies... Do it because you want too, not because "they are cool" If you have this kind of guilt already.. i recommend just forgetting about it.. (Not geared towards having someone as an idol or someone to look up at.. different situation..) |
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Jan 19 2005, 04:12 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Trying to fit in should be the least of your problems. Trying to be you should be the solution. Don't change for noboday. Be yourself. If these cool "friends", if that's what they even are, should understand that you can't go to the party because of the boy problems. And lying is just horrible. They will eventually find out; and the problem would be worse then. So just tell the truth and explain to your friends what you told us- if they were your real "friends", they would understand. If they just get mad at you, then ditch them and make new ones =).
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