Hes cheating on her..., i need help please... |
 Jan 11 2005, 07:27 PM
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 Skateboarding is NOT a crime!!!  Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,515  |
I like this girl and i found out that her boy friend was cheating on her he was like feeling up this girl and trust me you dont want the details
 .... me and this girl are best friends and i really like her and dont want her to get hurt but her boy friend said that if i told her that he would make the rest of my life miserable... i dont mind living a horrible life if she is happy but i really need someones help and none of my friends believe me... do u think i should tell her???  
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Jan 11 2005, 07:30 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Really. I think you should tell her.
The guy's just an a-hole. If he does anything to you, or threatens you.. definitely tell someone. |
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Jan 11 2005, 07:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
if you don't care about how miserable your life is, just for her happiness, i think that's really sweet! I think it's a good idea to tell her. She would really appreciate it and know that she could trust you! But in the end it doesn't matter if your friends believe you, because that has nothing to do with them.
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Jan 11 2005, 08:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell the girl that the guy is cheating on her. If you want to be a best friend, you have to protect her. I think telling her whats really going on will be the best. Think about it, if u let the girl know, the guy will ruin ur life. I think its worth saving ur friend from him and see what this guy (he probably like 4'1 and weight 30 pounds so i doubt he will do NE thin. its his fault if she finds out NE wayz) will do to ya.
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Jan 11 2005, 09:22 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
like what everyone else said, tell her, that's what friends do, look out for each other...
don't be scared of some dude who can't stay true to his girl...what kind of man is he if he's not brave enough to break off a relationship before starting another?
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Jan 11 2005, 10:14 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should def. tell her, she definately deserves someone better (like you) than him.
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Jan 11 2005, 10:18 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You should tell her becuz she deserves to know..you're her best friend and so you have to tell her even though there's a chance that she might get mad or not believe you...it's a chance you have to take. At least then you'll know you did the right thing..
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Jan 11 2005, 10:28 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
You should tell her. Because if she finds out, the boyfriend will say that you knew. Then she will yell at you and go "I hate you! Why didn't you tell me?!" Trust me, its better if you tell her.
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Jan 11 2005, 10:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I think you should tell her. She has the right to know. Might as well get hurt now than later. That mother ... JERK!
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Jan 11 2005, 10:49 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
heh. just watch out, she might not believe you.
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Jan 11 2005, 11:01 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 11 2005, 8:49 PM) heh. just watch out, she might not believe you.  yeah i think you should tell her but i agree with what i quoted. if she knows that you do like her she might be ignorant about her bf and just choose not to believe you because she might think you want to break them up so you can get with her, y'know? so just be careful when you tell her. maybe get proof somehow? |
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Jan 11 2005, 11:18 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yes i think she deserves to know. if you really are her friend you should tell because the longer you wait the more hurt she'll be
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Jan 12 2005, 03:07 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
seems like u already made the decision to tell her.
ohh and btw, buy a tape recorder and record it the next time her future exboyfriend says anything rude like that again. play it to her. |
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Jan 13 2005, 07:24 PM
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Skateboarding is NOT a crime!!! Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,515 |
thanks alot yall i really needed that support
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