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post Jan 10 2005, 01:16 AM
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i'm so tired of people wanting romantic, intimate, loving relationships that always end up in the ground.

i think i'm gonna want my life to be full of fun, no-obligation relationships. happy loving, man. that's the way to do it.

the thought of marriage scares me. come to think of it, why in the world am i even thinking about things like this. i don't know. my friends say that it's a sign that i'm irresponsible and reckless. ohmy.gif what do you think?

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post Jan 10 2005, 01:18 AM
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post Jan 10 2005, 01:20 AM
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I think those no-obligation-&-no-emotional-attatchment relationships are the best. Too bad I've always gotten to emotionally involved. stubborn.gif
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 01:27 AM
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post Jan 10 2005, 01:34 AM
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i think getting hurt is inevitable but luckily I haven't found myself in that situation for a while...let me not jinx what I have.
anyway, its okay to think about not wanting to be committed, you're probably still young so i guess, have fun!
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 03:02 AM
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QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 10 2005, 1:16 AM)
i'm so tired of people wanting romantic, intimate, loving relationships that always end up in the ground.

i think i'm gonna want my life to be full of fun, no-obligation relationships. happy loving, man. that's the way to do it.

the thought of marriage scares me. come to think of it, why in the world am i even thinking about things like this. i don't know. my friends say that it's a sign that i'm irresponsible and reckless. ohmy.gif  what do you think?

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I agree with you. I had two very fulfilling relationship in the past four years...but they both fell apart. When you pour so much love affection into a relatioship, it hurts a hell of a lot worse when you get burned that if you're in some relatioship that you're not expecting to really last.

In the long run, I don't see myself getting married. Marriage simply isn't that high on my priority list. Now...friends with benefits I can live with... wink.gif
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 03:32 AM
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but if u dont love / has feelings for the person u're having a relationship with, why have a relationship? and yeah.. marriage is about being commited.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 06:05 AM
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QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 10 2005, 1:16 AM)
the thought of marriage scares me. come to think of it, why in the world am i even thinking about things like this. i don't know. my friends say that it's a sign that i'm irresponsible and reckless. ohmy.gif  what do you think?

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i don't think it's a sign that you're irresponsible and reckless, i guess it just shows that you're not ready for such a commitment yet
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 11:14 AM
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i don't think it's a sign that you're irresponsible and reckless, i guess it just shows that you're not ready for such a commitment yet
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Agreed...How old are you anyways? If you are under the age of 20 wth would you be thinking about marriage right now. I was with my ex for 5 year, got engaged, tried on my wedding dress...however once we were looking at invitations he left me...I was 19. Bastard. However now I am in a great relationship, not even mentioning marriage and we a completly happy.

like everyone else stated I do not think its because you are irresponsible and reckless, I think your mind is just telling you that you are NOT ready for that type of commitment. Dont rush it! happy.gif
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 04:27 PM
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QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jan 10 2005, 10:14 AM)
Agreed...How old are you anyways?  If you are under the age of 20 wth would you be thinking about marriage right now.  I was with my ex for 5 year, got engaged, tried on my wedding dress...however once we were looking at invitations he left me...I was 19.  Bastard.  However now I am in a great relationship, not even mentioning marriage and we a completly happy.

like everyone else stated I do not think its because you are irresponsible and reckless, I think your mind is just telling you that you are NOT ready for that type of commitment.  Dont rush it! happy.gif
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actually i don't "think" about marriage.

just casually, when talking about things and if relationships ever come up, i'm like "i'm not getting married". the same way people say when they're young "i'm never having kids" or "i'm gonna be a millionare when i'm an adult". it's not a really serious thought yknow.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 04:54 PM
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im just having fun now, when im 20 or so i will hope to have a serious relationship. right now i know trying to get serious wont work
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 05:30 PM
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Yeah. I agree.

I'm going to start to get a bit more serious by college, or so.. I guess. ermm.gif
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 08:07 PM
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yehh its all about keeping a promise for the rest of your life!1 i dont think i can do that!..but its worth a try if i get marride!!
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 08:29 PM
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Isn't that a one night stand? IDk. i just want to enjoy it.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Jan 10 2005, 3:32 AM)
but if u dont love / has feelings for the person u're having a relationship with, why have a relationship? and yeah.. marriage is about being commited.
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yep...agree with her...

yeah, i admit, its nice having "attention" but if you dont WANT it to last...then DONT DO IT!
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(Despise @ Jan 10 2005, 5:30 PM)
Yeah. I agree.

I'm going to start to get a bit more serious by college, or so.. I guess. ermm.gif
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College is the wrong time to be getting a bit more serious, at least in my opinion. There are waaay too many options in college, besides you'll still be young. College is a time to have fun and test the waters.

But yeah, I don't see myself getting married right now. I'm almost 19, that's a bit young to be thinking long term, relationship-wise.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 09:08 PM
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i think i'm literally incapable of having a love-free relationship of any kind. seriously, i tried it. i fell hard. its not cool! i'm a bit of commitment freak i think
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 09:14 PM
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happy sex? o ya melissa
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 09:24 PM
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i don't know.. i guess you have your points but ierno im a hopeless romantic.. ahhh noo your boogling my mind!
 
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QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 10 2005, 1:27 AM)
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you can't prevent yourself from getting hurt...you'll eventually get sick of the one night stands and miss having someone who truly loves you...like on valentine's day...



i'm only 16 but i have a loving relationship with my boyfriend, i wouldn't want to trade that in for a few guys i won't see again...
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 10:40 PM
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Like most of the people...I agree with what you say...non committed relationships are way easier than committed one. You don't expect it to last so if it does end, you wont be in such a bad situation. Meh, single and noncommittal is the way to be.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 10:42 PM
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QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Jan 10 2005, 8:14 PM)
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yep, mercedes. CAREFREE, NO-OBLIGATION, HAPPY SEX.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 10:48 PM
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Don't get married until YOU think your ready & don't have sex 'til YOU think your ready. simple as that.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 11:01 PM
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